Actually, as a cis woman who is a fujoshi,

Also we're very lucky we never entered a world war on the side of the bad guys/lovers bc England 100% would have taken the chance to Ottoman Empire us into a bunch of balkanized ethnonationalist states with border lines designed to cause peak ethnic conflict for years to come. Like i know there alot of people who say that ethiopia shouldn't exist, but nations are not built by people having the same ethnicity lol. Like sure x or y group did x or y crime to your group but what about what your group did to them?? There are no innocent parties in Ethiopia other than the people. There is NO legitimate leftist or liberation movement in Ethiopia, they are all proxies of foreign nations and fight almost entirely based on ethnonationalist considerations. Ethiopia's strength is literally our diversity but we let 39 years of TPLF one party rule convince everyone that communism was dead on arrival and that the only way they could succeed was to rely on ethnic connections... they wont tell you this bc it makes their 'genocide' argument look a Lil fishy but the main reason the Tigrayan "separatist" (they claim to want independence but its not very believable bc they always try to march on the capital city and take over the country) movement is fighting the Ethiopian government is because the TPLF had a chokehold on ethiopia following the fall of communism and the miss the period of history a few years ago when they could still bribe and plunder their way through the country. Literally one of the worst press freedom rating in the world by far, they used to disappear people for the smallest reasons. The federal police building in Addis Ababa is considered like an ominous, evil place because of what they did there, its kinda comparable to the former Assad prisons in Syria (although tbf those are just run by Al Quaeda Boy now, which isnt too different from Ethiopia.... Abby Ahmed originally released literal thousands of political prisoners when he helped secure the political defeat of the TPLF several years ago. But not he used that same police building to disappear abd torture HIS critics. Its funny bc him abd the TPLF have more in common that differences, which is exactly why their fight is so bloody lol.)

Like, you gotta understand, the upper ranks of the army were essentially entirely controlled by ethnic tigrayans loyal to the TPLF due to discriminatory hiring practices in the last 30 years, and the was true even for most of the early days of the Tigray War, although most were eventually fired and defected to TPLF loyalty. But like thats what the TPLF was doing when they were in power. 1991- 2020 or so was a great time to be Tigrayan if you were well-connected and politically savvy. You could get preferential treatment pretty damn easily just for being from Tigray. It was literally a corrupt one party kleptocrat state with explicit privileges for a small minority group (7% of total population) and yet they have the gall to talk about amhara "neftenyas" lol...... they are just good at using socialist sounding rhetoric and vaguely socialist sounding policy to paint themselves as a left-leaning liberation group which they might have been in the eyes of their early founding members but by the time they actually became relevant abd powerful they didnt care about anything but money power and obvious land grabs made on an ethnic basis, using faked census records and quiet ethnic cleansing to invent the concept of "West Tigray" out of thin air (i challenge you to find anybody calling Welkait "West Tigray" before the 90s). And now they are gearing up to start another war by invading west tigray.

Just dont tell the people who say "free gaza free tigray" why the tigrayans want control of West tigray back lol...... its only partially about opening up an escape route to Sudan and having a foreign border. The biggest value of Welkait-Humera is its production of massive quantities of extremely high-quality sesame seeds, which are almost entirely shipped directly to israel to be processed and sold to Europe and America. This was an essential part of the TPLF' super close relationship with the israelis government, even though the israelis are supposedly currently backing the Ethiopian government these days, I could see that shifting fast if the govt fails to show any ability to hold onto that region lol. Like you know all those Ethiopian soldiers in the IDF? And that dramatic story about them escaping the Derg in airlift from Sudan? Well guess who helped arrange for this massive exodus of cannon fodder to Israel? That's right, the fucking TPLF lol. As an 'anti-Derg' action lol. And then when they got into power they made sure to REALLY cozy up to israel and completely entagle the two countries together. Thats honestly the main reason i will never trust them, even though they are currently supported by different powers in the region who seek to replace israel as a regional hegemon (Saudi-Turkish alliance). But they will ally with anyone who they think can help them lol, they are allied right now with the fucking Fano movement who they spent the last several years calling genocidal maniacs lol. Also the Eritrean government, who they also have been accusing of genocide. They have all been coordinating with each other and also the corrupt sudanese military dictatorship to plan a West tigray offensive and it's coming soon! Its just, they have zero loyalty, as long as they can create chaos and problems they will ally with whatever foreign power is willing to fund them, they have zero scruples and have not only worked closely with the zionists in the past but also now with groups who were documented to have committed horrific war crimes and crimes against humanity literally like less than 5 years ago! Against their own Tigrayan people! Its almost like the TPLF is a group of regional elites that use the language of ethnonationalism and national liberation to fool a largely uneducated populace into laying their lives down so the corrupt elites can get back into the old positions of power and once again do very little for the common people of tigray while engaging in cronyism and appointing all their rich family friends to high level posts in the military and other key govt position.

Like ughhhh sorry to rant but I can feel another storm coming and its finna be ugly as hell. I'm not excited

Got in touch with him today after not hearing from him for a while and it turns out one of his partners fell in love with some other guy so now they are just two couples who live in a house together. No more group sex with the new couple either, the other two are definitely up for fun but apparently they dont have sex with their old partner and his new boyfriend at all.

I just....he claims its all cool between them but i have to wonder at a certain point how that works. They new boyfriend is actually quite handsome, mature Asian dude, although not really a daddy type. I mean, I would take all 4 of them at once but its not happening