i had to speak about this because this is genuinely eating me alive. so fucking disappointing and upsetting.
i swear, some of yāall are the most disrespectful, entitled people iāve ever seen. what the actual fuck is wrong with you? the kids are finally on the south american leg of their world tour, their first time in brazil, and instead of giving them the love and respect they deserve, some of you are out here acting like complete clowns.
stalking their hotel? crowding outside and filming them while theyāre on the goddamn balcony? are you kidding me? they canāt even step out to breathe without a fucking camera shoved in their face. thatās not admiration, thatās obsession. and not the good kind.
and then they go to the beach, probably thinking they could relax and enjoy a moment of peace.. but no. yāall are out there too, filming them like theyāre fucking zoo animals. make it make sense !!!!! what part of the word 'privacy' is so hard to understand? these are real people. human beings. the level of audacity is insane. do you even realize how suffocating that must feel? theyāre literally on the other side of the world from home, wanting to meet their fans, their supporters from around the world, excited but probably exhausted, and this is how you treat them? so fucking disappointing.
but no, it doesnāt stop there, because of course it doesnāt! letās talk about the absolute vile shit that happened after the chile concert. some of you had the nerve, no, the fucking gall.. to bash chan. over what? ghosting bubble for a week? after his group was mobbed at the airport? after one of his teammates nearly fell because of fans trying to stick to them? really?
a line of enlightenment, heās not your personal entertainment service. heās a human with a life, responsibilities, and feelings. he needed a damn break. he deserved it. maybe he was tired. maybe he just wanted to exist without the constant pressure of pleasing millions of people. but no, thatās too much for some of you to comprehend.
and then, when he finally comes back, the first thing he does is check in on his home country. because, in case you missed it, oh wait, you didnāt, you just didnāt careā sk was dealing with wildfires. literal, destructive wildfires. but yāall wanted him to just pretend that didnāt exist? the man asked if the weather was okay in his home country, and you psychos lost your shit.
calling him slurs? cursing him out? saying he only cares about k-stays? because he dared to check on his country? some of you even said youāre selling your concert tickets like thatās some sort of punishment. quite frankly, do it, i dare you. better and sensible stays are out there who actually deserve to attend their concert. go sell your tickets. stray kids donāt need āfansā like you there.
and what makes it worse? chan probably saw all of that. every disgusting comment. yāall made him feel like shit. you really sat behind your screens and tore down the most caring, selfless man who has done everything for his team pretty much his family, those around him, his company, and the fandom. after all the sleepless nights, the constant work, the emotional labor, this is what he gets? and then he comes back to bubble. those messages. are you fucking serious? that broke me. that genuinely broke me.
chan doesnāt deserve this. none of the guys do. iām so goddamn tired of this toxic shit. yāall claim to love them, but the second they donāt cater to your every whim, you turn on them like a pack of wolves. being a stay isnāt about getting constant attention. itās not about thinking you own them. itās about supporting them, respecting them, and appreciating everything they do. if you canāt do that, leave. nobody fucking wants you here.
and before anyone says, 'but i didnāt do any of that!' ā good! then this isnāt about you. but if you ever catch yourself excusing this behavior, staying silent while your so-called stay-friends act like actual bitches, or brushing it off as 'just criticism,' then yeah, youāre part of the problem. and iām done sugarcoating that shit.
protect skz. respect skz. and for the love of everything, leave chris alone. iām fucking done.