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The moment you realize it is no longer a scene…

You found a SADIST… and told him your darkest and deepest desires… now accept the reality of what you wished for.

LEARN YOUR PLACE - ACCEPT WHAT YOU ARE - EXIST TO SERVE

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Be careful what you wish for. You just might find it.

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Fantasy is great, reality should be informed.

Be careful what you ask for, it may happen.

Be informed, be consensual, and enjoy.

SIR MASTER MARK 🇨🇦

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Clothespins are an important tool….

They should push limits,

and get the boys attention

It is that simple…

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@sirmastermark is very adept and skilled at knowing just where to place them for maximum effect and which type to best use on HIS boys as we are all different. SIR MASTER MARK has a good variety of clothespins in HIS toolbox.

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LORD AND MASTERR and slave dny are O/one through O/our DOMINATE/submissive and SUPERIOR/ inferior ETERNAL BOND.

service2smmbybj

it may seem like a ONE PERSON takes all kind of relationship but that’s not the case with a True Power Exchange. there is give and take on boths sides. the MASTER may seem to take all the Power and takes everything from the boy, but HE also gives the boy what he wants, to be controlled, owned but also to be cared for. without a MASTER, a boy is empty and incomplete. without a boy, a MASTERs needs aren’t being met. its a two-way street.

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Service to a MASTER comes from the heart in a Power Exchange type relationship. MASTER and boy/slave both co-exist and become co-dependant in having T/their individual needs fulfilled.

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Being DOMINANT does not mean no emotion or love.

In fact, in MY opinion, showng your caring side, means you are more of a MAN.

And your sub, will give you even more of himself.

SIR MASTER MARK 🇨🇦

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one of the reasons why i entered into service with my MASTER, SIR MASTER MARK, and why i continue to be in service to HIM, is because of this. HE models what HE expects of HIS boys and slaves. by showing and sharing HIS caring side, HE shows that HE values us in HIS life and shows us that its ok to share your emotions with O/others.

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my brother @service2smmbybj echoes my feelings in this. The attraction and dedication i have with my MASTER, @sirmastermark , is largely because of HIS ability to show HIS love, affection and respect. i may be a gear, SM and bondage enthusiast, but it’s the cuddling, kissing and open displays of affection that can make me hard and want to Service this amazing MAN even more!

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In Service to SIRMASTERMARK

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👉🏿 LESSON NUMBER 1

Some of MY boys would ❤️❤️❤️ this…

And…

On the end of the day, it is what PLEASES ME, not them.

isn’t that right boys ?

SIR MASTER MARK 🇨🇦

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Yes SIR. my MASTER knows that i get a thrill out of being hooded and that hoods take me deep into subspace and are really good to help HIS boy calm down and reduce stress and anxiety. BUT i know that more importantly that it pleases my MASTER to see HIS property in a hood, that sometimes HE desires a faceless body to just use for HIS pleasure, whether it’s for bondage, nipple/penis torture, clothespins, or just a hole to fuck. The fact that i enjoy hoods is secondary to HIS pleasure @sirmastermark

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Yes SIR. MASTER is aware of my huge interest in tight inescapable bondage, but i had always had an issue with hoods. Through training i can now last much longer in a hood. But this boy is keenly aware that hoods and bondage are used when MASTER is in the mood for it, not when HIS boy necessarily wants it. This boys purpose is to make sure that MASTER is pleased, taken care of, and HIS life made easier by our service and devotion to HIM. @sirmastermark

Typical night in a boy's life (A labour of love)

Around 4:00 am boy rolled over and discovered my MASTER had not returned to bed after having gotten up several hours earlier due to jet lag. After checking with MASTER to see if there was anything boy could do for HIM, HE came back to bed. boy offered a massage to MASTER knowing that usually helps to relax HIM and enable HIM to sleep. MASTERS response was no and just instructed boy to go back to sleep. A short while later MASTER decided HE did want a massage and ordered boy to provide one. boy was elated that he could be of use to his MASTER. There were no selfish thoughts that "it's late and i just want to sleep". boys thought were immediately "MASTER needs me and i have a purpose".

boy derives great pleasure in being able to bring MASTER pleasure or to make HIS life easier in any way. i love massaging MASTERS tired muscles and hearing the soft moans and groans, knowing that what boy is doing is bringing HIM great pleasure. After approximately 30 minutes of massaging HIM, boy was instructed that was enough and to come back and cuddle up to MASTER which boy LOVES to do ( boy is very tactile ). A short time later MASTER woke boy up with the simple command of "side fuck boy" and boy immediately responded while MASTER took boy's hole. MASTER and boy both derived great pleasure from that moment, but for different reasons. For MASTER, the pleasure is from the sexual release and the control HE has over HIS boy. For boy the pleasure was in knowing that what he was doing was helping to relax his MASTER, bring HIM joy and pleasure, and would help HIM to sleep afterwards. boy had a purpose in that moment and it was not about my own sexual pleasure.

MASTER takes what HE wants without discussion as that is HIS right of OWNERSHIP. All this happens within the predefined negotiated limits between MASTER and HIS boy/slave. That is the nature of a true Power Exchange. boy obeys willingly because boy has given MASTER that power over him. That power does not come from fear or intimidation from MASTER, but rather comes from a deep love and respect for MASTER. boy also receives great pleasure in knowing that in that moment, boy was being exactly what MASTER needed or wanted. boys/slaves have a need to feel useful and to have a purpose. myself as a boy, i have a need for MASTER to give me feedback. The two best words my MASTER can say to me are "good boy".

After that, MASTER slept very well for the rest of the night, and boy stayed awake until MASTER was asleep. boy was happy knowing he was able to do that for MASTER, and then fell asleep as well.

boy paul In Service to SIR MASTER MARK @sirmastermark

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please read.

To my fellow subs, pups, and slaves, gimps, furries, kinksters, and littles; to any identity you claim or feel or discover:

You may not need to hear these words, but there are far too many out there who run headlong into this world without any understanding. I may be reiterating things that have been said a thousand times in more coherent and eloquent ways. But too often I see or console or offer advice to those who have learned these lessons through experiences that I don’t want to imagine.

This isn’t exhaustive, and you may not agree with every one of them. These ideas do not come from a place of selfishness. They apply whether or not you identify as submissive, Dominant, or anywhere in between. It is not meant to inspire fear or cynicism. It is not meant to create self-doubt or generalize “Dominance” as heartless and uneducated. These ideas come from a place of self-love and self respect. If you have a problem with that, you have no place in my world.

If you can take one thing from it, whether validation of your own knowledge, or a deeper understanding of yourself, please know that you don’t have to face any of it alone.

In this, the “Dominant” is in general reference of any identity therein (whether Sir, Master, Handler, etc.)

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Take the time to learn yourself before you allow others to control you. Whether you’re just discovering your submissive identity, or you’re a pro, you can always benefit from introspection. Your relationship with a Dominant is only made stronger with a better understanding of yourself and your needs. No one is ever entitled to your submission. I’ll say that again: NO ONE IS EVER ENTITLED TO YOUR SUBMISSION. Anyone who approaches you with the idea that they deserve you without so much as a conversation should be avoided. It is in your best interest to protect yourself, regardless of how exciting and enticing it may be to have someone assert such control. Seek your community. Whether its a local one, or something you find online, seek out a community of like minded people. Not only will this give you an opportunity to meet and befriend others who understand you, it is also for your protection. Your community is your safe place. We take care of our own. Make friends with other submissives. We understand each other better than most. You know things I don’t. Seek advice and care from others without an ulterior motive. I may not be able to tell you what to do, but I can always try to help. Communication is everything. Seek a method of feedback that your Dominant can respect, whether positive or constructive. Anyone who assumes they know everything or can do no wrong is too insecure to admit their own flaws. Safe words are great, but that will only get you so far. You know what enhances or pulls you out of your headspace. Tell them. Consideration periods are not simply to determine “whether you’re good enough” or “whether you deserve” something. They are an opportunity for you to examine your own compatibility and headspace prior to engaging in commitment. They are one of the best tools you have to truly put yourself into a healthy and engaging environment. If it doesn’t work, speak up. You always have the right to leave. Pretty damn self explanatory. Make sure you understand YOUR limits. To push through them is one thing, but you need to understand that too far can be too far. Learn how to say no in a way that enhances your relationship and mutual understanding. And if that isn’t respected? You always have the right to leave. You deserve respect, too. It may be shown in different ways. You may like to be called horrible names and treated like dirt. But unless you’ve gotten to the point where you feel safe in that space, don’t let someone walk all over you, regardless of their assumed Dominance. Take. Your. Time. Especially for those newer to discovering their submissive headspace, every person who validates that headspace will seem good to you. Just because someone offers you a collar does not mean you take it. Be careful. Ownership is first and foremost about trust. I understand the need; its an innate desire to give up control to the first person who tries to take it from you. But submission is not taken, it is earned. Give yourself the time and make sure their investment in you is equal to your investment in them. If you need a break, take one. Sometimes you just need to give yourself an opportunity to refocus. Take a step back from all of it and breathe without fear of control or retribution. Have the self awareness to know when you need it. Explore what you feel. Don’t let yourself be defined by an expectation or ideal. If you don’t feel completely submissive, or completely Dominant, that’s okay. Give yourself the opportunity to explore those feelings. It may change on any given day or hour or minute. Surround yourself with those who will allow you to grow. Headspace isn’t about losing yourself. It’s a place that’s meant to allow you to let go. Sometimes it’s hard to find, and that’s okay. Don’t force it. Your headspace should be as unique as you. Allow the pieces of you that you love to shine through it. Not all headspace is sexual. Never feel like where you go in that place must be accompanied with BDSM. If your headspace needs to be a safe place for you, let it. Many use it as a coping mechanism for anxiety and depression and these triggers can not only be upsetting but dangerous. Never, ever assume anything without knowing someone. Care before control. Look out for each other. Know the signs of someone who needs help. They may not ask for it, but make sure those around you know that you’re looking out for them. There can be a very fine line between BDSM and abusive relationships. You may not be able to fix it, but the love you show someone may have a bigger impact than you think.

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If you have more to contribute, please do. I don’t expect this to be exhaustive, I want to give people an opportunity to think and respond and create healthy dialogue around a part of “us” that is too often silenced by passivity.

Please, please share this with everyone you can.

And as always, if you need anything, please reach out to someone. I’m always here.

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This is a very good read for any submissive. Remember that you hold the power in any type of Power Exchange relationship. Don't be afraid to speak up (with respect of course) . my MASTER understands these concepts and that's just another reason why i love HIM so much! @sirmastermark

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In Service to SIR MASTER MARK

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Updated Library For Kinksters

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Topping from the bottom

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good reference for everyone in the community (and for many who aren’t in the community). flagging this as reference not only for others but to remind myself to check these out

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i'm sure there's something in this for just about everyone out there!

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