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Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom that the tops you have sex with may not tell you either out of a desire to not offend or because they get a thrill from telling others that we bottoms cannot handle their cock ;-)

SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE. The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES! If this is the first position he puts you in, use this trick to get used to his cock. 

ARCH YOUR BACK. This will not only look sexier to him, but also make deep penetration easier and less painful.

PUSH YOUR ASS OUT. This shows the top you crave his cock in your ass. Once he is in, you can push back to the rhythm of his thrusts.

PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED. There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This helps arch your back and push your ass out. It’s visually stimulating, because the focus is now completely on the ass you have presented to the top. The symbolic submission is also a big turn-on to a dominant top.

RELAX YOUR ANAL SPHINCTER. Having adopted the position described in steps 1-4, you should now focus your mind on relaxing your anal sphincter. It may help to remember how you take a dump, because the muscular relaxation is identical. Steps 1-5 should, with practice, enable very deep penetration with little or no pain.

ALLOW DEEP PENETRATION. Once you’ve mastered the previous steps, you may let him spread his own legs wider than yours so he can get more directly above you to pump his cock down and deep, with his balls bouncing off your ass.

REACH FOR HIS BALLS. Many tops find this very arousing, because you are fondling the sacks that produce their sperm, affirming their manhood.

COMMUNICATE. Tell him how much you enjoy having his cock in you. Let him know if you like his scent. Ask him to go slow if you feel pain.

Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.

LET HIM SPANK YOU. A lot of dominant men get turned on by slapping the asses they are fucking, and seeing those asses turn a rosy color.

LET HIM GRAB YOUR HAIR. Another turn-on for many dominant tops.

LET HIM HOLD YOUR NIPPLES OR MAN BOOBS. As he pumps his cock up your ass.

LET HIM CALL YOU NAMES THAT TURN HIM ON IN THE HEAT OF THE FUCK. “Bitch,” “cocksucker,” “fag,” etc. But only when used in a non-derogatory way. This is about breaking taboos (which are charged with emotional intensity) and letting both of you get aroused by embracing your (contrasting) inner natures.

LET HIM CALL YOUR HOLE A “PUSSY” OR “CUNT.” That is, after all, its functional equivalent.

Something a fan did for me ❤

I’m writing this because I see so many stupid rules that had to have been made up by tiny micro penis white guys.  Here are real rules written by a white woman (ME) that SLUTS/ HOES like me live by…..**with side notes!! ….In 7 short plain as day rules….NOT 50 DUMB ONES!!

1)  ALWAYS DRESS SLUTTY 24/7 with the exception of work and church.

**I always dress to attract black men by wearing short skirts or dresses.  No panties.  If I do its a thong.  My ass and pussy is always showing and easily accessible to take dick.  My cleavage is always showing.  Hair and make are top notch.  I’m clean and smell great.

2) FUCK EVERY BLACK MAN YOU SEE!

**I always try to fuck every black man I come across in public.  Sometimes I get turned down and thats okay.

3)  NEVER EVER SAY NO TO A BLACK MAN with the exception of if a guy is not clean or has body odor.

**I never say no when I’m out in public when a black man wants to fuck.  When I’m out with family and a black guy has his game on comes up to me….because he knows by the way I’m dressed and look I’m a hoe….we will go to the bathroom, car, out back, or wherever to fuck or suck his dick.  

4) FUCK EVERY BLACK GUY AT A PARTY OR CLUB

**I have been to lots of parties and have fucked every black guy in the room.

5)  ALWAYS OFFER YOUR ASS FIRST

**This is one of my most important rule.  I always always always offer my ass to fuck first.  This is out of respect I have for black men.

6)  ALWAYS GREET ON YOUR KNEES

**Not every situation is the same.  But if we hook up at a hotel, my house, or your house.  I always always always drop to my knees ready to suck black dick.  This is also out of respect I have for black men.

7) NEVER EVER EVER FUCK A WHITE GUY OR LET HIM TOUCH YOU

…you’ll do ALL THE WORK while he just lays back, relaxes, and focuses on giving you all the nut your stomach can handle (multiple loads). Make love to his dick with your mouth. If you need a quick break, keep his dick resting in your mouth so his precum can continue leaking in your mouth while you rest up. Making HIS dick feel good should be your ONLY focus.

Worshipping a sexy black dick should be a relaxing experience for him. Requesting to Face-fucked is NOT worshipping because it then becomes about YOU and not HIM.

He should NEVER have to verbally warn you when he’s about to bless your mouth with his nut, he should just be able to nut whenever his feels like it. Plus, if you are a true worshipper, you wouldn’t need or want a warning.