Gods favourite cadaver

i see too many people (mostly new doms with too much to prove) reduce cigarette play to ONLY fully extinguishing the cig on dry skin. i say dry as in "no one spit there first." this is a third degree burn. it will melt past ur actual skin tissue and reach fat and muscle. i once knew a girl who fully lost motion in three fingers because of having a cigarette put out on the back of her hand. Similarly i knew someone whose kink inflicted cig burn got seriously fucking infected, and because of how deep the burn goes - the infection almost got into his blood stream.

i seriously seriously suggest you start with talking about the implications of long lasting, serious tissue damage to your dom/sub before EVER doing this; and especially never out of no where with someone you have never got consent for this for. The tissue damage is lasting, and awful. its comparable to a deep gouge, or a serious chemical burn.

So. How do u practice cigarette play safely? well, to start, as you would with ANY fucking kink, talk it out. Make sure both sides of the act are fully aware and fully consentinf. Next; there are actually a lot of really fun and safe ways to use cigarette burns.

Firstly, if its about pain (and if you watch older european bdsm films u will already know this one) brushing the cherry (lit tip) of a cigarette across the skin in short, deliberate bursts. this induces both pain and shock, but leaves little to no lasting damage. be careful as to position the cig on its side, and glide across the skin. if the cherry snags the skin and it ashes, this can become unsexy fast. something about a loose hot coal is harder to control yourself under.

SECONDLY, remember how i specified dry? well, spit and piss freaks out there rejoice because simply pooling some liquid on a spot before putting out a cigarette will nulify a lot of the fire before it can reach the skin. this has the same dominating effect, and involves spitting on ur sub, which everyone loves. you can also pool spit into the end of your/their tongue and put it out there. This one rarely hurts if done right.

if you want a scar, then thats okay. just make sure you know the risks, and practice safe kink. wash the spot immediately afterwards. Make sure the doms hands have been recently sanitized/washed, and that its done in a somewhat clean enviroment. alleyways are fine if ur aftercare game is godly. bandage the wound up as soon as the act is over.

do not neglect this, especially as a dom. It is your fucking place to make sure you aren't doing legitimate, unwanted harm to your sub. failing to do that much, the bare minimum, is honestly fucking pathetic. dont be pathetic. take care of ur subs. take care of urself! nobody wants to find out that what they thought was a consensual kink act was actually awful for your partner.

Oh really? So sweet, dear

Gift it to me then

Open your ribs and give it to me

Bloody, still pounding

Show me how long it keeps beating before I devour it warm and wet

And taste your devotion for me

Let your love be my favourite meal, darling

This will probably be part one of several. I thought it might be interesting to sum them up for you in a couple sentences.

Drowning: Drowning is often about control. You have the ability to bring that person back from the brink of death and then push them back over the edge. Killers who use this method often crave some sort of power that they lack in everyday life.

Stabbing: Stabbing is often a crime of passion. People who use this method usually haven’t planned the murder. However, equally as often, stabbing can be a sexual crime. Men who are sexually impotent may stab their victims because subconsciously, they are penetrating them.

Asphyxiation: This one is similar to drowning in regards to the power aspect. It also has a strong sexual component. Some consensual partners may use choking as a way to increase pleasure, and some killers take this to an extreme.

Shooting: The psychology of a shooting is across the board. It’s by far the choice of professional murders. It’s usually the choice for people who don’t have an extreme anger or connection to their victims, it’s impersonal. Shooting someone can also be the method chosen simply for effectiveness.

Poison: This is the most common method used by women. It’s a very calculated, and often long term commitment to murder. Some killers who use poison do it slowly over a period of time in order to make the victim seem sick, and people are less likely to ask questions when they pass. Due to it’s planned nature, it’s not a crime of passion generally. It is often used to kill someone to obtain assets.