Bougie Thoughts

Been a caterpillar for so long. Once those butterfly wings emerge you will become unstoppable.

What hurts more the action or you knowing what was about to happen?

Staying focused on what matters will allow you to get further in life. Pursue those dreams, take those planned trips and just live life. You are in control of everything that happens in your life.

Born into a family where love did not exist. Raised by family with secrets and abuse lived. Accepted by the ones I pulled into my circle, learned to appreciate the knowledge they each gave me. Yet I still feel like a baby being born where love does not exist. I smile and hold my help up and keep my crown straight, but yet I still feel unseen. Is it me, am I not supposed to be loved or seen.…

People come into your life for a season for reason.

Pushing through adversity and allow the mind to transform is the key.

A night to just be you. Sitting at a bar alone scoping out the scenario. Could this really be Friday night alone, no friends no man away from the kids, but yet you are still unhappy. Seeing random facing, hearing unknown voices, and yet still no courage to interact. Is this really want a Friday night is about. Imagine protesting your peace so much that you have sheltered yourself, you have…

November was the month to say NO. Walking away from people who are not meant for me,fires that I should not enter and eats that should not hear me. Learning to say NO was the hardest task but it was accomplished.