I love when someone is explaining instructions to a group I’m in and they look at me and it reminds them to say something about using preferred names/pronouns or that there’s vegan food options available. I go by my given name/pronouns and I’m not vegan but I’m proud that I can provide this service

my hill to die on is that if we had some real conversations about what eating disorders are, like, definitionally, a loooooot of people would realize they have eating disorders that should not be normalized

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make the attachment a pic of a snail

I still reference this post today. And yes, when I say I reference it I mean I sing it.

Look I am extremely pro therapy but sometimes finding a new therapist is a pain in the butt

Becoming a parent is optional but being kind to children is never optional. You don't have to have kids but everyone has a duty to society to treat children with the same basic level of respect you'd treat any other innocent person with no matter what your own personal feelings about parenthood are.

Truths

This took me a while to learn. People often respond to their experiences, expectations, and perceptions—not the full picture of who we are. There's a lot of peace in showing up with kindness, staying true to yourself, and letting go of the need to manage every opinion.