yikes

pedophilia isnt a preference

Kinks and fetishes are dope but when your sex life is either 1.) Affecting the rest of your life in ways such as you find yourself saying things like “I don’t deserve food because daddy says I’m a disgusting fat pig” or your literally letting someone lock you in a cage all day or 2.) It’s promoting actually harmful disgusting stuff on the internet then YOU NEED TO REEVALUATE.

1.)Your relationship with your sub shouldn’t be abusive. Even if a sub likes being locked in a cage all day, or likes being called a fat pig outside of sexual situations, these things are problems that should probably be addressed and not continued. Humiliation and domination should stop outside of sexual situations! Bc thats just called abuse.

I literally see girls on this website saying things like “I’m trying not to eat for a few days because daddy says I’m too fat.” This is literally the definition of emotional abuse.

If you want to roleplay scenarios that involve humiliation and dehumanization no one can stop you, but when there are when communities of people on the internet saying “my master makes me pee outside because I’m just a pet” there’s a problem. I’ve seen people post screenshots of middle-of-the-day texts to their partners saying things like “I’m lonely” only to get the reply “that’s because you’re a disgusting retarded useless fucktoy and no one wants your company.” And it’s posted with “:) my daddy is great!” Like??? No?? If you like being called that shit while your getting your sex on thats coo, but A. your sex stuff shouldn’t be going on 24/7 you should be able to have a normal conversation with your partner & B. that’s manipulative and abusive your partner should not talk to you like that in a normal setting.

Basically what I’m tryna say is that if your abuse/humiliation/rape/prisoner/dehumanization play is going on 24/7 and affecting shit like your eating, than it isn’t play, it’s real.

2.) That being said, rape play & dd/lg stuff being on the internet is a whole other deal. The way I see it, it’s just condoning pedophiliac & rape urges. To someone reading this who is a part of these communities, I’m not saying you personally would rape or molest a child, but I am saying that you’ve created internet communities that actual rapists and pedophiles will find safety in. Congratulations.

How is fetishising the most traumatizing things that happen to some people okay? How is making it public that you think those thinks are fun okay?

It kinda freaked me out that there are communities of the internet of men’s who can all say things like “let’s go kidnap a woman and rape and kill her!” And go into graphic detail & then be like “it’s just my kink it’s not for real.” If that’s your kink then you need to shape the fuck up. If you can.get off without thinking about children or rape then you need to see a fucking therapist. And look, I’m a hardcore domme. I’m into needle play and gagging people being extremely rough and I like blood and bruises and tying people down but I also like to make sure my sub is 100% excited about everything that we do and that I’m not making them feel dehumanized in non-sexual settings and that we aren’t making light of child rape. Fucked up sex is dope but you can have fun without being creepy & manipulative

people who have POCD are not pedophiles!! POCD is a disorder marked by intrusive thoughts about attraction to children or abusing children. people who have POCD do not want to hurt children and they aren’t attracted to children. they have intrusive thoughts abt finding children attractive.

this is like saying people who have intrusive thoughts abt hurting their family really want to hurt their family, or like equating intrusive thoughts with fantasies.

Society: Well DUH! No shit Sherlock!

Me: Shipping incest, pedophilia, and abuse is wrong.

Internet: WOW! Okay first of all…Fuck you.We’ll do whatever want.It’s fiction you dumbass! Get a life plz. Maybe kill yourself.IDFC.VWV

and there ARE treatments for Pedophilic Disorder being worked on rn, so it can be CURED AND FIXED. so these people ARENT attracted to children. Pedophiles DO NOT experince distress over their attraction so for them, its not a mental disorder. (cont)

if you think pedophilia is an orientation unfollow me

if you think pedophiles arent horrible people unfollow me