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It also genuinely really bothers me how so many people's "pro fat" posts are along the lines of "Yeah, fat is fine/good, eat whatever you want as much as you want!" Like yes that's a good sentiment and yes fear of fatness is what causes so many people to eat less than they otherwise would. I Understand This. But it's important to me that people understand. Someone being fat does not actually mean they eat more than a thin person does. Just because you're ostensibly defending or praising the fat body does not mean you aren't partaking in dangerous stereotyping

If you frame fatness as 1. A deviation from a 'normal' baseline and 2. Caused by overindulgence, you are perpetuating a hurtful stereotype and I don't want to see it. I don't care if you think it's a good thing or not. I don't like being assumed to eat more (or more sweets, etc) than the thin people in my life because of my size, and I especially don't like the causal link people assume. Some people's bodies just are fat without them having 'done anything' to cause that to happen.

there is nothing more important than a dear friend you can be a huge fucking asshole hater with

Yesterday, I was at dinner with some friends and briefly forgot Harrison Ford’s name, but I was like, “His name is a president and a car,” which is how we got such acceptable alternatives as McKinley Camry, Van Buren Gremlin, Clinton Infinity, and Range Rover Cleveland.

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Hey, hey, you do understand that regardless of how you view trans and intersex people, framing pregnancy as demeaning and a punishment is extremely fucking sexist right?? And Deeply rooted in misogyny?? You understand that right. You understand that saying shit like pregnancy is a punishment you're going to enact on someone and treating it like a demeaning sign of submissiveness is extremely misogynistic right. Right. You can be normal about pregnant people right. You can understand that pregnancy is a neutral thing right. Right.

You GRAB miette??? You grab miette like a sweater???

Still just in awe of how good this looks 😭🥰😭🥰