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— Who're you?

Axel ♤ He/Him ♤ 25 ♤ Writer ♤ Artist ♤— Here to talk about Marvel, the X-Men, and Gambit. ♤— I will be posting art, writings, and various ramblings mainly about Gambit since he is my muse. ♤— Interactions and follows will be coming from my main: @genuinezenith (feel free to follow there too, if you'd like)

— Links and Rules

♤— Masterlist ♤— Lore (coming soon) ♤— Will be an 18+ blog, MDNI. ♤— DNI if homophobic, transphobic, racist, ableist, anti-kink. No bigotry will be tolerated. ♤— Gambit self shipper and hyper sharing, but please do not project yourself onto me, I am not you.

— What're your tags?

♤— axel draws: This will be my art tag for any doodles, wips, and final pieces I post. ♤— axel writes: Tag for any headcanons, fics, or ramblings I post. This also covers any lengthy self ship posts I make. ♤— axels hcs: Specific headcanon tag. ♤— axel speaks: Tag I use for me just talking about whatever Marvel related, as well as for when I answer asks. ♤— axel yaps: Personal tag, not necessarily pertaining to Marvel posting. ♤— good luck charm: This is my selfship with Gambit tag, please block it if you do not want to see this.

— Anything else?

♤— My DMs are open and I love to have mutuals, I promise I don't bite! If we are mutuals and you want my discord, feel free to ask for it. ♤— Asks are also open, I am happy to discuss any headcanons, any questions about my self ship, and whatever else you want to ask, but I reserve the right to not answer if something makes me uncomfortable. ♤— Wanna play rivals with me? User is SirAntonyEllis

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Hiii Vinnie 🫶 I knew you were gonna be in my inbox when I reblogged that, but also when are you not in my inbox anyway.... 💭link to the post here!

— 1. How does your F/O respond to seeing you hurt or upset? Do they act caring, immediately go into “who do I have to beat up” mode, or both?

♤— I will break this question up into two parts! Because I think how he acts when I am upset vs. when I am hurt are pretty different. ♤— When I am upset: He is definitely the type to go into caring mode, asking me what's wrong and doing what he can to soothe me. He is the type to stay by my side, even if whatever I am going through is ugly (but will still give me space if I need it). ♤— When I am hurt: We both know getting hurt is going to happen when you're an X-Man, it's part of the job. He also knows I can handle myself, but when he sees me get hurt he gets MAD. He isn't the kind to fly into a rage, but he gets mad in the silent stewing kind of way. The taunting stops, he focuses even harder, and he somehow is able to move even faster and hit even harder. ♤— Either after the fight or during if he has a moment to spare, he will make sure I am okay and in one piece. Once everything has settled, he can't help but worry and hover near me. ♤— What I appreciate most is that his support never feels infantilizing or overbearing, which means a lot more than he knows.

— 4. Does your F/O prefer sunny days or rainy days? What about you? Do your preferences match? How do you both handle these days? What do you do together on either of these days?

♤— He prefers sunny days, though he likes the rain more than I do, admittedly. ♤— I also prefer sunny days, because for some reason my mood can be pretty heavily affected by the weather, so sunny/nice days are when I tend to feel best. ♤— We both love sunny days in the summer for motorcycle rides in particular, but they also generally make great days for doing out on dates in general hehe. ♤— For the rainy days, we like to sit in and relax if we can, like watching a movie/show together or playing games.

— 6. Has there ever been a REALLY big argument between you and your F/O? What was it about? How did you two resolve it?

♤— I have touched on this a little bit previously in this post here, but in summary we don't fight often. ♤— However, just because we don't fight often, that doesn't mean we haven't fought before. One big fight that comes to mind was before we were officially together, but it turned into the reason we did end up making things official. ♤— I have a post in my drafts that will touch on this in further detail, but in summary he started distancing himself from me when I started to actually let myself fall for him and take a chance. I was incredibly upset with him because I didn't know why he was doing it, and I felt like I was being toyed with. ♤— The reason why he was pulling away is because he realized he was already in love with me, and he had been for some time. He felt that he was deceiving me, because he knew I wanted to take things slow. He felt that in a way, he was violating my trust with how he felt, and the guilt was eating away at him— in typical Remy fashion, he tried to keep his distance from me and run. ♤— Ultimately, it was an incredibly emotional fight and conversation, but once he was honest with me we were able to resolve things for the better. One hell of a confession if you ask me though fkjsejkf

— 13. What’s you and your F/O’s morning routine? What about bedtime routine?

♤— I have also touched on this in this post here! I haven't spoken about the nighttime routine I don't think though (I will keep it SFW this time /lh). ♤— Aside from the usual nighttime routine things (shower, teeth brushing, etc.), I like to wind down a bit before bed with reading if I can, but before that nightly cuddles are mandatory /lh ♤— If we haven't seen each other much that day, we will typically chat a bit as we wind down and are in bed. Depending on how the day went we will be out like lights once our heads hit the pillows sefjkbksej

Also in general i wish marvel and fans were smarter about sex. "They literally cant touch" why do you guys hate latex gloves and condoms and mutual masturbation and clothed sex and the hand kissing so much... they can do all kinds of freaky stuff and i KNOW gambit has already considered all of it.

In summation i agree with you about fandom discourse and just wanted to also share a couple thoughts thanks for reading

Hello! I appreciate your input on this because this is very much how I feel, and you said it very well, I really do hope we get more balance in the future. I hope one day we see a version of Gambit where he is still ultimately himself, but where has grown and matured and is still healing. It upsets me that we have been given crumbs of things that could have been really interesting to explore, but were either joked about or completely scrapped (ex. his PTSD). I don't know if it will ever happen in Marvel canon, but that is what fanfic is for!

And to your second point, YES!!! I think generally speaking folks are not sex positive enough, but additionally think that their definition of sex is far too rigid. I think when you are incredibly sex positive, you eventually will reach a certain level where so many things can be sex if you're perverted enough /pos

I would absolutely love to see more freak shit from marvel fans and creatives, and I think we are on a slow, but steady, climb towards higher freak levels but I need everyone to get freakier faster /lh