Only God and the Sector Keeper can judge me

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The goal here is a positive experience, in whatever form that takes for you - physical intimacy, fun social interaction, just the warmth of other human beings, reassurance of being cared about, whatever form it takes.

The interaction, however, is primarily sleep. You're not staying up all night talking or doing anything else, it's about whether a night of sleep in the pile is good.

Even with the last 'strangers' option, you can assume that the strangers are guaranteed trustworthy/friendly - no risk of one of them doing anything bad.

You wouldn't have to want to do this every night or anything, it can be a one-time or occasional thing, it's just to see if the idea is appealing whatsoever.

the reason it is often intertwined with internalized misogyny, is because for many people who are seen or see themselves as women, "being desirable by [cis] men" is a priority akin to food and shelter, something they revolve their entire identity and self-worth and life plan around, oftentimes to the extent that they don't even fully understand their own desires and if men are even a part of the picture because the impetus to be desirable comes before their desires were fully expressed.

similarly, "decentering men" is not about never having a person who is a man be a major priority in your life. the problem with "centering men" is that it is intended to describe how people who are seen or see themselves as women, again, are coerced into constructing their entire sense of self and life plan around their current or future husband/sons/brothers/father/etc. with the implicit assumption in themselves & the men in their lives that it is natural and normal for them to prioritize their male loved ones over anything, including & especially their own personhood and wellbeing.