Platonic Suggestions

i used to see all the posts on this blog and be like "wow i wish i had a qpp" and now i see the posts here and think of my best friend and how much we love each other and sometimes i think i'd like to ask him how he feels about labeling our relationship as a qpr but even if we don't call ourselves that i'm still so happy and platonically in love it's amazing :D

hello! im not sure if this blog is still active or not but, can non aro/ace people be in a qpr? cuz i was thinking about asking someone to be in a qpr with me but neither of us are aro or ace

a few days ago I was talking to my best friend as usual and I accidentally said "I think our relationship is platonic" when he confessed me that he thought our friendship was too much, because we're a lot physical and intimate and sometimes people mistake us for a couple when we're together because we're so emotionally and physically close. and after that he said we actually are platonic partners and that he thinks that's the best word to describe our relationship. I'm so happy oh my god

So my friend and I are in a QPP but he wants me to be his partner but I just want to stay friends. He literally has no family or anyone really. And He’s disinterested in investing in other people besides me because he said he doesn’t need more than one person/partner in his life. Also, I am ace and aromatic, so I’m disinterested in needing or wanting a partner. I’m uncomfortable with being one and I don’t know how to tell this to him without crushing him. (and not lead him on)