Tyler

Here’s a short list of things only you can decide: 

- Which pronouns are the right ones for you 

- Which name is the right one for you 

- If you want to have romantic relationships 

- If you want to have sex 

- Which kinds of sexual activity, if any, you enjoy or want to try 

- If you want to take hormones or get surgery 

- How you label yourself 

- How specific you want your labels to be 

- Who you want to come out to 

- Which questions you are comfortable with 

- How much information about your identity you want to share online 

- If you want to present feminine, masculine, gender-neutral or any mix of those 

- How exactly you want your relationships to be like 

- If you want to marry and have kids

Your parents can’t decide that.  Your friends can’t decide that. People on Tumblr can’t decide that. “Lgbt+ allies” can’t decide that. Your church can’t decide that. I can’t decide that. 

Nobody but you can decide that for you. 

With all my love, 

Hello! 

Apologies, it’s been a long long time since either of us have logged on here. Between work and travelling and lots of stuff going on in our personal lives, it took a backseat I’m afraid :c

Anyway, I just want to let you know that we’re still together! It’ll be four years in April, the time really flies!! More importantly, I (‘Ami’) have been through a lot in the last year or two, and in September of this year I came out to my friends/family and then online as transgender. I’m a guy, and my name is Aiden now. I think our followers are incredibly lovely and accepting so I’m sure I’m just being paranoid as usual, but I really hope that doesn’t change anything for you. With that in mind, I think it’d make sense to delete this tumblr as it’s kind of hard to see myself the way I used to be right now. Also - we never use it because we’re both terrible!! x,x”  However!! Before I do that, if anybody still follows or checks this blog, let me leave some links if you’d like to continue to keep up with us and our journey! Aiden’s new tumblr: @aidenlorenn

Aiden’s instagram: aidenlorenn 

Aiden’s twitter: aidenlorenn

Destiny’s twitter: DestinyRayL

Destiny’s instagram: rubberbandreminders 

Also!! For any of you that were/are interested in our cosplay stuff, we’ve relaunched our youtube/tumblr under a slightly different name, and you can find us here:

Insta: nartmancosplay

Youtube: www.youtube.com/nartman

Cosplay Tumblr: @nartmancosplay