women first

My SO’s relative got murdered a few days ago by her partner. He had apparently been violently abusing her for years and got convicted of assault on their female friend a month prior. She had grown distant from my SO and his parents due to her partner, because they got very bad vibes from him and did not want to visit when he was there.

Somehow the appeal worked and he got his sentence reduced from life in prison to 7 years and is now only convicted of aggravated assault instead of murder. The court’s reasoning is that since she COULD have died from drug poisoning and since they have to be 100% sure it was murder in order to convict someone for murder they decided to drop the murder charge completely. He’ll likely be out in 4 years.

The man got life in prison, thankfully. This case actually reached the Supreme Court of Sweden, which is extremely rare, and justice was served. An entire documentary was made about her case. It has been extremely influential in how Sweden handles domestic abuse cases

This man is locked behind bars and will probably spend his entire life in prison. Thank god.

My SO’s relative got murdered a few days ago by her partner. He had apparently been violently abusing her for years and got convicted of assault on their female friend a month prior. She had grown distant from my SO and his parents due to her partner, because they got very bad vibes from him and did not want to visit when he was there.

Somehow the appeal worked and he got his sentence reduced from life in prison to 7 years and is now only convicted of aggravated assault instead of murder. The court’s reasoning is that since she COULD have died from drug poisoning and since they have to be 100% sure it was murder in order to convict someone for murder they decided to drop the murder charge completely. He’ll likely be out in 4 years.

My SO’s relative got murdered a few days ago by her partner. He had apparently been violently abusing her for years and got convicted of assault on their female friend a month prior. She had grown distant from my SO and his parents due to her partner, because they got very bad vibes from him and did not want to visit when he was there.

My SO’s relative got murdered a few days ago by her partner. He had apparently been violently abusing her for years and got convicted of assault on their female friend a month prior. She had grown distant from my SO and his parents due to her partner, because they got very bad vibes from him and did not want to visit when he was there.

I was fresh out of childhood. Barely 18 years old and naive, depressed and desperate for someone to love me and fill the void in my heart with touches and kisses.

I couldn’t understand why I was so depressed and anxious afterwards. I didn’t realise why I had flashbacks and felt nauseous all the time. He was kind to me. He told me about his two sons and his work. He was an occupational therapist, and gave me advice on education and jobs. He hugged me after sex and ran me a bath with bubbles. He kissed my forehead as he told me to quit sex work. He told me it was dangerous and that I should love myself more.

Did you want her to make him dress in glittery platform boots, a crop top, and decorate his office in rainbow flags to make it more obvious for you? Would that be enough of a stereotype to appease you people? Or what? Please tell me. I’d like to know how you think a gay character is supposed to be portrayed.

And did you miss the Grindelwald chapters in the ‘actual books’? Or was that also not obvious enough for you? Did Dumbledore need to whisper “always” wistfully in order for you to connect that he had romantic feelings for Grindelwald? Maybe you are American and need them to gaze longingly into each others eyes with awkward close ups of their fingers almost grazing each other that Hollywood thinks means ‘true love’. 

It didn’t fit into his relationship to Harry to ever say “I’m gay”, and so it was not stated explicitly (you might have noticed the book was told from Harry Potter’s perspective).