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can't read mlm fiction where they cheat on their wives/gfs bc the wanting to bludgeon both men to death gets in the way but i eat it up when lesbians use & betray the men in their lives #mydoublestandard

one of my favourite lesbian movies is Imagine Me & You, but if it was reversed? murder

HEY CAN EVERYONE TELL SHEILA THAT THIS IS NOT AN OVERREACTION AND THAT THIS IS INSANE AND YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM YESTERDAY

GIRL, DUMP HIM

GIRL KILL HIM

IF HE IS NOT USING PAPER I HOPE IT'S BECAUSE HE USES SOAP AND WATER EVERY FUCKING TIME.

op hit him with a baseball bat and then a car. and then leave him. gross gross gross.

Definitely not a cult trying to influence impressionable teenagers

I’d die on the hill that “stranger danger” is a deeply unhelpful mentality to have. “Ooooh everyone is out to get me they’re all gonna perpetrate harm that’s actually more likely to come from someone I already know. I better never talk to anyone in my community who I don’t already know, just to be safe. I’m sure there are no other biases interwoven with this mentality” like oh my god human traffickers do not just randomly spawn in every parking lot. You don’t have to go solo hitchhiking across the country but you also don’t have to live in fear that every guy on the street is the knife man who’s gonna get you. Like have situational awareness, yeah. But most of the time the guy on the street is not knife man he’s actually just a guy on the street and he’s probably pretty chill, and you’re driving yourself crazy by living in a constant state of unnecessary fear.

Like always safety comes first, especially if you’re in a marginalized group more likely to be targeted by random people around you. But that’s different from stranger danger. I might even say that stranger danger is something that contributes to marginalized groups getting targeted by random people. Which strangers do you find distrust worthy? Why? Does vague distrust justify harmful actions in the name of self defense? Stranger danger draws everyone away from more important issues of safety (underlying bigotries, systemic injustices, abuse in the home, etc) and towards an amorphous boogeyman that has no solution, because it’s not the real cause or culprit.

i have never in my life heard an adult or even teenager use “stranger danger”. it’s a motto for children to protect them from people who approach them whom they don’t know. it is so disingenuous to suggest that paranoia about public safety is unfounded. women especially are vilified for not being prepared in case of an attack, but if a woman is prepared, they’re paranoid and hate all men? i concede that most abuse is from someone you know. that doesn’t mean it’s completely useless or harmful to acknowledge the danger in being in public. every woman i know has a story about a public encounter with a man who disrespected or violated boundaries at the bare minimum. not naming the problem isn’t going to make it go away and dismissing real fear that is grounded in reality to suggest it’s a form of a systemic oppression is fucked up and intellectually dishonest

OP is a man saying man things about women’s inevitable wariness around the half of the population that keeps raping us. We’re very notably not afraid of other women, but OP knows that if he pouts and sulks about us being cautious around men he’ll be too obviously in the wrong so we get this manipulation tactic instead.

op 🚩🚩🚩

meanwhile actual women got told that if our thighs touch each other we’re disgusting fat pigs and need to starve ourselves

@gendiebrainrotreceipts

… does he think his arms … got shorter?