Sir's Good Obedient Puppy (18+)

Shows I like to watch when I’m feelin smol

Elinor Wonders Why

Kipper

The Muppet Show

Bluey

Sesame Street

Bee and Puppycat

Dead End: Paranormal Park

Bear in the Big Blue House

Wander Over Yonder

Blues Clues

Pingu

My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic

I have recently been chatting with multiple submissive girls who are basically being ignored by their Caregiver. They did nothing wrong. They were not told they were going to be ignored. They just have been without any contact for no particular reason. 

When you ignore your submissive, whether it is intentional or not, you leave them wondering what they have done wrong. They sit there thinking that there must be something wrong with them that you can so put them from your mind, as they starve for your guidance, love, and support. There is no excuse for it. It’s the age of texting folks. It takes less than 30 seconds to type a phrase like, “Sorry, I don’t mean to ignore you. Just wanted to remind you that I care about you. I’m just terribly busy.” Takes the same 30 seconds to type, “I’m having a hard time with myself right now, and I just need some time to sort it out. I hope you understand.” Any communication of what is going on that requires your absence will mean so much to someone who depends on you so much, and who you have sworn to care for. Don’t ghost on your submissive. Let me say it again for those in the back… DON’T GHOST ON YOUR SUBMISSIVE. If you can’t spare them 30 seconds over a period of several days, you don’t deserve one. 

✧remind them to eat & shower regularly

✧tell them when you're thinking about them

✧make sure they get the right medicine when they're sick

✧comfort them when they're overwhelmed

✧tell them you appreciate them

✧set up & follow a regular bed time routine with them

✧engage in their favorite hobbies with them

✧clean their reusable water bottle for them

✧give them little treats & rewards when they're good

✧pay attention to when they need space or closeness

Here are three types of rules for Caregivers who are struggling to develop lists for their new little:

1. Rules That Establish Dominance:

These are the fun rules, and the ones that reinforce who is boss. Asking for permission to cum and letting Daddy pick out your panties each day are good examples.

2. Rules That Guide Health:

These help with physical and mental health. Eating breakfast each day, a required walk, journal writing, and required self play (good for burning calories and raising endorphins) are good examples.

3. Rules That Help With Goals:

These help make her that very best version of herself that she wants to be. Keeping her room tidy, working toward healthy eating habits, putting away money in the bank each week, and required time for studying are good examples.

**Rules may overlap into multiple areas. Required self play can help with mental health, weight loss, stress relief, sleeping habits, as well as establishing dominance. Looking at other’s rules can help you come up with your own, but by and large, rules should be tailored to serve specific littles and their unique needs. Happy rule making. 

If you only pay attention to your sub when it is convenient for you, you are not a Dom.

If you tire of a submissive, and ghost her, rather than having an honest conversation with her, you are not a Dom.

If you view boundaries, limits, and the word “no” as impediments to your will to push past and degrade, you are not a Dom.

If you make a sub doubt and question themselves to produce an outcome that’s favorable for you, you are not a Dom.

If you think Dominance is all about having a relationship that revolves around you and serving your needs, you are not a Dom.

If you refer to subs as “broken”, or view them as a hassle because they have mental, physical, or emotional challenges, you are not a Dom. 

If you think that your way of being a Dom is the only right way to be a Dom, you are not a Dom. 

If you are having multiple relationships with submissive girls without them all knowing about each other, you are not a Dom. 

If you degrade your partner’s relationships to isolate them so that they don’t get opinions other than yours, you are not a Dom.

If you play or prey on girls who are under the age of 18, you are not a Dom.

Women who post nudes of themselves on Tumblr, do so for many reasons. Some do it to inspire more self love. Some do it to increase follower numbers, which enables them to have more interaction on their blogs. Still others do it for cold hard cash. Whatever a woman’s reason is for bearing it all in the hallowed halls of Tumblr, try to keep in mind that their purpose IS NOT to specifically seduce you, or invite you to act more personal towards them, than is appropriate between two people who have never met. While on Tumblr, and in the face of naked beauty, please remain in your seat, enjoy the view, make polite comments, and move on.