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maury / risu im 19 he / it no they/them our tumblr our letterboxd our strawpage. send us drawings or questions and we'll answer them on tumb
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Take a gamble if you dare....!
Did you get what you wished for?
The odds are in my favor!
Um.. okay??? I guess?
No this is bad, I regret playing these games
THIS IS VERY BAD
WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU ?!?!!
results/other (but in a cool spooky way that fits the vibe)
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Every Friday. Every Friday i either see this post or live in fear of seeing it. I can’t wake up and say ‘it’s friday’ anymore without thinking of this post. I am living a nightmare and it’s your fault
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I love drawing him so much wth
I’m definitely gonna draw more of this au, i just wanna draw him more hehehehe
I think too often people forget that “they” is as much a pronoun as any of the others, and it isn’t as neutral as you want it to be.
I accept it as a useful default (and I use it that way myself), but once a person has told you their preferences, you GOTTA stop using they/them if it’s not on the list. please. this isn’t me trying to make anyone feel bad but it’s at a point where I’m misgendered more in “inclusive” spaces than literally anywhere else
I’m a cis woman, and presented as such for most of my life. Then I cut my hair short: and it made my more masculine features stand out. I have a pretty ambiguous body type in general and that, combined with mostly doing blue-collar work at the time, resulted in people assuming I was a young man maybe 40% of the time.
I didn’t mind this!! I even liked the assumption. It was fun, kinda charming. I’m a lesbian and it was nice to have conversations around the jobsite with cis guys about dating girls etc etc
Occasionally people would “find out” I was a woman, and the reaction was always apologetic? Which was a shame. I always emphasized that it was ok for people to stick with their initial impression of me. I don’t feel misgendered by she or him because gender is a social construct and at times when people refer to me with masculine pronouns, it’s because I’m occupying a social role associated with that. Which I enjoy. I like being the nice, helpful young man that people can rely on when I'm working security. I don't like being the odd one out in a group, and being perceived as the only woman in a space does exactly that.
Gender is entirely a social role to me, and so when asked my pronouns are she/him. I still identify as cis, and in an ideal world (FOR ME PERSONALLY), everyone would just stick with their gut reaction and not feel bad about or second-guess their initial perception of my binary gender. This is the experience I have in distinctly non-queer spaces and it's good! Just a "hey, don't worry. i can be a bloke lol" if it ever even comes up (it usually doesn't) and that's it.
Progressive spaces are built for the "average" queer person, and I think that's generally a good thing. I don't mind listing my pronouns when I enter a space even if I would much rather let people assume; because doing so normalizes and protects infinitely more vulnerable people than me. The problem arises when I give people a binary choice and they go AH! you are NONBINARY! when I have just made it abundantly clear the opposite is true.
I don't like they/them, it's the only set of pronouns that make me feel anything close to dysphoria. I don't mind them as a "stranger's pronoun" -- I think it's the generally polite way to refer to someone if you don't know them well enough to ask. That said, it's not neutral. It's at a point where I've had to become LESS queer when entering new queer spaces to avoid this kind of noncommittal treatment. I have a woman's name that I don't intend to change, so I've had to go back to being a "cis lesbian: she/her" because it's more comfortable for people who are so afraid to offend me by making a decision, that they choose the one option that is actually misgendering me. it sucks
This post is about my personal experience and having lots of notes doesn’t change that. It will not cover every circumstance in which they/them is used, nor should it, because I am not an arbiter of such situations.
Please stop telling me about fringe circumstances or arguing about semantics. My experiences are not universal; your experiences are also not universal.
IF YOU IGNORE THE PART WHERE I SAY I ACCEPT THEY/THEM AS A USEFUL DEFAULT I WILL KILL YOU WITH A GUN
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