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So I’ve had several messages from people asking if I had tips on anal sex. I really don’t have a whole lot of experience in this and definitely aren’t an expert but maybe between what I say and what followers can add it will help these guys/gals…

For me, I have to be really turned on to want anal, so foreplay is #1. I would start with fingers and stay with fingers until you know she is comfortable with moving to something bigger. This may mean you just use your fingers a few times before introducing something else into the picture…or hole :)

Lube…..always use lots of lube. Then, if she is receptive to moving on to your cock, just make sure you warm her up with foreplay moves that she likes, maybe tease her anus with your finger for awhile and then make sure you are very lubed up and SLOWLY slide your cock in. Don’t go in like a jackhammer. Take it slow and pay attention to her cues. Is she liking it? Is it hurting her? Listen to what her body and words are telling you.

If you are fairly big down there, I would suggest using toys before moving to the cock. You can find plugs and anal training toys that start out small and work their way up in size. That will “train” her anus to more easily accept your bigger cock.

And again, LUBE. Dont be skimpy on the lube.

Oh and I think most people try anal in the doggy position but it may be easier for her to relax, which makes it easier for you to slide on in, if you’re in a spooning position.

1. Wait until your sphincter sucks the object in. He says it’s the best part and you won’t hurt afterwards.

He is right. This is where it’s best if you can stay relaxed. If you’re clinching that baby shut, it will be really hard to get anything in and it will hurt.

2. The next one says to use Vaseline as your lubricant and to have the girl be on top. He said that’s what worked best for him and his girlfriend.

So, now a quick rundown on what I know about lubes…. Water based lubes–safe with condoms and toy use but dries up fast, which is why it might not be the best for anal sex as you may need to lube up several times as it wears off. Easy to cleanup though.

Silicone based lubes–safe with latex condoms and some toys but don’t use with silicone toys as it can ruin them over time. Lasts longer & is thicker than water based so is better for anal.