I'm not going to copy and paste the entire message, because a good portion of it deal with moving in some way? So if you are in a situation where you are physically moving house, then you can read the portion below, and if not then you can skip to the next section:

...So the way it’s showing up now is that there was an emotionally fulfilling relationship, and there’s definitely something involving a relocation that was possibly even long distance, and it was such a drawn out argument that cause it to possibly end...and for those of you where this isn’t romantic, it’s more like one person isn’t budging with a living situation and it’s not helping either of you. There’s an agreement and it keeps being changed by someone.

For those who are not dealing with any sort of relocation, the rest of the messages can be applied below

**This should be used for general guidance or insight into a situation, NOT as an answer**

Original Q: How you are viewing this dynamic Original A: You have two cards here that speak to quick mood changes and ones that are reliant on external things...However when it’s unbalanced it can do it too much for reasons unknown to the querent. So this combination gives me signs of someone who might be basing their emotional reaction on the other person — so they may not usually be upset by someone leaving an empty jug in the fridge but with this person in particular, it can piss them off... Your person is showing up as someone who might’ve gone through a change recently? Or...I will take this in two ways. It could be someone who might’ve recently changed their ways of viewing things and they’re trying to be more diplomatic about it. Or this could be someone who is trying to get out of this diplomatic energy because they are the unbalanced version of a Libra; the one that pleases others too much which can cause this frustration within you. Let’s say you both agreed on spending less or not going back to a certain place to eat, but a friend requested to do the exact opposite and this person immediately OK’d it. I can see how that causes a welling of irritation.

Original Q: How is this dynamic truly playing out Original A: Person A seems to have been trying to hold onto this and were the one who might’ve been voicing their (honest) feelings the most in this dynamic. They’re showing up as someone who is willing to take action and even when this fell through, it’s something that they wanted to do so...they’re going to continue on with it anyway. At some point they have as felt cornered by the other party or like they were asking for too much because I’m staring at this person in the middle of the five of wands instead of the whole card. Regardless, very straight-forward. Person B just seems very unprepared and like they wanted to make the other person happy but they never expressed themselves when they should’ve. The best way to explain The Lovers is that they felt overwhelmed, I don’t want to say trapped. It might be that Person A just took up more space in this situation? Like when the waiter comes to ask if everyone is ok and someone goes yes without checking on everyone else, this person might not have the strength to cut in and ask for something, so they get overpowered by Person A often, but I don’t think Person A would’ve minded that (honestly it feels like they were pushing for them to fight back). So a lot of cancellations happened which dampened Person A’s — it affected how they thought Person B felt towards them. With everything that came with the ‘move’ (or some sort of stronger commitment) they seem like they weren’t ready and it implied a lot more so they tried to force breaks on it indirectly. It feels like the ‘can’t we still date and just not that blahblahblah’ and Person A wasn’t messing with that, is all.

Again, if this isn’t romantic it can be translated into having to pay rent and think about having a shared space or be responsible for things they’ve never had to be responsible for, or a parent not ready for a child to venture off on their own (ten of pentacles was clarified by the hierophant so).

Original Q: General Guidance Original A: Don’t forget how amazing you are. There is a side message about taking rest and how there’s no need to always be doing something. You’ve accomplished a lot and I get the notion that you are someone who...when you want something you want it. It’s not that you’re impatient but you’re not held back for anything. There is a need to start putting yourself first. I always peek under the back of the deck and shark is here, which speaks to someone who is draining your energy so you need to leave them. That, combined with this entire spread honestly, is a loud message to start taking care of yourself. You should also build a small community of your own, especially if you have just moved out by yourself or in with new people/into a new area. The main message is to honor yourself and by extension, remind others of how amazing they are as well. There is a lot of flowers/greenery in the cards I pulled for you. You should step outside more if possible. I’m not sure how much you’ve either been focused on work or something else, but taking walks to just be in nature to reconnect with yourself would really help this healing process, or your creativity process if you make things.

Prince Harry

So I can see where his reputation came from. Not only do all of his planets funnel into Venus, but he also has a devilish Jupiter sitting in his First House. He can come off as someone who can be witty, sweet, and fun. Also someone who plans ahead...or is resourceful? His Sun is weak and his Venus can be indulgent, so there’s a high chance that he prepares for betrayals or hard times more than people realize; keeping information close to the chest, saving more than needed, keeping close connections with the right people, etc. However some actions he makes will have a chance to come back to cause him harm due to impulsivity or looking over minute details.

Where he ‘indulges’ would be with the nightlife, hobbies, or with his relationships. I don’t see it too heavy considering the placements and signs. He prioritizes value and comfort, but if he struggles to understand himself or feels isolated, then this part of him that needs to have fun and be carefree gets activated. It most likely deals with feeling disconnected and unable to authentically/fully express emotions as Saturn sits in the Eleventh and Mars in the Twelfth.

His situation is interesting because he especially craves it for satisfaction, but it’s like he can look not touch. So there’s that bubbling up of emotions until the damn bursts and then he ‘acts out’ before he’s okay again — because his Moon has been deprived of what it needs. Like a plant that’s been deprived of water, it will die. So when you look at his Descendant that’s ruled by the Moon, and see it’s in a position where it’s emotionally barricaded, it’s a little worrying. Which essentially can just mean that his love life is planned out for him in his case, but I can also see it as you can’t have certain toys or go to certain events because you need to go to these verified events etc. However I’m yet again getting off track.

A good partner for him would be someone that’s understanding of emotional numbness and patience. Sometimes he’s just not going to understand why he doesn’t feel and if he reacts a certain way he may not have an explanation. Also going at a slow pace. It’s not that he is a homebody himself but being high profile is stressful, he absolutely would want to empty his schedule in some instances. That would include going out to just watch the clouds sometimes, he just needs to not be thinking, is the point. So something like that would be good for him, however it’s most likely that his partners will also be well known (most likely due to him) and he’ll find them due to things he enjoys doing at the time. It’s most likely not clubbing with Cancer and Taurus involved, he needs to feel safe doing them (familiar actions).

Meghan Markle

She could be drawn to people who are well kept and can run businesses like well oiled machines. The type of characters you see in TV Shows that walk in, speak uninterrupted and people are speechless in awe or with bruised egos — those. The reason being is that she needs someone to match her energy and make up for what she feels she lacks. This is simultaneously true because her Sun is fine, but it’s like she’s constantly looking for something she already has. People will view her as pretty, popular, loving, a very sweet girl — but that’s about it. If anything, people could assume she doesn’t have control of her emotions or good boundaries so it’s easy to step over her. Again this isn’t a natal reading so I won’t go into depth, but this might’ve eventually been internalized because she does have a healthy amount of confidence but when she’s experiencing low moments I think those comments/moments might come back. Maybe that’s why I heard ‘megan megan megan’.

In regards to how she finds her partners, it’s about the same as above. Her dating area will have to be somewhere that’s comfortable to her and will probably be from the comfort of her home. Considering Capricorn sits over the seventh, but with Libra involved...something like dating apps or if they still do those speed dating things? It has that hint of sweet romance (?) to it but it’s structured enough to help her feel comfortable. It’d definitely have to be fun considering the planets conjunct her ruler as well. Basically a bit traditional, sweet, comfortable — all those things.

I really want to just talk about her as a person beyond love. Either people are projecting way too much onto this girl or she’s focused on something else right now. I don’t know what it is but I can’t pay attention to love, so let’s move onto their Synastry and Composite.

So Meghan is ‘exactly what Harry is looking for’ while Harry gives Meghan that comfort she seeks. As mentioned earlier, Harry cannot easily merge certain areas of his life so then he might go overboard in one area. Meghan comes in but she brings this ‘hard’ energy. By this I mean that she highlights areas that people would usually avoid when first getting to know someone else (how much do you make, what are your political views, should you you share a bank account, etc). Which I find interesting because her visuals are definitely what got his attention, and then she opened her mouth and it probably made him second guess at first. Like I mentioned with Meghan, she’s not a cute person who doesn’t have a thought in her head; she’s very ambitious and she’s not afraid to prove herself, it can just be drowned out by people trying to talk over her. She could’ve also challenged a few perceptions of the world that he was raised with.

They both bring each other down in different ways, but through the same influence.

A big piece of this is that her mars lands in his seventh house, which can both give energy to the partner but also cause arguments depending on what’s happening. For Harry I think he genuinely does need someone to get him motivated for some more personal things in his life, but he can most likely get frustrated with her from time to time. So he might see her as someone who can be assertive and handle her business but it can slowly turn into someone who can be explosive or too emotional, and then swing back to positive.

His mars falls within her sixth house so usually he would get on her about health, routine, managing her life, etc. However I see this as him suddenly joining her on trips or outings — whatever she’s already planned he’s just suddenly attaching himself to it when he ‘needs’ to, because his mars is already affected. Then Harry’s saturn falls within her fifth, so it can also be absorbed into what’s going on with that sixth house. It’s like whatever hobbies or interests that can affect her image, his energy leads to a restraint. It’s like she cleans herself up because of him and I hate wording it like that, but that’s what it’s showing itself as. Like how they claim people want to raise themselves up to someone else’s standards? That’s what this energy is doing. So this creates a push and pull, he will want activity one day which can give friction to her venus, and then next week he’ll pull from it.

There’s then the issue with finances, but it speaks more to like...access and doubling back to him struggling with that balance. So it kind of feels like she will have to rely on her own finances or if she wants to join finances period/give him resources she can’t because there is a restriction or disagreement in that area. There will always be a tug-of-war when it comes to public perception of her in regards to him and their relationship, it’s showing up in their synastry and it can cause tension within the relationship.

Leo: This sign brings in proud and dramatic partners. Their form of affection can range from being the cheerleader to light bullying. Leo’s will do their best to make sure everyone gets a sprinkle of their attention, they want to have a good time themselves and their generosity ensures others are having one as well. They also have a subconscious need to express themselves creatively; either directly or through their fashion. This combination leads to them embodying a form of ‘main character energy’ which can make others gravitate towards them. However they expect the same attention in return...

Virgo: These natives can attract picky partners. They are meticulous, dedicated, and efficient people who can live by themselves. They know what needs to be done, how it needs to be done, when, etc. The partner will possibly critique the native or see them as someone to ‘clean up’. There are two sides to this though: they are simply that critical and they are also anxious people who show their care for others in a practical manner. They worry about their lifestyle and how well they manage themselves, so it can come off as critical but that’s one of the main ways a Virgo shows that they care about you...

Libra: Libra glows in this house of course. The native will attract people who know what to say and when to say it. They are socially aware and know what side of themselves to accentuate for what occasion. They are cooperative, fair, and will do their best to make sure everyone is heard. However, this can also lead to the partner being a people-pleaser. Libra doesn’t always express themselves, so when they finally do, it can seem like they’ve been influenced by the world around them. Which, at times is possible — if someone has a strong argument, Libra is willing to hear them out...

Scorpio: The native will attract intense individuals. It’s not necessarily due to their obsessive behavior, but when they truly feel something they feel it to their core — it’s impossible to ignore. Their partners can keep their personal matters private for as long as they need, it will be quite difficult to figure out anything personal unless they let you in. However, when they do, you’ll find a very passionate, emotional, loyal, and sometimes silly person underneath the surface. They will do whatever they need to make sure their loved ones are taken care of and the relationship is safe. Whatever goal needs to be met, they’ll make sure it’s taken care of...

Sagittarius: This sign brings in partners who think...maybe too much. They are chill and fun to be around, and they want that within a relationship as well — one that just flows. However, the partner will really want to understand what the point is. They are always on the quest for answers outside of the relationship, and that doesn’t stop once someone comes into their life. They want to make sure it’s authentic — that it’s adding something to their life. So they will want honest conversations with the native. If something isn’t working, they’ll let them know. If they don’t really see it going anywhere, they’ll tell them. If they want to tweak the relationship so it can flourish, they’ll put aside some time...

Capricorn: Natives will attract those who are mature, practical, and sometimes reserved or somber. They are usually seen as wise by their loved ones or sought out as a caretaker. This placement can give a delay to lasting love, so there can be a tendency to be realistic when it comes to their relationships — if the quality of the relationship is worth the native’s time and if it will effect the work they’ve achieved thus far. Capricorn’s are not cold, they do dream of a loving relationship like anyone else, but you will not distract them achieving what they want in this life with recklessness or try to ruin what they have with selfishness. They can attract relationships that are either of beneficial gain, contain an age gap (older or younger), or ones that have a long dating period...

Aquarius: Those with Aquarius over the Seventh will attract independent partners. However they get attached to those they love just like every other sign. There’s a pattern among these natives to either have a ‘friends first’ type of love or have a strong friendship within their bond. Aquarians are honest within their partnerships and want to maintain their sense of individuality. They are not the type to be clingy or shower their loved ones with sweet words, but they are loyal and loving in their own way. They will make sure there’s a future for their relationships, and it’s a solid/stable one...

Pisces: Those with Pisces sitting here can attract relationships where they have to be very sacrificial with those in their life. The native is extremely idealistic, and there’s a tendency to be taken advantage of within their relationships. However, natives aren’t sitting ducks and complete babies, they simply believe in people’s ability to grow — what they can achieve and they want to help them. So they will sit with them through their darkest times, even if it’s draining them. This is not due to their weakness however, it’s because they are incredibly charitable and compassionate...

Planets within the Seventh House

Sun: A person who holds authority in some way, Confident, Egotistical, Good standing or reputation within society, Vain, Honorable, Faithful, Domineering, etc

Moon: Emotional, Holds some public reputation/fame, Will reflect qualities and easily affected by the native, Nurturing, Needs praise, Sensitive, Will enjoy short sporadic travels, etc

Mercury: Cheeky, Intelligent, Gossipy, Youthful, Fickle, Skillful, Communicative, Curious, Nosy, Boastful, Holds superficial knowledge, Most likely has strong childhood connections etc

Venus: Cheerful, Perfectionist, Prioritizes cleanliness, Haughty, Passionate, Pleasant, Can bring in high quality items or results, etc

Mars: Aggressive, Argumentative, Bold, Competitive, Immovable, Abusive, Reckless, Rebellious, Confident, etc

Jupiter: Philosophical, Abundant, Careless, Possibly Foreign, Attached to Religion to some extent, Indulgent, etc

Saturn: Self-deprecating, Humble, Slow results or obstacles, Hard-working, Secretive, Deceitful, Stubborn, etc

Ruler of the 7th House in Houses – Ways to Meet Partner

1st House: Making the first move, After working on self, During/After a physical change, etc

2nd House: Banks, Through financial dealings, Partner is a client or vice versa, etc

3rd House: Via the internet, Within your neighborhood, Through Siblings, During a quick trip, etc

4th House: Within your home (online, home maintenance, etc), Childhood home or neighborhood, Through family, etc

5th House: Hobbies, In a club, At parks, Through kids, When having fun, etc

6th House: Animals are involved (vets, strays, pets, etc), Workplace (directly co-workers, close contact to a co-worker of yours, or you are providing a service), Hospitals or a Doctor’s office, Through an established routine, While working out, etc

7th House: Shared interests, Through friends, Professional relationships, etc

8th House: Banks, Finances (Inheritance, Marrying into wealth, etc), Guiding or helping you with intimate/important personal matters, Death/Funerals, etc

9th House: College, On planes or in airports, Long distance travel, A mentor, etc

10th House: Through work, Within your workplace (someone above you or with more experience), Professional networking, Work collaborations, etc

11th House: Through friends,Casual networking, Through social causes or activism, Via the Internet, Dating apps or social media, etc

12th House: In a hospital, Rehabilitation Center, Church, Foreign Travel, etc