Their romantic/sexual orientation, gender identity, and pronouns:
panromantic/asexual, nonbinary, they/them
If they’ve ever gone to any Pride events, and how it went if they have:
in canon, they haven’t gone to one. Mostly cause they lived on the streets and then went right to spy shit.
In any universe where Aspen knows Jaye or Shaylock… well you’d be insane to think that Shaylock doesn’t drag both of them to at least one each pride. Aspen grumbles the whole time but does in fact have a giant ace flag that they wear like a cape
Who was the first person they came out to? How did it go?:
okay so this is sort of two part question. So they probably like tried to come out to their parents at some point. Or not even that, but like mentioning that they don’t like boys like the other girls their age (probably like under 10 at this point)
aspens parents, being the wonderful people they are, immediately shut this down and say that Aspen couldn’t possibly be like that
and then a few years later Aspen officially comes out as Pan to Mia, which goes fairly well :)
Have they ever questioned their gender? If so, did anything come of the questioning?:
it’s not really questioning, exactly, but they’ve always felt a bit different from kids their age, and rarely fit in with the other girls. It is until they’re thirteen that they actually find nonbinary and figure it out
Do they have any flags, or things decorated with the flags, of their identity/identities?:
yep. As mentioned above, they have a giant ace flag and probably an enby one too. And their waterbottle is probably covered in stickers of their various flags
If they’re more out and proud about their queerness, or if they treat it like just a fact of life:
Oh they are very out and proud. Because they know that if younger them had seen a visibly queer person like Aspen, their childhood might’ve gone differently