A Dollâs House by Henrik Ibsen
This play talks about the oppression of woman in marriages in the time of Henrik Ibsen. The final act of the play shows the decline of Noraâs tolerance for Torvaldâs treatment toward her.Â
An important statement Nora made during the first and last argument that they ever had was, âYou neither think nor talk like the man I could join myself to. When your big fright was over â and it wasnât from any threat against me, only from what might damage you â when all the danger was past, for you it was just as if nothing happened. I was exactly the same, your little lark, your doll, that youâd have to handle with double care now that Iâd turned out so brittle and frail. Torvald â in that instant it dawned on me that for eight years Iâve been living here with a stranger, and that Iâd even conceived three children â Oh, I can't stand the thought of it ! I could tear myself to bits!â  Nora says this because she realized that if she got the choice to marry Torvald at that moment, she wouldnât. Torvald was not a man that she felt genuinely cared about her, and this bothered her greatly. He wanted to take the plea bargain to keep his wiveâs name out of the negative gossip in order to benefit himself. He wanted to pretend nothing ever happened so his bank would thrive and so would he. He was willing to be exceptionally careful with her now because she was âbrittle and frailâ. He already treated her like such a child, and things would get even worse now that he thought even less of her. She then realized that she had been with him for 8 years and she did not truly know him. They did not truly know each other. She cold not comprehend how she had spent so much time with a man that did  not understand or respect her. She felt so stupid! What got to her even more was that they had been intimate and had three children together. Nora had realized that she had made a big mistake. Â
Another important statement that she made was â When I lived at home with Papa, he told me all his opinions, so I had the same ones too; or if they were different I hid them, since he wouldnât have cared for that. He used to call me his doll-child, and he played with me the way I played with my dolls... I went from Papaâs hands into yours. You arranged everything to your own taste, and so I got the same taste as you -- or I pretended to; I canât remember. I guess a little of both, first one, then the other. Now when I look back, it seems as if Iâd lived here like a beggar -- just from hand to mouth. Iâve lived by doing tricks for you, Torvald. But thatâs the way you wanted it. Itâs a great sin what you and Papa did to me. Youâre to blame that nothingâs become of me.â  Nora says this because she is noticing just how oppressed that she has always been. Her father had the mentality that he was always right and she should agree with him. She didn't realize at the time that all âherâ opinions were planted in her mind by her father. He even called her a doll, because he liked to âplayâ with her by controlling her whole life including her thoughts. Nora then was given a husband that was just like her father. He would control what she did and thought and treated her like a pretty princess that did not have the intelligence to be her own person. She also felt some confusion as to if she actually agreed with Torvald on many things or if she simply pretended to.  As she recollected, she realized that she simply received money and that was it. She never received love. She never really meant anything to her husband. She simply was entertainment for him, because that is how he wanted their marriage to be. She finishes with mentioning that how she has been treated was wrong and that she has not been a more productive member of society because of it.Â















