Unlike this (Self Identified TME) person I'm actually going to go outside to those community spaces that are a lot more welcoming than this jackass. Ops the type to ask to be a bouncer at a community club and watch everyone look at op weird especially the older queers and op would wonder what's wrong with everyone else.
""definitionally" transgender-" what the ever loving fuck are we doing, genuinely seriously...1. I'm usually not nit picky but if you're going to be the one to double down on definitions let's start with using real words first. Expect a bouncer with a dictionary at the next community club ig...? Hold yourself to the same standards if you care about definitions so much or I will help you. 2. My main point being why the fuck does someone else's definition of their OWN TRANS HOOD need subjected to your standards? Why do people have to flay out their "ASAB", (however the fuck this person interprets it because I dont trust em) childhood, teenager, and early adulthood experiences to be one of the good ones to you? They always loudly and proudly claim to be exclus to people they've not talked to. 3. I frankly don't care about your opinion if you're proudly a "little exclus", have never included any post with nonbinary people or intersex people or people with contradictory labels because you've purposely not searched out experiences that differ from yours.
Like there's a genuine criticism of the terms "AFAB" and "female socialized" as how they are used currently but (don't know why you would put AFAB when it's origin is an intersex term that's been bastardized over the years but I think I do because yet again you use TME), yet again, we're asking the person WITH TME IN THEIR BIO and proudly and loudly exclaims to being "a little exclus" on "transandrobros" to think outside of their own experiences,, yeah I'm sure thats a good faith conversation in the making (/sarcasm)
Everyday I wake up and see spiteful trans men expecting other trans men to just agree that that behavior is normal to basically shoot your trans siblings and GNC siblings and especially those both with contradictory labels in the foot,,, and sadly the pessimists are all online so it Conflates their numbers but I can tell you Actually Good Community Centers™ don't judge off someone's presentation unless you're GNC or intersex which oop doesn't acknowledge these people ever,,, hm wonder why.
Idk instead of assuming the Real Trans Experience of "AFABS" or random people on the internet you can't see but assume their experience & genitals align even tho they possibly felt pressured to use the possible bastardized definition of AFAB over the years to be included in a exclusive club of TIRFS that uphold misogyny as the one true force across the world oppressing "women", (their very narrow idea of women). Because yet again people like op are either talking with their chest about discourse they've only just dipped their toes in and have not seen the changing of use of the terms or where they originated or intentionally obtuse to other people's experiences.
And oop felt confident enough to talk about privilege.
And whaddya know look at the past 30 mins-
As if that's not rhetoric I've seen spread in the tr4nsmisogyny tag that, "trans women know more about being women than trans men" post, repackaged bioessentialism to gender essentialism, assuming transandrophobia only affects binary trans men, conflating misandry with transmisandry and purposely avoiding the context of adding marginalized identities, no proof of the "misogyny isnt as serious as transandrophobia post but also imma acknowledge ya admitted to experiencing both" okay we can't say both of those statements at the same time pal ... "But only if they have a vagina-" proof?
I've seen screenshot after screenshot in the transandrophobia tag but people like these two can bluff about shit they don't have to prove over and over again and get claps for nothing. For people who demand proof they never have to show it, when they do it's the EXACT SAME two people we've warned others about in the tag as bad actors 😭🫵🫵 like you prove you don't read in the tag you spew shit about, your opinion means nothing. 😭🫵
Anyway include your nonbinary siblings, no longer asking or you're a full on exclus babe 😘
