Queer Poly Love

when you go out for a nature walk but get distracted by your cute girlfriend

~Some Vintage Lesbian Photos~

And like if you think polyamory is okay, can be healthy, and doesn’t “go against human nature”

Amada and Regina Haro by Leroy Hamilton Photography

Honestly tho I mean I get that people like to have their own special labels and stuff and that’s cool but there are so many other ways to talk about bi culture or lesbian culture other than restricting eachother. I think it’s good that there’s a word for women who like specifically women and it’s good to have a label for that. But I also think y’know if you aren’t 100% a woman who likes only women, like in your case for example, but the word lesbian fits you the best, then it’s allright to bend the meaning a slight bit. I mean I get why labels are important to a lot of people. I get it. But I also think we need to chill the fuck out with discourse about this within the lgbt community. There are straight girls out there appropriating our terms so why are we concerned with other lgbt people, other wlw, people like us, using the terms that describe them best. Idk I just see us, the lgbt community as a whole, as just like a big group of brothers and sisters and family really and so it ticks me off that we’re so defensive and ready to kill a bitch over this stuff. We are all going through the same thing. Yeah it differs, I mean being a lesbian or a bisexual woman both have different experiences. But we still both experience queerness and being wlw and that’s the thing that bonds us together, that’s the thing that makes us a community. The fact that we share love for women. So I just don’t get why we are so stand offish to eachother. But anyway sorry I kinda ranted

Mind your own business and let people use the labels they feel most comfortable with.

70s