I Just Really Love Sanders Sides okay?

As an asexual person who is still unclear about both attractions even after almost 10 years of identifying as ace and who is still questioning her romantic orientation, it's kinda helpful to see them separated visually like that.

I feel like it is a lot like separating anxiety or even morality and logic. Separating them and giving them a persona so you can better understand what affects what and who is in control of what. It is what I have always liked about Sanders Sides and I deeply appreciate Thomas and co. for clearly showing that distinction between the two attractions even without spelling it out.

Obviously those attractions look different for everybody and Roman and Remus encompass only what those look like for Thomas. But it could still serve as a way of explaining to an allo person (or even a confused, curious baby ace or aro) that hey, this is an example of a difference between sexual and romantic attraction. The new video alone showcases it perfectly.

The dopamine machine crashed yesterday after I was able to watch the video so I couldn't put all my thoughts and feelings into words but

Yall

It's like coming home.

It's like curling up under a blanket after being in the cold for so long.

It's like the first taste of your favorite meal.

It's like a hug from a friend you haven't seen in years.

It's like a cat coming to cuddle with you.

It's like hearing the voice of your favorite person.