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I FUCKING MISS RIDING SO MUCH OH MY GOD

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I have got to start riding again but I have no time and no money
people misunderstand what ‘gifted kid’ actually means but it’s ok it’s fine it’s cool it’s good
it’s not about actually being gifted, it’s about an initial higher scoring on standardized testing that means little to nothing or being good at learning in the way elementary and middle school wants you to, so you get marked as ‘advanced’. in reality, maybe you had faster development in certain areas, but the issue with being a gifted kid isn’t that “everyone told me I was so cool and special for reading and then I actually wasn’t :(” it’s “I wasn’t properly taught to handle things not coming easily to me, but the adults around me were counting on me not being a ‘difficult’ child in school.”
people who use it as some weird bragging method or interpret it that way are ignoring the way a lot of school systems force certain roles on students to simplify the learning process. If your kid doesn’t need to take notes to understand a science concept bc they get it naturally, well that’s good, but now you’re not teaching them how to take notes and they’re not learning that important soft skill. but because ‘gifted’ kids are easy and don’t show that they’re falling behind in learning in other categories that are harder to quantify, they eventually fall behind after that catches up to them. It’s about the failures of a one size fits all school system trying to compensate in the worst way possible.
And also the thing where ‘gifted’ kids are super likely to also be neuroatypical, which they don’t get screened for because they appear to be doing well in school. Or “You can’t be ADHD/autistic/etc, because you’re doing so well in school!”. Or being shamed for developing mental health issues/generally not being able to keep up with school work later, because you USED TO BE able to do it just fine.
Or the assumption that just because you can read well or you like math class, you’re somehow more EMOTIONALLY mature than your little kid brain is actually capable of being.
Or gifted kids whose parents and teachers put immense pressure on them to Do Great Things and Save The World and you’re like. “I’m 10 and I have no idea how to do that, but everyone is saying that’s my job?”.
This is the best “gifted kid” post out there. I never took notes until college because I didn’t have to, snd when it got challenging I had to literally teach myself note taking at age 18. It also fucks with your perception of asking for help - you’re advanced, you’re competent, you should be able to understand every topic easily. Asking for help/going to office hours/asking for a tutor feels like failing when you were praised in your early years for not needing to do that.
Meet Ocho! Ocho is a rescue horse at a tiny nonprofit rescue organization about 30 minutes from me. There are 4 horses on the property and a group of volunteers who work with them (or are supposed to). This is a real janky operation and there's a lot of red flags - very little oversight, not a whole lot of communication about who's doing what with which horse, a whole hodgepodge of training methods in action. But the lady who primarily works with Ocho is r+ focused, and I'm hoping that with her guidance I'll be able to learn more about horse behavior and shaping and get closer to my petty little goal of being an equine behaviorist.
Remember when I worked at the barn and people were like "please ride my horses for free" and I rode six days a week.....the lord giveth and the lord taketh away......

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Oh my this lady butt scoots more than all my dogs combined. And her left arm is all spastic and twitching. I hope she gets the medical attention she needs!
It's so cruel to be riding a horse this visibly lame. I'm not sure if this is for a check up or not but I sure hope so !
Its the warm up of a show. I don't think the horse is actually lame (not an expert though). The lady is a western pleasure/trail/HUS nut who trains for this movement and bumps the horses with curb bit the moment they try to move out.
Why would you....want....your horse to move like that
Broke the lease this morning. We backslid so far over the winter, and between that and his owner consistently doing things that negated our progress (she did them with the best intentions! We just had different goals), I just didn't see a future where we progressed any more than we already had last year. I was feeling guilty all the time because I wasn't working with him enough to justify all the money I was paying, and because I was under so much pressure to keep him fit and ride consistently when I just couldn't do that and it was never my goal in the first place. In the end it felt like a bad relationship. One or two good sessions convincing me to keep going, and then a month of sessions that left me in tears pulling my hair out. It just hasn't been working for the last six months and I'm not in a financial place where I can keep sinking money into this hoping it gets better.
I connected with someone over Facebook who's involved with the local horse rescue. She's looking for someone to help do r+ sessions with the horse she's working with. It's farther away, and the facility is much less nice, but it's closer to what I want to be doing with horses long term and the concept of working with someone who knows what they're doing is enticing. I'm supposed to meet with her Sunday. We'll see how it goes.
Of course the perfect saddle comes up for sale as soon as I make the decision to end the lease
We're done. This lease is like a bad relationship. Months of heartache, then 2 or 3 days that make it seem worth it, then heartache again. On Sunday I'm meeting a horse at the rescue 45 minutes from here to see if I want to work with him; I also need to ask one of the other boarders if she'll let me ride her friesan. And then I'm giving notice
more stupid adult ammy shit:
old riding place: we’re going to shorten your stirrups so you can canter more easily
new riding place: we’re going to lengthen your stirrups so you can actually strengthen your weak ass leg properly
The long stirrups are right, unfortunately; learning to canter with short stirrups first teaches you to brace with your calves and rock with your knees instead of your hips. The part that sucks is that cantering with short stirrups FEELS easier and more stable whereas learning to do it correctly with a long leg is a lot harder.

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Kinsey scale but it's exclusively groundworker to exclusively rider
Waking up and checking the used saddle sites like the morning paper
New pet peeve is when people take sale pics of the front of the saddle but they put a pad underneath and pull it all the way up so you can't actually see the gullet
You used to ride amba in a treeless saddle, right? Did you have someone help fit it? Would you recommend?
Hi, yes, I actually still ride in a treeless saddle (the total contact saddle). That is a truly treeless saddle, with no support or structure on its own, though I have a special physio pad to provide spinal clearance and some padding. Before the total contact saddle, I was using a Barefoot Nottingham. It is marketed as treeless, but it is more appropriate to call it a soft treed saddle, as it is structured. I did not have a fitter out for either of these saddles, though if you are unfamiliar with saddle fit it would be a good idea to get one out for the Barefoot saddles. They have interchangeable pommel sizes that can still cause problems if they are fitted too narrow or too wide. For some horses it is also necessary to play with the pad shimming.
Overall I would recommend both saddles. The only thing with the Barefoot is that the billets are in a forward position, which sets the girth forward. For Amba this was a problem because she already had a forward girth groove to begin with, and it caused rubs with countless girths. But, it had excellent spinal clearance and produced very even sweat patterns. For a horse without a forward girth groove it is probably a good choice.
The saddles have benefits such as being very lightweight, and giving the horses much more freedom of the shoulder and back. Using special treeless pads with these saddle is integral. Also be aware that for soft treed saddles like the Barefoot, it will take a few rides for the saddle to settle and mold to the horse's back, so the first ride should just be at a walk.
Treeless saddles can be very variable, though, and while I have good things to say about the brands I've used, I'd avoid others like Hilason and Ansur.
In general, Ghost, Freeform, Barefoot, Total Contact, and Bob Marshall are good brands. All of these are popular in endurance, and I've seen good pressure scans for all except the Bob Marshall (note that I haven't seen bad pressure scans for the Bob Marshall - I just have not seen any at all).
I thought forward billets were for forward girth grooves? The last fitter I talked to said don't bother with anything that doesn't have extremely forward or point billets because otherwise the saddle will get pulled up over his shoulders.
Anyway, I don't know if I'd feel comfortable trying a soft treed/treeless saddle since I don't know anything about them and neither of the local fitters will fit them. I want a dressage saddle but arabians are not the shape dressage saddles are made for 😭 everything is too narrow and too long. Thanks for answering!
So the billet should align with the girth groove. The problem I had with the Barefoot was that the billets were attached at a point slightly behind the girth groove - but angled very forward. A point billet, attached to the tree more forward but hanging straight down, would have been better. The Barefoot Nottingham I had also only had 2 billets instead of 3, limiting how I could girth it.
Good luck, Arabs are a pain to fit.
We are on saddle #7 🙃
I'm looking at branching out into endurance saddles but I don't know very much about them.
Eeeesh. I don't know much about any of the treed endurance saddles, either. The Arabian Saddle Company has some treed dressage saddles made specifically for Arabians. I don't have personal experience with them, though. If you're open to western saddles, Circle Y and Big Horn also make saddles specifically for Arabians.
Some treeless/soft treed saddles can be difficult to fit, but if you're interested in a total contact saddle, they're about as easy as it comes. No gullet or panels to mess around with. They company also offers a 2 week trial with a refundable deposit (you pay shipping), which I took advantage of.
I'm waiting for an arabian saddle company (lovatt & ricketts if it's made in england) to come up used in my area. I think a hoop tree dressage saddle would fit too if it's short enough (again, waiting for one to come up). I'm wary of a tcr because that seems like a pretty centralizing place to put all my weight and my balance isn't as good as yours - I can't jump bareback lol. He's also rounder than a lot of arabians. Like amba has some slope down from her spine, aslan is litchrally a barrel. I'm also working at a very low price point so the saddle has to be used and has to offer a trial period.
You used to ride amba in a treeless saddle, right? Did you have someone help fit it? Would you recommend?
Hi, yes, I actually still ride in a treeless saddle (the total contact saddle). That is a truly treeless saddle, with no support or structure on its own, though I have a special physio pad to provide spinal clearance and some padding. Before the total contact saddle, I was using a Barefoot Nottingham. It is marketed as treeless, but it is more appropriate to call it a soft treed saddle, as it is structured. I did not have a fitter out for either of these saddles, though if you are unfamiliar with saddle fit it would be a good idea to get one out for the Barefoot saddles. They have interchangeable pommel sizes that can still cause problems if they are fitted too narrow or too wide. For some horses it is also necessary to play with the pad shimming.
Overall I would recommend both saddles. The only thing with the Barefoot is that the billets are in a forward position, which sets the girth forward. For Amba this was a problem because she already had a forward girth groove to begin with, and it caused rubs with countless girths. But, it had excellent spinal clearance and produced very even sweat patterns. For a horse without a forward girth groove it is probably a good choice.
The saddles have benefits such as being very lightweight, and giving the horses much more freedom of the shoulder and back. Using special treeless pads with these saddle is integral. Also be aware that for soft treed saddles like the Barefoot, it will take a few rides for the saddle to settle and mold to the horse's back, so the first ride should just be at a walk.
Treeless saddles can be very variable, though, and while I have good things to say about the brands I've used, I'd avoid others like Hilason and Ansur.
In general, Ghost, Freeform, Barefoot, Total Contact, and Bob Marshall are good brands. All of these are popular in endurance, and I've seen good pressure scans for all except the Bob Marshall (note that I haven't seen bad pressure scans for the Bob Marshall - I just have not seen any at all).
I thought forward billets were for forward girth grooves? The last fitter I talked to said don't bother with anything that doesn't have extremely forward or point billets because otherwise the saddle will get pulled up over his shoulders.
Anyway, I don't know if I'd feel comfortable trying a soft treed/treeless saddle since I don't know anything about them and neither of the local fitters will fit them. I want a dressage saddle but arabians are not the shape dressage saddles are made for 😭 everything is too narrow and too long. Thanks for answering!
So the billet should align with the girth groove. The problem I had with the Barefoot was that the billets were attached at a point slightly behind the girth groove - but angled very forward. A point billet, attached to the tree more forward but hanging straight down, would have been better. The Barefoot Nottingham I had also only had 2 billets instead of 3, limiting how I could girth it.
Good luck, Arabs are a pain to fit.
We are on saddle #7 🙃
I'm looking at branching out into endurance saddles but I don't know very much about them.

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You used to ride amba in a treeless saddle, right? Did you have someone help fit it? Would you recommend?
Hi, yes, I actually still ride in a treeless saddle (the total contact saddle). That is a truly treeless saddle, with no support or structure on its own, though I have a special physio pad to provide spinal clearance and some padding. Before the total contact saddle, I was using a Barefoot Nottingham. It is marketed as treeless, but it is more appropriate to call it a soft treed saddle, as it is structured. I did not have a fitter out for either of these saddles, though if you are unfamiliar with saddle fit it would be a good idea to get one out for the Barefoot saddles. They have interchangeable pommel sizes that can still cause problems if they are fitted too narrow or too wide. For some horses it is also necessary to play with the pad shimming.
Overall I would recommend both saddles. The only thing with the Barefoot is that the billets are in a forward position, which sets the girth forward. For Amba this was a problem because she already had a forward girth groove to begin with, and it caused rubs with countless girths. But, it had excellent spinal clearance and produced very even sweat patterns. For a horse without a forward girth groove it is probably a good choice.
The saddles have benefits such as being very lightweight, and giving the horses much more freedom of the shoulder and back. Using special treeless pads with these saddle is integral. Also be aware that for soft treed saddles like the Barefoot, it will take a few rides for the saddle to settle and mold to the horse's back, so the first ride should just be at a walk.
Treeless saddles can be very variable, though, and while I have good things to say about the brands I've used, I'd avoid others like Hilason and Ansur.
In general, Ghost, Freeform, Barefoot, Total Contact, and Bob Marshall are good brands. All of these are popular in endurance, and I've seen good pressure scans for all except the Bob Marshall (note that I haven't seen bad pressure scans for the Bob Marshall - I just have not seen any at all).
I thought forward billets were for forward girth grooves? The last fitter I talked to said don't bother with anything that doesn't have extremely forward or point billets because otherwise the saddle will get pulled up over his shoulders.
Anyway, I don't know if I'd feel comfortable trying a soft treed/treeless saddle since I don't know anything about them and neither of the local fitters will fit them. I want a dressage saddle but arabians are not the shape dressage saddles are made for 😭 everything is too narrow and too long. Thanks for answering!
I think I'm going to have to end this lease
If I didn't pay for this lease I could get a tattoo every month......if I didn't pay for this lease I could have a down payment on a house in 3 years