Virginia Woolf and her lover, the English poet Vita Sackville-West

“Look here Vita — throw over your man, and we’ll go to Hampton Court and dine on the river together and walk in the garden in the moonlight and come home late and have a bottle of wine and get tipsy, and I’ll tell you all the things I have in my head, millions, myriads — They won’t stir by day, only by dark on the river. Think of that. Throw over your man, I say, and come.”

I wear bespoke suits. I swim twice a week. I socialize with people I can’t stand. I’m relaxed… personable. I don’t indulge in self-pity. It’s true what I read. We’re so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others, that in the end, we become disguised to ourselves.

Sally, I always worried about you because you march to the beat of your own drum. But now I know that’s good. Your life will be an adventure. 

lesbians are not attracted to men. period. that includes trans men. and to say that the word “lesbian” should only mean a woman who loves women and not a woman who doesn’t like men is pure lesbophobia n fuck ur feelings. 

there is no such thing as a bi/pan lesbian. if ur genuinely attracted to both men and women ur just bi like u dont gotta do all that shit. 

trans lesbians are not “lesbian adjacent” or “dyke lite” they’re lesbians period. and dating a trans woman as a cis lesbian still makes u a lesbian.

lesbians who’ve had relationships with men or currently in relationships with men bc they haven’t come out yet are still fucking lesbians. compulsory heterosexuality does not reflect attraction so stop acting like lesbians who struggle with it secretly like men 

a wound eating you one year at a time?