one thing that drives me crazyyy is seeing women talk about how they explained some awful misogynistic practice to their boyfriend/husband (the one i saw was about "alpine divorces," which is when men take their girlfriends/wives on hikes the women aren't prepared for and abandon them to the elements at the peak so she dies (which could be a post in of itself)). the women in these types of videos always talk about how "horrified" and "shocked" Her Man is to hear about, you know, misogyny. one, no he's not unless he's literally retarded, and two, even if he was actually that surprised, why are you proud that you cohabitate with someone so thoroughly unaware of the violence that his kind do against women? just because he reacted "well" (ie, hid his disdain well enough to trick you into thinking he sees you as a person when he obviously doesn't give a shit or else he wouldn't have had to be told)? is that genuinely all it takes to be a "good one"? and there's a smugness to these posts where you can tell lot of them are genuinely enjoying it. so why? well, female masochism, obviously.
it's the subjugation circlejerk women turn these conversations into even amongst themselves that really proves it imo. comments from women going "now tell him the #1 cause of death for pregnant women" or "tell him the 40% statistic for cops" or bragging about how unsurprised they themselves were to hear these facts all while they are posted up in bed with their own fucking predator!! it's genuinely foreplay for them to suffer, that's the only way i can explain it. they get off on knowing men are dangerous but they have a "good one" that will pretend to give a fuck (and isn't it interesting that they've all managed to find a good one of their own? makes you wonder who's actually torturing and murdering women) since all a woman wants is for her suffering to be properly acknowledged by Her Man because her pain doesn't exist unless Her Man tells her it does. she has no desire to actually make herself safe by getting up off her knees (if she did then those statistics would horrify her into actually protecting herself by forgoing men) since that would mean she loses her favorite resource, Her Man and the male validation he provides all for the low, low price of, well, potentially her life. but don't be stupid, you can tell by his comically wide eyes and upturned eyebrows when she recounts femicide and female torture at the hands of men that she picked A Good One.
