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for example: i'm bi. when i was dating, i knew many gay and straight people who did not want to date bi people. that boundary is fine and i respect it. it has happened before they told me they don't want to date bisexuals because we're promiscuous and unfaithful. is that gross and offensive? sure. i don't respect that belief one bit. but i respect the boundary and never tried to force anything.

whether a woman aborts a disabled fetus because she personally can't care for a disabled child, or if she disgustingly sees disabled people as inferior, that has no bearing on whether on the morality of the abortion itself.

whether a woman chooses not to date/sleep with people from any marginalized race, belief system, gender, class, physical or mental ability, etc., it can be due to "acceptable" reasons of past experiences or incompatibility, or due to "unacceptable" bigotry (extremely loaded arguments of acceptibility btw), again, it doesn't matter for that choice itself.