'It's like they expected me to be evil.'

Also me the entire movie:

“Okay, first of all, you do not need the law or a priest or your mother to make your wedding real. And the church can be anywhere you want it to be - In a field, on a mountain, right here in this room, anywhere because where do you think god is? Come on, He’s in you. He’s in me. Just right here, in the middle of us. Your church just hasn’t caught up to God yet. Your mother, she hasn’t caught up to God yet. And, by the way, she may not ever catch up, but it’s OK. It’s okay. If you are willing to stand up in front of your friends, family, and God, and commit yourself to another human being to give yourself in that kind of partnership for better or worse in sickness and in health. Hunny, that is a marriage. That is real, and that’s all that matters.”

“Have some fire. Be unstoppable. Be a force of nature. Be better than anyone else, and don’t give a damn what anyone things.”

It has SO much representation for the LGBT+ community and POC and deals with so many important topics including

• bad ass (2nd generation) Korean woman who don’t take shit from nobody, is the best surgeon on the show

• feminine lesbians!!! and their plot line doesn’t revolce around them being feminine lesbians!!!!!!

• ADOPTED children AND adults that are happy and successful

• black woman is chief of surgery, basically runs the hospital

• INTERRACIAL RELATIONSHIPS EVERYWHERE

• characters with disabilities that are incredibly successful WITH their disabilities, not despite their disabilities. In fact, they are a minimal plot lines for the show and some are hardly mentioned.

•BISEXUAL WOMAN IS TAKEN SERIOUSLY BY EVERYONE

• black main characters!!!!!! That are strong!!!!!! And don’t die!!!!! And have been stars for 14 seasons!!!!!!!

• miscarriages, abortions, children born with disabilities are prevalent in the show, handles sensitive topics v well

• SINGLE MOMS JUST SLAYING EVERYWHERE!!!!!!

• head of neurosurgery struggles with drug addiction, as does former chief of surgery (alcoholism) they support and check in on each other at AA meetings to keep each other in check

• shows characters struggling with depression, PTSD, anxiety, and does not show these characters as weak people who cannot be fixed but as successful people who just need a little backup sometimes

• domestic violence is addressed in the show, as well as homelessness and extreme poverty. Shows people who have grown and risen from extreme circumstances!!!

• BAD ASS BISEXUAL MEXICAN WOMAN????? (My fav)

• surgeons that are veterans and amputees!!!