Post exam madness

nicki minaj called out steven tyler for making a racist comment and wouldn’t let it go until he publicly apologized to her

nicki minaj makes sure that when her younger relatives listen to her music that they listen to the clean version

when eminem used a homophobic slur in her song she was incredibly uncomfortable about it and spoke to several people in her music team about what she should do about it

she literally tried to give her fans instructions on how to make brownies on twitter

she called out perez hilton, who put on his blog “that she told rihanna to sit her ass down” and she responded with “I AM SICK OF THE SHIT YOU PUT UP! DO YOU REALLY BELIEVE THE SHIT YOU POST?”

when nicki minaj performed her first show the stage wasnt lightning properly and after the show she yelled at her team and the first thing that came out was “MY FANS STAYED OUT FROM 7 PM TO 1 AM TO SEE ME, THEY DONT DESERVE THIS”

one time after a show the crowd was so loud after a performance she went back out and performed in her robe

she put bacon in the microwave

even though lil wayne told her not to she bought him a brand new motorcycle with his name engraved on it

after the american idol q&a she stayed afterwards to talk to her fans and even pushed her security guard out of the way so she can get closer

when asked if she could donate to a can food drive she said no she couldnt because she didnt have any cans, but she felt so bad she donated $15,000

this face:

So my roommate, Dale, has a gf who does not live with us, but she’s here all the time. So Sunday when my gf was her we were on the couch and we kissed (scandalous, I know) and she saw it, and I’m pretty sure that’s the first time she’s seen us be affectionate, that’s neither here nor there.

So today she tells Dale she’s “uncomfortable” here and wants him to move out because she thinks me and my lady are going to hit on her or something, she doesn’t like living with lesbians, cause it’s not “normal”, so now I’m pissed. Then, Dale goes, “well you don’t live here, so it shouldn’t be a problem, just stop coming over”…things escalated and Dale is trying to break up with her, but she won’t leave our house….she locked herself in Dales room.

So, Dale barges in my room wearing a bathrobe and goes, “call every lesbian you know, we’re smoking this bitch out!” Then turns around and whips his robe like a cape…

We are however significantly more likely to be victims of abuse, addiction, poverty, and suicide.

Good people do bad things:

Good and evil are subjective:

Sometimes those you trust the most will hurt you the worst:

Bad things happen to good people:

Even those you love can die:

 Life isn’t fair:

You can’t get something for nothing:

Don’t judge people by their outward appearance:

Don’t give up. Even when things are hard:

Don’t forget the people who helped you get where you are:

Hatred will destroy you:

People can change:

There are two sides to every story:

Even your enemies have feelings:

When the world is crashing down around you, it is okay to laugh:

… or cry:

Family comes in all shapes and sizes:

Big things come in small packages:

The truth is sometimes more frightening than you hoped:

Beauty can hide great strength:

Crying is not a weakness:

Expect the unexpected:

Sometimes you have to make a sacrifice in order to move forward:

Learn from your past. Don’t forget your mistakes:

The one thing everyone seems to forget about mental health is that it can affect your physical health. That it manifest itself into a much bigger thing than it was before. So, suggesting to someone that is depressed to go find something they enjoy or to paint or to read, maybe consider that they physically can’t. It is not basically mentally they can’t but it is because their body just won’t move.

We can accept panic attack, anxiety attacks, those are all physical symptoms of a mental health problem, so is feeling sick, needing the toilet all the time, getting angry, having headaches and a racing heart - these are all physical symptoms of mental health.

Mental health is not just about the mind but also the body. Don’t judge someone with crutches because they are young, you don’t know what is going with them. Don’t assume that everyone with a mental health problem is going to be sad or upset or angry, their mental health can demonstrate itself in a much scarier way.

For me, this comes in my lack of ability to walk without aids, having daily seizures, getting sick at the slightest bit of food, crippling headaches to the point where I can’t open my eyes, stuttering, shaking legs and loosing the feeling in my hands.

As a wonderful neurologist told me, along with a psychiatrist, that mental health should be treated the same way as a physical condition - with an open mind and lack of judgement. You wouldn’t judge someone going into hospital with a broken leg so why judge someone going into hospital with a mental health problem.