humming...

"romantic" self shipping while being a flavour of aro is both fun and a bit isolating... it's fun esp if your f/o is a flavour of aro too because your relationship is uniquely shaped by being aro4aro... but also a bit isolating bc often you see posts that you think fit really good but are just a bit off bc of how you experience being aro... and sometimes you don't think the "romantic" label fits completely so it feels more like "romantic(?)" but it's the "best" label that people can get so you use it anyway but you hope that other people understand that your relationship isn't just like conventional amatonormative relationships

this is my emotional support self insert where i’m cool and everyone loves me

This is my other emotional support self insert where I’m just a nuisance and I Cannot Be Stopped

aro self shippers, ace self shippers, aroace self shippers, aspec self shippers: you’re amazing. whether you ship with only platonic and familial characters or you ship romantically, you’re incredible. if you hc any of your f/os as aspec, you’re not only valid but you’re correct. remember always that the way you experience love and attraction is yours, and extending that to any of your f/os is wonderful too. absolutely anyone can be aroace and nobody knows your f/os like you do. keep doing whatever makes you happy and don’t let anyone stop you ❤️