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"I didn't feel like a woman/girl"

You can't feel like a sex because they're not emotions or sensations. It's just a state of being. You're just uncomfortable and unhappy with gender roles forced unto you.

I can assure you most people, especially women, aren't happy with these roles either.

Not feeling "feminine" or not subscribing to sexist gender roles doesn't make you not a woman.

Okay but nobody said anything about feeling like a sex?? Gender identity and biological sex are two different things and this post just quietly smooshed them together and hoped nobody noticed 💀

And "you're just uncomfortable with gender roles" is so condescending because you just decided you understand my inner experience better than I do. That's not feminism that's just. Telling someone to sit down and accept the label they were given at birth. Which is ironically exactly what feminism was supposed to fight against??

Also "not feeling feminine doesn't make you not a woman" — completely true and nobody argued otherwise!! But genuinely experiencing two distinct gender identities isn't the same as just not vibing with feminine stereotypes. Those are different things and this post knows that and chose to ignore it anyway 💀

The point of (radical) feminism is to abolish gender entirely. This is because gender is a patriarchal construct that disproportionately inhibits women and girls.

Sex is real, gender isn't.

Furthermore, I noticed that what people call "gender" is just having a personality, aesthetics, and habits.

Also, if gender and sex are different, why do some trans/nb people take offence when you acknowledge their biological sex?

"Sex is real, gender isn't" and "what people call gender is just personality aesthetics and habits" and "why do trans people get offended when you acknowledge their biological sex" — that's not radical feminism making a nuanced point about socialization anymore, that's just transphobia and enbyphobia with extra steps and you did that yourself without any help from me

And the biological sex acknowledgment thing — the reason trans and nonbinary people take issue with it isn't because biological sex existing as a concept is offensive. It's because "acknowledging biological sex" is constantly used as an excuse to deadname people, use wrong pronouns, treat trans people according to their assigned sex instead of their actual identity, and basically ignore everything they've told you about themselves. It's not being used for medical purposes in these conversations. It's being used to invalidate. That's the part that's offensive and I think you know that 💀

Gender and personality are also just. Different things. By your own logic cis people don't have genders either, just personalities and aesthetics. Which means you just argued yourself out of having a gender. Interesting choice

Also, being trans isn't defined by the medical treatments you get, the clothes you wear, or the makeup you put on. Not all trans women do those things, and even if they do, literally so what? A trans woman identifying as a woman is not going to kill you. You sound like a total TERF, and if your side ever gets its way in society, we’re going to end up in some bizarre dystopia where "security TERFs" inspect everyone's pants and genitals before letting them into public spaces, which is beyond disgusting. Plus, if makeup and dresses are inherently female and men can't touch them, then women shouldn't be wearing pants either since they were originally masculine. Guess we should all just throw away our jeans and go back to medieval dress codes!

humans are the only one with a language like ours because we don’t have a simian shelf in our jaws, but animals do in fact communicate without words. also body language is a thing lmao.

most animals, being multicellular, also behave beyond the cellular instinct. and actually, even some single cells amoebas behave communally, but you’re clearly not ready for that topic since you think that humans are beyond all other animals and organisms🙄 human psychology is not so complicated that we can’t see elements of it in other animals. large and complex animals can feel joy, sorrow, rage, trauma, depression, anxiety, and pretty much all the same things humans can. even small animals like spiders have separate personalities and feel certain things. they just can’t do calculus. humans ain’t that special. we’re just the apes that came out on top for some reason.

actually, a trans identified male identifying as a woman could get me killed, because if identity politics are allowed to reign free, then all a man ever has to do is claim that he’s a woman, invade a space where vulnerable, and attack me. which has happened hundreds of times. but you don’t care about that because it doesn’t validate your gender feels.

oh are you trying to use my own argument of chemistry terms and prefixes against me? pretty sure it’s still ascribing people who don’t believe in your religion terms that label them as ‘nonbelievers’ and therefore the ‘enemy’. no one is cis. no one ‘identifies’ as the social cage of gender forced on them since birth.

if being trans isn’t defined by any of those things, then how is it defined? is it just say so? so then anyone can just say they’re trans and they’re automatically trans? why is there no strict definition? couldn’t anyone just claim the trans label just to do shitty things, as has been demonstrated by males times and time again? incredible how y’all are allergic to accountability of anything.

oh do fuck off with force teaming people with disorders of sexual development. they are still always either female or male. basing the definition of woman on strictly biological factors means there’s no rooms for sexism or stereotypes you fucking shill.

"I didn't feel like a woman/girl"

You can't feel like a sex because they're not emotions or sensations. It's just a state of being. You're just uncomfortable and unhappy with gender roles forced unto you.

I can assure you most people, especially women, aren't happy with these roles either.

Not feeling "feminine" or not subscribing to sexist gender roles doesn't make you not a woman.

Okay but nobody said anything about feeling like a sex?? Gender identity and biological sex are two different things and this post just quietly smooshed them together and hoped nobody noticed 💀

And "you're just uncomfortable with gender roles" is so condescending because you just decided you understand my inner experience better than I do. That's not feminism that's just. Telling someone to sit down and accept the label they were given at birth. Which is ironically exactly what feminism was supposed to fight against??

Also "not feeling feminine doesn't make you not a woman" — completely true and nobody argued otherwise!! But genuinely experiencing two distinct gender identities isn't the same as just not vibing with feminine stereotypes. Those are different things and this post knows that and chose to ignore it anyway 💀

The point of (radical) feminism is to abolish gender entirely. This is because gender is a patriarchal construct that disproportionately inhibits women and girls.

Sex is real, gender isn't.

Furthermore, I noticed that what people call "gender" is just having a personality, aesthetics, and habits.

Also, if gender and sex are different, why do some trans/nb people take offence when you acknowledge their biological sex?

"Sex is real, gender isn't" and "what people call gender is just personality aesthetics and habits" and "why do trans people get offended when you acknowledge their biological sex" — that's not radical feminism making a nuanced point about socialization anymore, that's just transphobia and enbyphobia with extra steps and you did that yourself without any help from me

And the biological sex acknowledgment thing — the reason trans and nonbinary people take issue with it isn't because biological sex existing as a concept is offensive. It's because "acknowledging biological sex" is constantly used as an excuse to deadname people, use wrong pronouns, treat trans people according to their assigned sex instead of their actual identity, and basically ignore everything they've told you about themselves. It's not being used for medical purposes in these conversations. It's being used to invalidate. That's the part that's offensive and I think you know that 💀

Gender and personality are also just. Different things. By your own logic cis people don't have genders either, just personalities and aesthetics. Which means you just argued yourself out of having a gender. Interesting choice

Also, being trans isn't defined by the medical treatments you get, the clothes you wear, or the makeup you put on. Not all trans women do those things, and even if they do, literally so what? A trans woman identifying as a woman is not going to kill you. You sound like a total TERF, and if your side ever gets its way in society, we’re going to end up in some bizarre dystopia where "security TERFs" inspect everyone's pants and genitals before letting them into public spaces, which is beyond disgusting. Plus, if makeup and dresses are inherently female and men can't touch them, then women shouldn't be wearing pants either since they were originally masculine. Guess we should all just throw away our jeans and go back to medieval dress codes!

humans are the only one with a language like ours because we don’t have a simian shelf in our jaws, but animals do in fact communicate without words. also body language is a thing lmao.

most animals, being multicellular, also behave beyond the cellular instinct. and actually, even some single cells amoebas behave communally, but you’re clearly not ready for that topic since you think that humans are beyond all other animals and organisms🙄 human psychology is not so complicated that we can’t see elements of it in other animals. large and complex animals can feel joy, sorrow, rage, trauma, depression, anxiety, and pretty much all the same things humans can. even small animals like spiders have separate personalities and feel certain things. they just can’t do calculus. humans ain’t that special. we’re just the apes that came out on top for some reason.

actually, a trans identified male identifying as a woman could get me killed, because if identity politics are allowed to reign free, then all a man ever has to do is claim that he’s a woman, invade a space where vulnerable, and attack me. which has happened hundreds of times. but you don’t care about that because it doesn’t validate your gender feels.

oh are you trying to use my own argument of chemistry terms and prefixes against me? pretty sure it’s still ascribing people who don’t believe in your religion terms that label them as ‘nonbelievers’ and therefore the ‘enemy’. no one is cis. no one ‘identifies’ as the social cage of gender forced on them since birth.

if being trans isn’t defined by any of those things, then how is it defined? is it just say so? so then anyone can just say they’re trans and they’re automatically trans? why is there no strict definition? couldn’t anyone just claim the trans label just to do shitty things, as has been demonstrated by males times and time again? incredible how y’all are allergic to accountability of anything.

oh do fuck off with force teaming people with disorders of sexual development. they are still always either female or male. basing the definition of woman on strictly biological factors means there’s no rooms for sexism or stereotypes you fucking shill.

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Not exactly the same but with more songs:

Coming out/lesbophobia:

On brûlera - Pomme

Amour censure - Hoshi

Si j'étais un garçon - Hoshi

Whenever you want it - Danielle Duval

If we lived on the moon - Vivi Rincon

She - Dodie

All the things she said - t.A.T.u

Love Affair - Zolita

I'm coming out - Diana Ross

Sofia - Clairo

Sailor song - Gigi Perez

Jesus from Texas - Semler

Small town scandal - Zolita

Yearning:

If I was your boy - Deyyess

Love u (from afar) - Deyyess

She knows - Deyyess

I wanna be your girlfriend - girl in red

Better than me - Deyyess

Boyfriend - Dave Cameron

Edge of the earth - the Beaches

Girl crush - little big town

Naked - Zolita

I wish you were gay - Billie Ellish

Bette Davis Eye - Kim Carnes

Jolene - Dolly Parton

Pretty girl pretty tempting - Issadora Ava

Pretty girls - Renee Rapp

I want to come over - Melissa Etheridge

She's my religion - pale wales

Et même après je t'aimerai - Hoshi

Girls! - Cat Burns

Electric love - Børns

Falling in love/relationship:

Love Affair - Zolita

Ashely - Zolita

You - Zolita

Falling in love with a girl - Cavetown ft Beabadoobee

Antidote - Fletcher

Attached to you - Fletcher

We fell in love in October - girl in red

All about us - t.A.T.u

I'd be your wife - Mary Lambert

She keeps me warm - Mary Lambert

If she ever leaves me - the highwomen

There she goes - sixpence none the richer

1950 - king princess

Will you be my girlfriend ? - Alanis Morissette

Sex:

Would you go down on a girl? - Deyyess

Lips like sugar - Deyyess

Cherry pie - Deyyess

Bored again - Deyyess

Elle - Nava

Can't breathe - Vivi Rincon

Joyride - Fletcher

Girls girls girls - fletcher

Lunch - Billie Ellish

Crush - Fletcher

Cherry - fletcher

Her body is bible - Fletcher

Puis t'as dansé avec moi - Hoshi

Ta reine - Angèle

Ssh... Don't say it - Fletcher

Ex/past love/broken heart:

Every time - Deyyess

Doing better - Fletcher

Ego talking - Fletcher

Claire - Deyyess

Forget her - girl in red

Her too - Zolita

A girl broke my heart - ellysa ft. Ash Morgan

Single in September - Zolita

Somebody I f*cked once - Zolita

Becky's so hot - fletcher

Girl of my dream - Fletcher

Better version - fletcher

Ta marinière - Hoshi

À peu près - Pomme

Talia - king princess

There is a time and a place when you cannot and should not separate the art from the artist. This isn't one of those cases bc, gasp, the worst this artist has done is...support women and girls.

Apparently you can do a saliva test kit at home: