Debunked: 5 Popular Engagement and Wedding Ring Myths!
Engagement and wedding rings are much more than just a custom, they symbolise a coupleβs eternal love and togetherness. Initially diamond rings (or precious gem-studded bands) were solely designated Β as engagement and wedding bands. With passage of time, the choice of these rings, their style and design has evolved.
However, certain beliefs associated with wearing engagement and wedding rings remain unchanged till date! Hence, weβve done some research and are busting 5 such famous engagement and wedding band myths for you. Keep reading to find outβ¦
The vein that runs to your heart
Ever wondered, why is an engagement ring worn on fourth finger of the left hand? Is it a tradition or more? Well, the reason for this is a belief that a vein called βvena amorisβ runs from your left hand fourth finger right up to your heart! Hence, people started adorning engagement rings on this finger, as a sign of their love. Even though, modern science has disregarded this notion, it is still commonly believed and widely followed in the western culture.
Tight wedding rings can stifle your marriage
Another popular assumption is β an overtight wedding band can infact cause resenment in your married life! It is believed to spark jealousy within a marriage, which can create rifts and ultimately lead to the downfall of your relationship. Even though, there isnβt any proof for this, it is still commonly accepted.
Exchanging gold rings as a sign of trust
One question that we hear frequently β why are wedding rings so expensive? Most common thoughts because of the metal, gemstones and so on. However, there is another perspective to it. It is believed that gold wedding rings are exchanged as a symbol of trust. They demonstrate the confidence, love and commitment that is shared between the couple. Hence, the prices!
Engagement rings are for women only
A symbol of love and commitment, engagement rings are worn when a couple decides to take the next step in their relationship. Still, it is seen that mostly women are the one who don and flaunt their engagement rings. This gives rise to a question β why is wearing these rings gender-oriented? The only factor to be considered should be the what the ring represents and means to the wearer. With changing times, people are recognising this. And men are increasingly opting to wear their engagement rings, thereby, effectively making this myth redundant. Round diamond engagement rings are the best
Even though, you may not be a fan of diamonds, you would be aware that round diamonds are the most popular choice for engagement rings. Since people so commonly opt for it, many of us do not realise that there are many other diamond options that you can go for. Whether you are looking for another shape, cut or colour, there are a plethora of choices available in the market. So, we say, do not let this myth dictate your engagement ring choice. Instead go shopping and pick the diamond engagement ring that suits your personality and lifestyle too!
Although, we end the article here, let us tell you there are many more such myths out there. So, weβd that pay no heed to these hard to prove beliefs around wearing engagement and wedding rings. On the contrary, take your own decisions and adorn these rings as a sign of your eternal love and bond!