Where do you find these men? I wouldn't have a clue where to start. P.S. Love your tumblr.
HOW TO FIND BULLS FOR YOUR WIFE OR GF
It’s true that I’ve had great success finding BBC for my wife, but remember that we live in one of the largest metro areas in the country and one that has lots of black men so finding guys is always going to be easier than if we lived in a place like Vermont.
A lot also depends on how picky your wife or gf is about the men who fuck her. My wife is very picky about some things - height, cock size and of course, he must be black. But she is not at all picky about age and actually prefers her bulls be 35 - 50 years of age. And my wife is not terrible picky about fitness level. She prefers fit and ripped guys, but an older, reasonably fit BBC is perfectly fine for her too. Some wives we know insist their bulls be really handsome and gym-fit…and some wives want to settle down into a long-term affair with one or two bulls. You have to determine what fits for her. Either way, here’s a rundown of sources for single men:
1. The Simplest: Craigslist
No muss, no fuss. Easy to post, instant results & free! Craigslist is perfect if you are just dipping your toe into the water and aren’t sure you’ll be doing this in 6 months and want to be totally anonymous. Works best in large metro areas. In smaller cities, it’s a waste of time. No matter the city, Craigslist always produces a ton of bullshit and fakes to wade through. Post a very specific ad with your requirements, insist on a pic, height weight, cock size, etc. and ignore any emails that don’t comply. Then start screening because 9/10 will still be fake. Even so, we’ve had luck with Craigslist in the past, but I would almost certainly never use it today since we’ve discovered much better sources.
2. The Best: Swinger Sites
Swinger sites like SLS, SDC, Lifestyle Lounge, AFF, etc. will vastly simplify your search for men because they are filled with single and married guys who’ve gone that extra step and taken the time to post a profile with a few pics and provide height and weight stats and cock size. Being able to search on these criteria saves you a ton of time.
But the most valuable feature of Swinger sites is that they allow other wives and couples to “validate” or post testimonials for others to read. This means you can see which men are real bulls and have pleased other wives in the past. These guys are the cream of the crop and exactly what we are looking for. We’ve had incredible experiences with nearly every single guy we met who had “validations” on his profile. These guys know the lifestyle, know how to interact with a couple in and out of the bedroom.
You don’t need to join many, just one or two and be sure they have lots of members in your area. Most swinger sites are regional meaning they draw members from specific parts of the country like the Midwest or West Coast.
3. The Worst: Message Boards, Hotwife Sites
In the early days of the internet, message boards and chat rooms were the easiest way to find like-minded people into this lifestyle and over the years these message boards and “cuckold” and “hotwife” sites accumulated tons of amateur pictures, videos, etc. which they now repost to draw viewers, but in general these sites are a waste of time. They attract husbands or boyfriends who want to read stories about cuckolding, post pictures and chat with one another about their fantasy. All fun and no harm done, but these really are not places to find bulls. Some of the newer “hotwife” sites and cuck/bull sites are trying to break that mold, but they simply do not have enough membership to make them worthwhile. Enjoy these sites for the content.
4. Total Waste of Time: FETLIFE
Fetlife is an absolute waste of time if you want to actually meet people. And in it’s defense, it’s not really intended as a site to find people as there is no search function. Think of it as a place where (fake) people put up a bulletin board showcasing their darkest fantasies. My guess is that 95%-99% of the profiles are fake or abandoned. Abandoned because people join and quickly discover it’s filled with fakes. The only exception I’ve found is there are a couple of gangbang groups that post for parties in downtown NYC every few weeks. Those guys are real.
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