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the more time you spend in active recovery from any given self destructive behavior or addiction the more you understand the common conception of the "relapse" as defined by a broken "streak" to be, like, so bad for one's own well-being that it would be funny if it weren't resulting in just a lot of misery and death
I told my girlfriend to think of quitting vaping as training her endurance by seeing how long she can run before she gets tired, then doing it again and hoping to go further next time. She said it really helped her.
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replaying curious village and what do you mean you get the dog this early. it’s only chapter 3. you’re telling me if I’d just been able to solve the last dog piece puzzle when I was 10 I could have had so many hint coins?? in the game with the most unforgiving hint coins??
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something ive noticed after being a hobby cosplayer for years is that in a lot of places the general consensus seems to be that wearing costumes in public is weird and/or socially unacceptable, but whenever I'm in costume in public while on the train to the con venue or having a photoshoot on location or something, people by and large fucking love my costume. they think it's so cool. kids think my costume rocks. their parents are impressed that I made it myself. random grandmas tell me my armor kicks ass. I was at a japanese garden once and barely got around to doing the photoshoot me and my homies came there to do because swathes of visitors who had never heard the word cosplay before were lining up to take a picture with me.
it's the same thing with adjacent hobbies like larp or reenactment or fursuiting, the general image of the hobby is that you're weird nerds (and probably also sex perverts) for playing dressup despite not being a child but when you're actually in costume the response from random normies is categorically positive. I inevitably get weird looks from the kind of people who think having a tattoo is an affront to god but they give me that look for just existing with blue hair and pronouns too and the people who actually talk to me always do because they wanted to tell me they love my costume. and the response that always gets me the most is when they say it looks fun but they would never dare to do the same. it's such a shame. why did wearing a silly little costume have to become an act of bravery.
A couple of years ago, a bunch of Star Wars costumers went to a state park and met for a photo shoot. The organizer notified the park staff that we were coming only to take still pictures, no video, no commercial use items. We gathered together and lugged our stuff into a fairly low traffic location, set up a portable changing tent for those who needed it and got dressed.
Our scout troopers and Jedi and Sith posed against the rock crags and forests and in dappled sunlight. We got great pictures.
And every once in a while someone would come around the bend and find something TRULY unexpected.
Most people scrambled backwards or ducked behind the nearest tree, apparently thinking they'd stumbled into a film shoot of some kind. A few took pictures from a distance.
Once we explained, all of them were delighted. How strange. How wonderous. Two little boys took pictures with every single costumer, a woman sat on a rock and just watched, one guy called home to FaceTime his brother.
The world is mundane and predictable and painful sometimes. And breaks to that are magic. Little bursts of a world turned on its head. In the best way.
Look, it's really exhausting when every transfeminist discussion is constantly bogged down by sealioning over basic ideas like the definition of transmisogyny. It should be possible to assume that people are able to figure out the meanings of unfamiliar words themselves without needing to be spoonfed a link to an introductory article in some freely available encyclopedia for every single idea that might be unfamiliar to them.
If only there were widely available tools for finding information included with every single possible device that you can use to access this website, and even learnable methods for effective usage of those tools! If those existed, you wouldn't be forced to repeatedly ask strangers online about the foundations of the subject!
UNPOPULAR OPINION: A lot of "mental health issues" disappear when bills are paid, rent is secure, and the fridge is full. Peace is expensive. And pretending money doesn't affect mental health is privilege.
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makes me so sad when my friends refuse to pirate things and insist on paying for a streaming service EVEN when i offer to do it for them or teach them. like pleaseeee i have a vpn i have a plex server i can get you whatever you want. don't buy disney+ i can be your little poob i have it for you.
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Yet she has no choice but to do so for her daughter Farah, almost sixteen now, who is autistic and has a kidney problem that - without treatment - makes her deficient in potassium, which, if it becomes too severe, can lead to cardiac arrest.
^ Farah spends most of her days like this now, feeling uncomfortable in her body, but not understanding why.
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how quickly did you forget being a kid and treated like a dumb piece of shit who couldn't handle anything serious while you're figuring out ways to circumvent every wall put around you to learn about 'mature' topics that would be too 'complex' for you according to every adult? why do you so easily replicate every single bit of rhetoric that created that hell for you?
fucking soldiers in a fucking army saying they "don't wanna be political pawns" is, of course, blisteringly stupid if you take the actual definition of the word "political." if we wish to understand how anybody can even say this with a straight face, it must be viewed through the lens of the all too common USAmerican attitude that only certain things pertaining to party politics & to issues that are "under debate" are political and everything else is somehow apolitical (and is more pure for it). what passes for public discourse so takes for granted the maintenance of empire and the prosecution of imperial violence that it isn't even treated as a question that "politics" touches. what these soldiers are actually trying to say by incorrectly using the word "political" is "look we can all agree that dulce et decorum est to do unspeakable violence to people in the global south to prop up USAmerican imperial hegemony & to benefit our ruling class in general, but THIS smacks of POLITICS" which, admittedly, probably hits pretty hard if you're deeply evil and stupid
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I actually agree that trans men shouldn't use the word transmisogyny, but I have to question the decision to ask if trans men who can't get pregnant are less oppressed by attacks on reproductive rights than ones who can.
Plenty of trans men want to give birth and plenty don't. The ones who do are extremely likely to experience transphobia while giving birth, and the ones who don't will experience it if they ask for contraception or an abortion. This is in addition to the misogyny that occurs when a cis woman wants either of those things.
It doesn't make sense to ask if infertile cis women are less oppressed than cis women who can get pregnant. Everyone sufficiently aware of misogyny to believe misogyny is systemic knows that it comes in multiple forms and that it's about more than just childbearing- women still get paid less and disproportionately passed over for jobs regardless of whether they can get pregnant, for example.
What no one, including women and trans men who want to give birth, wants is to be forced to give birth. The same systems that force people to do so will also often force people not to if they're considered unworthy to parent for any of various reasons- poverty, age, transness, etc- and will take children away for the same reasons whether the parent wanted to give birth or not.
Transphobia doesn't disappear based on different goals/desires or different body parts or different anything, because it isn't about childbearing- it's about control. "If you won't detransition, I'll make your pregnancy and labor experience worse" is one form of coercion, and "If you won't detransition, I'll make you give birth anyway" is another.
It doesn't make sense to ask if infertile cis women are less oppressed than cis women who can get pregnant. Everyone sufficiently aware of misogyny to believe misogyny is systemic knows that it comes in multiple forms and that it's about more than just childbearing- women still get paid less and disproportionately passed over for jobs regardless of whether they can get pregnant, for example.
Yes that's the point I'm making with the rhetorical question, because this is the foundational refutation of "oppression of people with uteruses" rhetoric. You got it. Correct, anon.
Now: How does everything you just wrote about being forced not to give birth if you're "unworthy" apply to trans women, a class of women routinely marginalized for being "fake women", and how does that fit into the wider discussion where anon showed up in my inbox to tell me, a trans woman, about the special oppression faced only by those who have a uterus? How does that, in turn, fit with you coming here to lecture me about the rhetorical question I asked on purpose?
Why doesn't it make sense to ask if cis women's oppression changes or fluctuates depending on their gestational capacity?
Because in my experience, people tell trans women that our lack of gestational capacity is a privilege all the time, and go so far as to insinuate---actually, to openly state that trans women will never experience True Misogyny, or a suffer as much as those who have to struggle with coercive regimes of reproductive exploitation.
Is there a reason that that logic isn't extended to non-trans women who lack gestational capacity?
These are not "gotchas". I am asking you to actually think through how different demographics' and people's relationship to reproductive capacity affects how they experience misogyny, disposability, and other forces under patriarchy.
There's a reason that many, many people don't understand how trans women's unique position as, bluntly, 'defective women' who cannot be reproductively exploited, as well as 'defective men' who are usually unable or unwilling to sire, forms the core of transmisogyny and is the parallel policing mechanism to the forces that those subject to reproductive exploitation experience.
And frankly, it's not trans women who have historically made this a competition about who the true victims of misogyny are. The bulk of scholarship and history is quite invested in the notion that trans women cannot experience misogyny at all.
i need everyone to know that almost immediately after this was posted a geriatric woman walked up and tapped her credit card on a register that my coworker was using to process a completely unrelated transaction. fully paid for someone else’s shit by accident because apparently she lives in a world where registers just automatically know who you are and what you are buying without anything being scanned and also are capable of processing more than one transaction at once. and then she didn’t understand why we all freaked the fuck out and had to void the entire thing, refund her the $40 she paid of SOMEONE ELSE’S BILL, and start over
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