on the wire between will and what will be

i know this isnt the kasidy yates show (but maybe it should be) but it kills me they never 1. show her reaction re: maquis-getting-got-by-the-dominion. her involvement with eddington was always more of a side gig but SHE LEFT HER CREW ON A MAQUIS COLONY WHEN SHE WENT TO PRISON so it's entirely possible her entire crew is dead. unless they refuged to non-federation and non-dominion space and are fine. (or like, the feds decided to pardon them once kasidy went to prison, or something, or sisko pulled strings to have them let back in). unless that happened then that bolian is dead 2. they don't show her during the dominion takeover arc and i know the dominion being near bajor affected her trade routes. won't somebody think of kasidy yates' trade routes

one of the best pieces of advice I've ever heard (for myself, at least) is that if you're in a terrible mood and NOTHING is helping, then start doing the chores/responsibilities/job stuff/etc that you've been putting off. Will it put you in an even worse mood temporarily? Probably, but you're already pissed off, so you might as well double up on it at that point 😭 there's no loss. It's not like finally getting around to cleaning the house and scheduling appointments is going to ruin the good day that you aren't currently having to begin with 💀 And then, when the bad mood passes, you'll have gotten shit done and you'll feel a lot better later, even if in the moment you're having The Worst Time Ever about it.

Every body wants to be friends with kitty but Ultimately its kittys choice