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- General Overview:

Let's lay down the foundations for this analysis by stating the basic facts; Laito Sakamaki is one of the six Sakamaki brothers, serving as the third triplet born to the vampire Karlheinz and his first wife, Cordelia. Outwardly, his archetype is that of the "Lustful Sadist"-Laito presents himself as flirtatious, carefree, and shamelessly hedonistic, often playing the role of a perverse tease who blurs the lines between affection and cruelty at the drop of a hat (heh, get it?)

At first, he appears as a playful man far too lost in his own amusement to be anything more than that-however, this notion couldn't be further from the truth-as Laito is considered to be incredibly dangerous by his own brothers, and that's not putting it lightly. This "true" self of his is something we the player and Yui both discover rather quickly and unpleasantly..

- Design philosophy:

According to the official fanbook, Laito was the most difficult character to create. The illustrator focused on three keywords: perverse, trendy and attractive-here we will analyse how these traits translate in his appearance.

Laito wears the same school uniform as everyone else, with some unique changes-first off his pants are noticeably shorter, reaching just barely over his knee.

His jacket is unbuttoned and modified with a fashionable fur pattern, but the most iconic things are undoubtedly his tilted fedora and his mole-placed right under his lip, indicating a natural sensuality. His hair is a dark red purposefully "messy" as we can see from the stray strand he lets fall over his forehead.

His eyes are slanted and green like his mother's-a color typically used to indicate deception and envy. His body language characterized by his ever-present smirk visually communicates his easygoing attitude -yet also indicates a feeling of secrecy. Finally,his elegant yet also "loose" posture and loose clothing choices reinforce the concept of a deceptive calm that contrasts his chaotic behaviour. Laito's voice design further reinforces this dichotomy: his tone is smooth, playful, and singsong, yet layered with menace and manipulation, allowing him to shift from seducer to sadist without warning. Altogether, his design embodies contradiction-scouction and calculation.

Backstory and trauma:

- Psychological Aspect:

It is a widely agreed upon fact that his backstory alone enhances the game's disturbing factor by a hundred. Here is a breakdown of it; his early life is defined by extreme emotional and sexual trauma, inflicted by his mother, Cordelia. Instead of estabilishing traditional familial bond, Cordelia cruelly used Laito as a substitute for her absent lover, blurring boundaries between affection and exploitation— yet at the same time,she consistently degraded him,reminding him that he would never be like Karlheinz and would therefore never be as important on her eyes. This incestuous abuse warped Laito’s understanding of intimacy from a young age, teaching him that love is inseparable from control, pain, and seduction— and that love itself may not be anything but a word. When Karlheinz,his own father,discovered their relationship, he failed to protect Laito— instead, he punished him by imprisoning him alone in the attic, compounding the trauma with abandonment and shame. Rather than being rescued, Laito was blamed, reinforcing a self-image of worthlessness and corruption. Over time, he inevitably developed a mask of charm and promiscuity to hide his broken sense of self, adopting a hypersexual, teasing persona to stay emotionally invulnerable. Cordelia’s violent death at the hands of her sons and her lingering presence inside Yui (mostly seen in Haunted Dark Bridal) further complicate his emotional world, triggering unresolved attachment and revulsion. His behavior in the present—marked by sadism, manipulation, and sexual dominance—can be traced back to this early history of abuse, neglect, and unresolved psychological damage.

- Relationship with his siblings:

As stated earlier, Laito's prolonged exposure to sexual abuse, emotional neglect, and misdirected punishment resulted in a profoundly fragmented psyche. He developed a defense mechanism of masking vulnerability with hypersexuality, using flirtation, sadism, and manipulation to regain a sense of control over interpersonal dynamics. The incestuous relationship with Cordelia conditioned him to equate pain with love and domination with affection, leaving him unable to form healthy emotional bonds. As a result, Laito struggles with dissociation-not from reality, but from genuine intimacy often reducing others to "toys" or "games" to avoid confronting his own feelings of worthlessness and confusion. His compulsive need to test, tease, and hurt others, particularly Yui, stems from a subconscious belief that true connection is dangerous, and that anyone who claims to care for him must be lying or naive. Essentially, Laito is caught in a psychological loop where he re-enacts his own victimization from the role of the abuser, both fearing love and craving it in equal measure, in an attempt to "reclaim" his own trauma.

Laito's relationship with his triplet brothers, Ayato and Kanato, is a volatile mix of shared trauma, rivalry, and fragile loyalty. As children of Cordelia, all three endured emotional neglect and abuse -each responding in psychologically distinct but equally damaging ways. While they share a traumatic origin and a familial bond, they are often shown bickering, mocking, and undermining one another, cach desperate to assert dominance in a family where love was always a competition.

(I will be focusing on his relationship with the other 2 triplets because they're the ones closest to him and with more material to analyze.)

Laito treats Ayato with sarcastic amusement, often teasing him for his arrogance and need for validation, yet there's a buried resentment in how Ayato was favored differently while Ayato feels a sense of guilt towards his feigned indifference towards Laito despite him knowing that he was Cordelia's primary "target" and that without him both he and Kanato would've had it far far worse. With Kanato, the relationship is colder and more volatile. Laito views Kanato as emotionally unstable and difficult to reason with-often treating him with exasperation or amusement, but never with trust. Kanato, in turn, seems to resent Laito's flippant attitude and overt sexuality, especially given that both were heavily damaged by Cordelia. Kanato'sdeep emotional wounds manifest in obsessive, childlike outbursts and necrophilic tendencies, which Laito both ridicules and distances himself from-perhaps because Kanato reflects a rawness that Laito is terrified to face within himself. Still, there is an undeniable mirroring between them: both were deeply entangled with Cordelia in different but scarring ways, and both use others (dolls, lovers, "toys") to reenact or control what they couldn't as children. Their relationship is more about tension than communication, with any moment of mutual understanding quickly dissolving into sarcasm or hostility. Rather than comfort one another, they perform cruelty and superiority, mimicking the household that raised them. The Sakamaki triplets aren't brothers in the nurturing sense they're more like co-survivors of a childhood that taught them to compete, repress, and dominate in order to feel safe.

Underneath all the dysfunction, Laito's true thoughts toward both Ayato and Kanato are laced with a complex mix of contempt, pity, and longing. There's a silent recognition that no one else could ever fully understand what they went through and yet, none of them are emotionally equipped to help each other heal. They keep each other at arm's length with cruelty, because that's what they were taught family was: competition, dominance, and conditional worth. The tragedy is not just that they are broken, but that they were never given the tools to be brothers in any loving or stable sense. In rare moments, there are brief glimpses of grief, or even buried affection such as in Dark Fate but it's always buried beneath layers of performance and survival instinct.

- Relationship with Cordelia

Laito's relationship with Cordelia is the foundation of his psychological damage-a grotesque distortion of maternal love that left him emotionally and sexually scarred. She treated him not as a son, but as a lover and object of possession, grooming him into believing that being desired was the same as being loved. This twisted bond instilled in Laito a warped view of intimacy, where pain, pleasure, dominance, and affection became inseparable. Yet despite the abuse, Laito's feelings toward Cordelia remain disturbingly conflicted-wildly ranging from hatred, to childlike affection, and most horrendously to "attraction". He expresses hatred for her cruelty and manipulation, but also a sick form of attachment even describing her as someone who "loved" him in a way no one else has. In some moments, he mocks or despises her, in others, he seems to mourn her loss or replicate her behavior through his own treatment of others. This inner contradiction traps Laito in a cycle of re-enacting Cordelia's abuse: seeking power over others while simultaneously yearning for someone to love him in a way she never did. Her influence persists long after her death, not just as trauma but as a template for all his relationships-especially with Yui. Laito's inability to fully condemn or detach from Cordelia reflects how deeply trauma can entangle love and violence, even when the victim knows they were wronged.

- Relationship with Yui:

Laito's relationship with Yui Komori is defined by a volatile mix of sadism, obsession, emotional dependency, and deeply corrupted ideas of love..along with many parallels. In the early stages of their interaction-particularly in Haunted Dark Bridal and More Blood-Laito's relationship with Yui is deeply abusive, especially in the early game routes, marked by coercion, manipulation, and repeated violations of her bodily autonomy. He forces himself on her, mocks her resistance, and frequently gaslights her into questioning her own boundaries-all while insisting that she "enjoys" the pain, echoing the exact language Cordelia once used on him. Laito projects his own trauma onto Yui, testing whether she will love him the way his mother claimed to unconditionally, no matter how much he hurts her. He sees his younger self as her an "untouched" creature who he can fully dismantle and pour all his frustrations into like his mother did to him. -Laito tests boundaries and masks his fears with manipulation and cruelty and following the "hurt them before they hurt you" concept to a T. Their dynamic becomes a constant psychological confrontation— Yui forces Laito to confront what real,non-transactional connection might feel like, while Laito forces Yui to navigate the complex gray areas between compassion and self-preservation. Yui is someone who refuses to become what hurt her, and Laito is someone still imprisoned by what shaped him. Despite this, Yui becomes the first person to challenge him emotionally, offering not just fear or submission, but something he's never had: empathy and moral clarity. As the games progress, particularly in Dark Fate, cracks begin to show in his carefully constructed facade and he actually begins to make a step forward to grow from his trauma, while both of them become increasingly emotionally reliant on eachother he is drawn to her compassion and stability things he never received in childhood. Laito begins to fear losing her, not just as a possession, but as the very first person to make him feel love and feel loved. Of course, since this is Diabolik Lovers were talking about and the characters are still undeniable abusers (all the relationship are quite literally predator x prey so that's pretty much a given..), even in routes where he truly does develop and begins to show genuine affection and consideration of Yui, his affection remains entangled with possessiveness and manipulation, making their relationship a painful reflection of trauma bonding rather than a truly healing romance. While Yui's empathy sometimes inspires moments of vulnerability in Laito, neither he nor the other characters ever fully atone for the harm they cause her, and Yui is repeatedly placed in the role of emotional caretaker, enduring psychological and physical abuse in order to reach the fragments of his buried humanity. Their relationship is not a redemptive romance, atleast not entirely, it is a trauma bond, where both connection and cruelty coexist, and where healing remains ambiguous, conditional, and fraught with power imbalanse despite the happiness displayed on the surface from both sides a happiness that regardless of it's precarious state is still undoubtedly genuine at it's core.

- Development;

Buckle up, here comes the good part. The whole reason I made this analysis.)

Reminding ourselves that Haunted Dark Bridal was retconned and is non-canon,we'll focus on his development starting from More Blood where at the end of a long and complex route which explores his trauma in depth, his walls begin to crack in a way that reveals genuine emotional vulnerability thanks to Yui's efforts. Throughout his route, he begins to confront the possibility that Yui's affection is not a trap or performance, nor is it simply her sexual attraction to him speaking, but something freely offered from her heart. This terrifies him as he is unable to distinguish love and lust pleasure and pain. His route reaches it's climax when he does begin to understand that the two can exist together as he accepts his feelings for Yui and her feelings for him as true despite the rampant sexuality that keeps those feelings "tainted". He begins to see Yui in a much more positive light, and by the end the two are in a relatively "happy" relationship...however, Laito's most compelling development unfolds in Dark Fate. Removed from the rigid cruelty of the Sakamaki household and thrust into the conflict between vampires and wolves, Laito is forced into new emotional territory one where manipulation alone no longer guarantees control. In this, Laito becomes painfully self-aware of his own emotional dysfunction; he expresses regret, doubt, and an aching need to understand what love actually is while also tackling the fear of abandonment that plagues him, and eventually even the concept of suicide. He openly recognizes the fact that he, too, was a victim-something he previously masked with sadistic detachment. His possessiveness remains, but it's tinged with fear of loss rather than pure domination. He questions his feelings, asks Yui to help him understand himself and her and shows signs of rejecting the cycle Cordelia imposed on him while coming to terms with her death. While his progress is not linear -he continues to act in problematic and controlling ways Dark Fate presents the first meaningful shift in Laito's internal world: not a redemption, but the beginning of a confrontation with his trauma, shame, and capacity for real connection. It's a rare moment in the franchise where Laito is not only dissected, but softened still broken, still dangerous, but beginning to seck a full healing.

- Themes and Symbolism:

Laito's character embodies several core themes in Diabolik Lovers: most of all the cyclical nature of abuse, corruption, objectification and even religious trauma. His signature motif -the hat, often tipped low over his eyes-functions as a literal and symbolic mask (worn mostly during the carlier parts of his routes when the "conflict" is still on going, and typically ending up without it at the end), concealing the pain and shame he refuses to confront. The religious symbolism tied to Yui (often portrayed with crosses, holy imagery and..yes, that church scene.) becomes even more loaded in Laito's routes, as he repeatedly tests and desecrates her perceived innocence in an attempt to disprove the possibility of "pure" love.

His sadomasochistic behaviors also carry symbolic weight-not just as shock value, but as a way to ritualize his pain, to control what once controlled him by making himself enjoy anything that may hurt him. He symbolizes the cyclical nature of abuse-how victims, when left untreated and emotionally abandoned, can unconsciously or consciouly become perpetrators, repeating the very harm done to them. His hypersexual, teasing persona is not simply a personality trait but a symbolic mask: a performance of power used to cover profound emotional fear, abandonment, and self-loathing. His constant references to others as "toys" reflect his own objectification at the hands of Cordelia; he can only relate to others through roles of possession and use, because he was never treated as someone with intrinsic value. Finally, the last core theme Laito tackles is shared across all the boys in the series: what can be defined as love? Is it still love even though it's abusive? Can an abusive relationship show signs of recovery? Can healing and "atoning"-seeking redemption and attempting to change your ways be considered a way of taking accountability without explicitly stating it?

- Other- how the anime fails:

The Diabolik Lovers anime (just mentioning it fills me with unbridled rage) flattens Laito Sakamaki and all his brothers into shallow fanservice caricatures, stripping away the complex psychological layers that make him both disturbing and compelling in the games. In the anime, he is reduced to a one-note flirt who smirks, gropes, and spouts innuendos with little nuance or context and just acts mysterious for the sake of being mysterious. His trauma,particularly the incestuous abuse by Cordelia and the emotional damage it caused is either ignored or vaguely alluded to without gravity, making his sadism seem purely gratuitous rather than the product of deep psychological trauma. The anime presents his assaults on Yui without any real emotional framing, treating them as routine fanservice instead of critically disturbing moments meant to challenge the player's perception of morality particularly the church scene, which ends up having absolutely no consequences to Yui's mental health, as they both continue to remain square one characters who do not EVER change across both seasons. It also fails to explore his quieter, more introspective moments-essentially making him a villain just for the sake of being a villain. His teasing, in the source material, often masks pain and tests emotional boundaries; in the anime, it's played for shallow eroticism and cheap shock. In removing the tension between Laito's performance and his inner torment, the anime demonizes him even more-not-by making him monstrous as the games do, but by making him hollow. What should be unsettling in a PSYCHOLOGICAL HORROR OTOME SERIES becomes just another trope: the perverted vampire with no depth, no arc, and no meaning.

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