silly stuff

Have you ever wanted something, like a bouquet of flowers, a present, or even a surprise night out? How do you go about telling someone that you want them to surprise you and, yet, it still be a surprise? Think about it for a moment. If you tell your hubby that you want him to surprise you with a bouquet of flowers and the very next night, low and behold, he brings home a beautiful bouquet. Be honest. Was it really the surprise you hoped it would be? Or was it more a let-down because you just told him what you wanted. The surprise was gone, wasn’t it? And the fun right along with it…

Well, there are things your partner would love for you to do, but… (And here’s the rub) he cannot tell you what they are. If he does, it would simply not be as much fun or exciting when you do it. It’s kind of a conundrum. If he doesn’t tell, you may never think of it on your own, or you might think he wouldn’t enjoy that sort of thing, so you won’t want to push him into it without asking first. But then, asking ruins it too…

So how can he tell you what he wants you to do to him, if he can’t come right out and say it? There is only one sure way I know of. Fantasies! You, as his Mistress (or whatever you call yourself), must pay close attention to the fantasies he tells you. Or, if it is you telling the fantasy, pay attention to the things he says he finds erotic. It’s really that simple…

But the main thing to remember is that you are the one who needs to pay attention when he tells you a fantasy and when you tell him one. Okay, maybe you are not big on telling fantasies, but you can certainly find a story or two for him to read, can’t you? That’s all it takes. Understanding what your subby-hubby enjoys is up to you. He can’t tell you…

My recommendation? Have him read a lot of stories and tell you what he likes best in them. Then you can surprise him sometime by doing one or more of those things.

100-DAY CHASTITY CHALLENGE | DAY 27

Release day recap

I’m now 27 days into this challenge and I’ve been locked in chastity for 24 of them.

It was nice to be out of my cage today. Naturally, I showered before work and, with my cage off, I was able to thoroughly clean myself. I shaved my balls and scrotum so I’m smooth when I go back in.

Fun time?

My keyholder did not give me permission to cum today. Instead, she said I must edge for her eight times, including once while I was at work. (When she says to edge, she means, as she watches, I get so close to releasing my balls ache when I have to stop.)

She said she wanted to be sent video of my workplace edge, so I obliged. I admit I’ve never been happier to have a rarely used bathroom in the building where I work. Anyway, mission (nervously) accomplished.

I edged for her in the shower before work, so that left me with six to complete from 5:30 p.m. to 12 a.m. That works out to about once per hour. It might not seem like much, but I also had to cook dinner, walk the dogs, pick up around the house and pleasure her.

My last edge was just before midnight so I used it to ready myself to go back into my cage. I put the ring on, got myself hard, then stuffed my rock hard cock into my tiny cage minutes before she turned the lock shut.

A remarkable amount of precum oozed out of my cock when I pushed the cage down on my boner. Proof my balls are full, I guess.

What’s next

I’m now in for the second of two 10-day stays in chastity this time, which in itself doesn’t seem like a long stretch. What feels daunting is the total days I’ve been in as I begin this two-week lockup. By the time this session is over, I’ll be at 34 days locked up out of the last 37.

Then, after being out for two days, I start a 14-day stay followed by a single release day then a three-week lockup. I will have earned a three-day release leading up to Locktober.

After that? Well, it’s probably time to stop holding the keys yourself and find an attractive woman who will hold the keys for you!