To all my Girls who have never loved before….
I hope this is where I’m supposed to post this 😬 but I was reading the submissions and felt I needed to share my experience.
Okay so, I’m currently 21 almost 22 and up until a few months ago I had never been in a relationship or even kissed a guy. That all changed when I started messing around on dating apps because my best friend thought it would be fun to do. I was reluctant at first because I barely talked to people, but one day I was hella bored and have it try. I tried out bumble and that shit was a mess, fake ass dudes just playing games and wasting time. A lot of guys with fetish’s of black women and gross shit. And I was off and on it for a few months and I got fed up and lost hope in actually making a connection with someone, so I deleted the app and went back to being a hermit.
A few months down the line I got bored again and decided to try things out again, and honestly I just wanted a little confidence boost, just wanting to see who thought I was cute😂. I decided to download Hinge, I had heard some good things from it so I was like “Fuck It”. Although this time I didn’t take it as seriously and there were matches that I had made but didn’t feel like actually committing to the guys I was talking to, just didn’t feel it with them. And I was about to give up and move on again, but i got another message one night. I was checking out his profile and he was military (Girl I know 🙄) so I already was like this is gonna be a “no” but for some reason I didn’t say no and swipe on. I started talking to him and he’s stationed about an hour away, but I was still like “ mmmm this isn’t gonna happen “ but we continued talking and a few weeks into talking and we had connected pretty fast and he asked me out to brunch….. (A bitch is always down for brunch ooookkkkuur). We met up and he was such a gentleman and bitch his voice is so deep omg😍😍😍.
Anyways, after we ate that day we went to see a movie, and it was so cute he was nervous to hold my hand, like there were times his leg was shaking and he would cop out😂😂 it was so cute. But he finally took my hand and you could tell he was relieved😂😂. We just walked and talked and held hands until we got back to my car, and we said goodbye and he kissed me☺️ my first kiss! (Girl I bout passed out😂) We met up once more before he went on leave for Christmas (He went home to Maui) and well…. somethings occurred in the back of his car😉 and yes he was my first and yes he made sure I was taken care of ☺️☺️☺️( plus had ginuwine playing in the background 🙌🏾). When he came back he gave me a necklace he’s kept and been waiting to give someone. It’s a sunset shell necklace that is only found around the island.
I haven’t taken it off☺️ we’ve spent every weekend together and talk on the phone, he’s met my mother( ooo girl I was stressed) he wants to meet more of my family ( I’m scared my family country as hell😂😂😂) I’ve met his friends and they told me how much he talks about me…. all I’m saying is I’m so happy I gave this beautiful and caring human a chance. I was always forgotten or put to the side and never was viewed as the dating type, but this man has made me forget everything I was brainwashed to believe. I’m also not gonna believe my meeting him was all luck, I learned a little from Nicole Ari Parker. She had made this post on how she got Boris Kodjoe, she had written out of list of what she wanted in a man and was completely honest with herself and kept working on herself and he came out of nowhere…….. and that’s what I did and girl the results are outstanding ☺️
Wow. Amazing true story
