change does not come from a place of comfort

Okay, fine, I'll say it. I'll speak my mind. Meow meow meow meow meow.

the unimaginable power of saying "huh, guess that's not for me" and moving on with your life

Show me don’t tell me

i love flirting so much. like, come here, i want to be the reason why you're all flustered and can't look at me in the eye right now

the word "seldom" is a pretty great word, but you rarely see it used

nostalgia bait is much less effective when you have memory problems. "hey its that thing from your childhood, don't you love thing from your childhood?" i wouldnt know </3 i forgor.

gf who makes you a personal porn collection so you never jerk off to anything else

do it grieving

one of the best pieces of advice I've ever heard (for myself, at least) is that if you're in a terrible mood and NOTHING is helping, then start doing the chores/responsibilities/job stuff/etc that you've been putting off. Will it put you in an even worse mood temporarily? Probably, but you're already pissed off, so you might as well double up on it at that point 😭 there's no loss. It's not like finally getting around to cleaning the house and scheduling appointments is going to ruin the good day that you aren't currently having to begin with 💀 And then, when the bad mood passes, you'll have gotten shit done and you'll feel a lot better later, even if in the moment you're having The Worst Time Ever about it.

every day it gets harder to have a relaxed jaw and decent posture

im listening to this little thing called Music

well im listening to this "little thing" called Women

#Real

Controversial take but I think we more often need to accept that sometimes it’s not personal, but that a person still doesn’t fuck with us. They don’t want a relationship with us, they don’t wanna be our friend. We’re not their type for whatever reason. They don’t hate us but they aren’t interested in building something with us in any capacity. It’s not that they have a lot going on, it’s not that they can’t receive love, it’s not what a lot of people concoct just not to deal with the sting of rejection. Sometimes we’re just not somebody’s type. And that’s okay and we don’t have to curl up in fetal position in a corner about it. We will not be the type of every person we encounter and that is natural and nothing to lose sleep over