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*Breathes in*

The way I see batsis?

She´s the eldest daughter. She's always the same age as Jason and is close to both Dick and Jason. She is the mother to her siblings, to her dad, in every friend group. She loves hard and gets hurt even harder. She is calm on the outside, but has so much anxiety that she cries like a little child in the shower when she can't hold it in.

She pushes her emotions so deep down that she no longer knows how to feel them. And when it becomes too much, the emotions explode, and she turns mean in those moments.

But she is kind, so kind that she is seen as weak and easy to use. And she knows it. And it breaks her heart. Because she has so much love and wants to share it, to make others feel loved. But that usually backfires. Because not everyone believes they deserve to be loved, they see her as overbearing and naive.

She was the "easy" kid, the mature one. The one that everyone said had great potential. The one you didn't need to worry about, cause she could handle herself. She could handle the weight of everything and a little bit more. So Bruce doesn't have to worry about her, which leads to him spending less time with her. He never really remembers what she likes or is doing or what she dreams about. He doesn't know what her future plans look like, even though she has told him 100 times.

Which leaves Batsis to believe that her father barely knows her, and she gets proof of it, here and there. He will say something about her that will be so inaccurate that it leaves a bad taste in her mouth, and she feels a stab wound in her heart. But because there is an expectation on her shoulders, she seeks his validation. Validation, she never gets. Whatever it is, if it's an A on a test or a successful business deal, it's nothing to be congratulated for. If she isn't perfect, then she needs to fix herself, quickly.

Sometimes Dick will ask her why she is always so stressed and worried about things. He will tell her to calm down, not understanding that she can't afford to calm down or not to worry. That it's a need deep in her soul, if she isn't caring for others, if she isn't solving things for them, she is nothing. She has no purpose.

And not because Bruce or anyone else has told her so. She took this role onto herself. She decided, as that calm, non-problematic child, that this was her duty to carry. And she ran with it. Cause no one told her she didn't need to. No one showed her that she could lean on them. That she could rest without feeling guilty. That she could make mistakes, and it was fine. That no one would hate her for putting herself first.

I don't know how you did it, but you actually understood her character perfectly. Like, this is mostly what I have in mind for her. I can't believe you could think of all that just by reading my short I wrote in a impulse of inspiration at 2:00 A.M on my phone oiasednew. This is so well-worded and good. You capture Batsis down to the last detail of what I imagined. I can't wait to read more of what you come up with 👀

The only difference is that my Batsis is actually younger than both Dick and Jason, closer to Tim's age, but she's equally terrifying to them in her own right because she's the one who actually handles the house with Alfred, and they know better than disobey her. It's also what makes them take her for granted, ironically. They assume she's always going to be there for them, no matter what. They're used to it. Bruce trusts her so much with her independence and reliability he feels she doesn't actually need him as much. She's the easy kid, the one who has never given him problems or made him worry. He favours her...and at the same time neglects her lol. She's been playing a caretaker role since she was a child and arrived to the manor, realising how things worked and feeling she had to make herself "easy" for her family to accept her. Even Alfred has contributed to those insane standards she has for herself. He doesn't see anything too wrong with how she acts. He thinks it's how a respectable eldest daughter should behave, considering her circumstances. However, he's also the only one who knows when she needs a break and pushes herself too hard. It's complicated.

The way I see batsis?

She´s the eldest daughter. She's always the same age as Jason and is close to both Dick and Jason. She is the mother to her siblings, to her dad, in every friend group. She loves hard and gets hurt even harder. She is calm on the outside, but has so much anxiety that she cries like a little child in the shower when she can't hold it in.

She pushes her emotions so deep down that she no longer knows how to feel them. And when it becomes too much, the emotions explode, and she turns mean in those moments.

But she is kind, so kind that she is seen as weak and easy to use. And she knows it. And it breaks her heart. Because she has so much love and wants to share it, to make others feel loved. But that usually backfires. Because not everyone believes they deserve to be loved, they see her as overbearing and naive.

She was the "easy" kid, the mature one. The one that everyone said had great potential. The one you didn't need to worry about, cause she could handle herself. She could handle the weight of everything and a little bit more. So Bruce doesn't have to worry about her, which leads to him spending less time with her. He never really remembers what she likes or is doing or what she dreams about. He doesn't know what her future plans look like, even though she has told him 100 times.

Which leaves Batsis to believe that her father barely knows her, and she gets proof of it, here and there. He will say something about her that will be so inaccurate that it leaves a bad taste in her mouth, and she feels a stab wound in her heart. But because there is an expectation on her shoulders, she seeks his validation. Validation, she never gets. Whatever it is, if it's an A on a test or a successful business deal, it's nothing to be congratulated for. If she isn't perfect, then she needs to fix herself, quickly.

Sometimes Dick will ask her why she is always so stressed and worried about things. He will tell her to calm down, not understanding that she can't afford to calm down or not to worry. That it's a need deep in her soul, if she isn't caring for others, if she isn't solving things for them, she is nothing. She has no purpose.

And not because Bruce or anyone else has told her so. She took this role onto herself. She decided, as that calm, non-problematic child, that this was her duty to carry. And she ran with it. Cause no one told her she didn't need to. No one showed her that she could lean on them. That she could rest without feeling guilty. That she could make mistakes, and it was fine. That no one would hate her for putting herself first.

I don't know how you did it, but you actually understood her character perfectly. Like, this is mostly what I have in mind for her. I can't believe you could think of all that just by reading my short I wrote in a impulse of inspiration at 2:00 A.M on my phone oiasednew. This is so well-worded and good. You capture Batsis down to the last detail of what I imagined. I can't wait to read more of what you come up with 👀

The only difference is that my Batsis is actually younger than both Dick and Jason, closer to Tim's age, but she's equally terrifying to them in her own right because she's the one who actually handles the house with Alfred, and they know better than disobey her. It's also what makes them take her for granted, ironically. They assume she's always going to be there for them, no matter what. They're used to it. Bruce trusts her so much with her independence and reliability he feels she doesn't actually need him as much. She's the easy kid, the one who has never given him problems or made him worry. He favours her...and at the same time neglects her lol. She's been playing a caretaker role since she was a child and arrived to the manor, realising how things worked and feeling she had to make herself "easy" for her family to accept her. Even Alfred has contributed to those insane standards she has for herself. He doesn't see anything too wrong with how she acts. He thinks it's how a respectable eldest daughter should behave, considering her circumstances. However, he's also the only one who knows when she needs a break and pushes herself too hard. It's complicated.

need a batfam x neglected reader fic EXCEPT the reader is THRIVING despite the neglect.

like they are gotham’s it-girl/boy type of thriving.

every once in awhile i would see a sorority promoting their house by dancing on my feed, i actually need the batfam’s reaction to seeing their sibling pull the nastiest moves to promote gotham academy.

Catgirl!Reader: You know other women?

OMG YESSSS!! I totally agree! ✨️

I personally think they have a romantic, somewhat Toxic-ish relationship 😭🧡

And as someone who's love's secret pregnancy I COMPLETELY AGREE! 😭💚💛