SJ

Naranasan mo na bang maawa sa sarili mo? Yung dadating sa point na titingin ka sa salamin tapos gusto mong damayan yung sarili mo kasi sobrang nararamdaman mo sa itsura niya na nasaktan siya? Yung gusto mong tanungin yung nakikita mo sa salamin kung bakit ganoon na lang palagi yung nangyayari sa kanya kahit wala naman siyang ginagawang masama?

Gaano man kabigat ang nangyaring problema, ang mahalaga inayos at hindi ka hinayaang mag-isa. As long na willing magbago ang isang tao at pinatunayan niya ito na kaya niyang gawin. Patawarin mo. Hindi perpekto ang isang tao para hindi gawin ang mga inaasahan mong bagay.

Hindi mo pwedeng idahilan sa kanya na na-trauma ka sa past mo. Dahil lahat naman ay may panget na past. At kaya kayo naghahanap ng bagong taong magmamahal sa inyon ay para matanggap yung nangyari sa past na ‘yon at maging lesson na lang.

The 3 ingriedients of success: Sacrifice, Pain, and tons of hard work!

I wouldn’t ask you to lean on me, if I wasn’t prepared to fall with you.

I have given God countless reasons not to love me. None of them has been strong enough to change Him.

You don’t need anyone’s affection or approval in order to be good enough. When someone rejects or abandons or judges you, it isn’t actually about you. It’s about them and their own insecurities, limitations, and needs, and you don’t have to internalize that. Your worth isn’t contingent upon other people’s acceptance of you — it’s something inherent. You exist, and therefore, you matter. You’re allowed to voice your thoughts and feelings. You’re allowed to assert your needs and take up space. You’re allowed to hold onto the truth that who you are is exactly enough. And you’re allowed to remove anyone from your life who makes you feel otherwise.

Don’t cry. Just be strong.