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Classic

Sans is not a confrontational guy really, he's quick to fold, apologize, let something go or move on from something. Fights rarely happen or die out fast, even if you keep poking the bear well the bear don't tend to do much. That being dead there is a cut off point

If you cross a line or its something he does feel passionately about there is going to be some push back

Classic is definitely in the camp of "let's take a breather before we both say something we'll regret" he doesn't like confrontation at all but unfortunately conflicts are bound to happen in relationships. But again, regardless of how determined you are....he quickly grows tired.

Fighting is exhausting, anger is exhausting, the back and forth is exhausting. He doesn't like this happening at all. He wants to make things right but god damn it ain't gonna happen like this

Let's just calm down and try again later yeah? You two part, he fucks off to be on his lonesome, debating both sides while trying to ignore his feelings. He does at least keep his word, you two continue the conversation more civily later. Really just you two being pissed off at each other, going in circles a bit but as I said Sans stops it from escalating to that point. But really he just storms off and might be a little petty later depending on if you were hurtful

Blue

Fights in general are rare with Blue let alone when they escalate to this point.

But again Blue is stubborn, hard headed and has a big of an ego so I don't doubt that they don't ever happen. Still a rarity, and Blue might not know when to drop it. Listen he has no problem with confrontation, he wants answers, he wants you to understand, and so help him!

He does have the spirit, there is a problem let's solve it. But you're angry. He's getting angry. It keeps going and it will reach a boiling point. Blue doesn't let anger completely control him but he's prone to yelling, raising his voice and being insensitive ESPECIALLY when pissed off. When you two finally drop it but don't resolve anything well he's huffy

However, he still loves you... so picture a grouchy man muttering frustratedly about you....even as he cooks you dinner, cuddles you and takes care of you. He is mad at you but he doesn't love you any less but he's still mad! 😡 He can't be mad forever though especially if he realized he was actually in the wrong but still. He's stubborn but he promised to be the best boyfriend ever and this will not stop him.

Red

Red is the wrong guy for this situation, he gets mad fast and can get mean even faster.

If you return that attitude, then you're very much fighting fire with fire. However, part of Red will still recognize that "this is my partner. you cannot say that to them" but saying shit like that is his go-to for conflicts lmao. He is still sans #1ragebaiter sans, he's just far more aggressive about it with less patience

But this is YOU. He can only be so mean but he gets mean in fights, but he can't- okay he's frustrated and confused but also STILL PISSED OFF

So *throws hands up in the air* he'll go back and forth for awhile before he just storms off.

Proceeds to hit up Grillby's, down a lot of drinks, several cigars and plays some poker. Though he is thinking about you all night. He comes back. This conversation is far from over but you two both still cuddle up to each other after the fact. He doesn't care if you're still mad he's drunk and wants cuddles dammit.

In a way it's just a less graceful and less tactful, he is always a little petty after the fact though even if you find a resolution but he can be buttered up plenty trust me

Ace

Ace is pretty good at keeping his temper and he's plenty patient especially with his partner of all people. In any argument he remains very level-headed but also kinda passive aggressive. 😭

Not always intentionally mind you, but like a distinct vibe regardless of "knowing better" and its certainly not always appreciated. Ace himself is likewise big on emotionally control, he knows there's an issue but in order to solve it you gotta calm down some. So he's reminding you emotionally regulate as well.

Worst case scenario he might have a few hurtful jabs (ever the sharp tongue) but honestly his breaking point is full blown drama queen, huffing, raging, stomping his foot and like probably even the cold shoulder if its mostly you at fault. It doesn't last long, Ace is always a lot softer and nicer than he lets on but doesn't change the fact he went from-

Handling it very maturely

To

Dramatically drapped across the sofa as goes on and on about his woes over this lovers quarrel

Fresh

I do not know what you and Fresh would be fighting about 🤣

Instances that would inspire a big fight in a relationship with Fresh are few and far between. But I guess in an instance where one of you really fuck up- Fresh is probably confused, that confusions grows into anger and then he gets...well kinda mean. Not cruel mind you, but like a distinct vibe there's an edge to his words.

He's not happy, Fresh is not a creature big on empathy, and he does not like being put into situations where he has no idea what the fuck to do. It does invoke a weird aggressive side but he doesn't even yelled. It comes across as pissy and he is but like largely conflicted.

He might snap, flash some tentacles popping out of his eye sockets and hiss like you're an enemy. Then he snaps back to normal- he threatened you. He didn't like that and then he gets genuine. "Can we not?"

Things die down from there, emotional rollercoaster for us all.

Killer

He likes fighting. He is weird. I dunno, it's clear by now Killer likes messing with people and getting a kick out of it. You are no different, it's generally toned down and with a more affectionate focus but it's there. He find your anger amusing. He likes egging that on too.

And he really struggles to take anything seriously nowadays. So why not have some fun? But uh, then it starts to not be fun anymore. Assuming you get Killer heated or you get mad enough he might have an "oh shit- I fucked up"

Gaslighting is his default, it was really nothing, you're overreacting, please calm down it's not that big of a deal, please he meant well- definitely tries to play the victim a little....a lot. Some guilt tripping, you'd really think so little of him? You are welcome to call his bullshit but he is convincing

Plus it might not be entirely untrue, if you hurt his feelings he actually can make this work and be kinda right. If it goes according to plan you're left thinking it's your fault or ideally no one's fault- Killer while sadistic and something of a shithead doesn't want you to feel bad about yourself. If it doesn't well, you're even more mad at him.

He'll take it as a learning moment regardless, but he's pulling every trick to get you eating out of his hand. He's done nothing wrong and you absolutely love him, right?

Dust

He just shuts down. The moment he realizes this is a fight and he could potentially ruin everything, he does silent. Unresponsive. You're welcome to yell at him all you want. He does not hear it. He is not engaging.

Internally praying his hallucinations don't get triggered. Please. He can't handle anger well at all and he cannot live with the guilt if he actually hurt you then potentially hurt you badly. So yeah, no.

Nothing.

He'll leave when you leave. You don't see him for a few days. Then he's back and deliberately not bringing it up. It's really a matter of what the conflict was about in terms of whether he'll bring it up again, but otherwise? Unless you bring it up, then uh, it never gets brought up by him. At least not willingly.

Horror

Proceed with caution.

Anger issues, bad mental health, poor emotional regulation, and general impulsiveness means he is uh very not good for this. You are his partner, he has a soft spot for you. But in this instance in which he's already not happy don't deliberately add gasoline to the fire he will notice and he won't like it

Horror is quick to yell, snap, and insult, he will say something out of left field. He won't mean it but he'll still have said it. He never gets violent with you but throwing furniture, smacking walls, etc. Like I said the best thing to do is to just encourage him to calm down and be as soft as possible. If you both lose your tempers it's just a shit show

And let it be known he will not fight with you in front of Aliza, if you try he literally just ignores with the cold shoulder while actively thinking less of you. Leave the baby girl out of it, okay?

Admittedly Horror has the fastest recovery time, quick to realize he fucked up, went too far, etc. Guilt eats away at him and he tries to make it up to you in his own special way. Really up to you at what rate you can forgive him.

Cross

"Can we not fight!?" Please he hates this he's not good at verbal arguments in general so this is already not ideal for him, this wouldn't be ideal even if you weren't dating.

Cross folds quickly for the most part but if he feels wronged or offended he will make it known, not always tactfully and he's not above pouting like he isn't a grown ass man!

Cross won't do anything extreme, even if he said something hurtful he'd instantly apologize and it wouldn't be anything brutal just like a general harsh statement. But he is the least likely to back down fairly quickly, he's prideful, doesn't like being wrong but he's not stupid. He will see the error of his ways

If you're in the wrong well- CMON MAN STOP BEING A BITCH, HE LOVES YOU

It's moreso messy rather than anything, Cross is always the best out of the bad sanses per usual but while not emotionally damaging it is no less exhausting but speaking of prideful stubborn shitheads

Nightmare

Ah yes, Nightmare "I'm never wrong, source : bro just trust me" Sans. Good luck. He's already a manipulative bitch but his ability to sense emotions really gives him the upper hand. He will win any fight he's in. Or will die trying.

Joking aside, I will say it's not all loom doom and gloom. Nightmare does care about his partners and tries to keep them happy no matter the questionable methods. As a result surprisingly fights don't happen that often, if only because yeah....he can tell when you're unhappy and would rather handle it before anything escalates. And trust me if there's an easy solution he will take it before it gets to that point

But he can't account for everything. So while the vibe is better than you expect yeah- it's still a fight with Nightmare. Ever manipulative tactic Killer was pulling he is pulling tenfold and while you could see through Killer's bullshit it's a lot harder with this man. He knows you for better or worse, knowing just want to say, just what little white lie to sprinkle in, etc. And ideally you walk away forgetting why you were ever fighting or thinking the issue is resolved when it really isn't

If it don't work which- honestly kudos to you, well if you dont succeed the first time then uh- keep tying.

Strangely enough him picking a fight with you is moreso a lecture where he expects you to just accept then do better lmao, reminder he's an asshole

Dream

Pls no. He would rather do anything else. He will do anything else. Just tell him how to make this okay. He will do it and no this is barely a joke. Dreams biggest fault is he is a pushover ESPECIALLY a pushover with you.

Fights don't happen because he folds so quickly and genuinely does anything in his power to avoid them, apologizes when he's done nothing wrong, concedes you are completely in the right, etc. There's a reason I said Dream is most likely to enter a toxic relationship, he doesn't put his own needs at all

It can be frustrating especially if you try to get him to speak up more with very little results

Dream does have a back bone though, maybe not a strong one but assuming this is an instance where yeah even if you are his partner he can't just nod along and accept whatever this is without issue, so he has to push back.....it's like pulling teeth. He is still Dream, he doesn't yell and keeps things in check, accepts any anger on your end but he's still not backing down.

Might actually tear up a bit please you don't understand how much he hates this. Extending olive branches, compromises or just a plea for understanding wherever he can.

The recovery period is stupidly sweet afterwards though and he is just so happy you two aren't fighting anymore, he is soaking up affection like a sponge

Ink

Mixed bag???

Like there are elements that help him and hinder him here, like unless he's been pumped full of red paint he is unlikely to lose his temper- I mean you can't really lose something that you don't entirely have. In a weird way he's usually relatively level headed with arguments, like it's the tactical approach of Blue "there's a problem let's solve it" but with a more refined edge

That being said emotions are not his strong suit, his vitals help him understand him more than he ever could alone but it don't change the fact it's not a natural comprehension for him, he gets blindsighted, there are elements he is not accounting for and like there's no guarantee he'll get it.

Regarldess you are his favorite person and he doesn't like you upset so he's just kinda sad and confused, frustrated not even at you but at himself for not getting it. Memory issues might fuck him over, especially if you give him the cold shoulder "I gotta tell Y/N! Wait we aren't talking....why aren't we talking?"

He's thinking too hard about it too, either way cue him doodling a million things, acting like this is a math problem not a relationship problem, asking for advice (telling several people your business) and is basically like "TOP TEN REASONS WHY INK IS SORRY-"

If he's mad at you rather than the other way round' well just wait until he forgets lmao

Error

TEMPER TANTRUM

He's so easy to piss off, he cannot do social things for the life of him and like he is already struggling in this romantic relationship. The endless con of dating Error is you will always have to be the more mature one of the duo unless you want an endless headache but at that point you'd just be whatever he has with Ink but having a lot less fun. But of course expecting someone to be endlessly perfect in a relationship is not resonable'

Your best bet is to basically back down the moment he starts raging and kinda wait for him to get it mostly out of his system, calming him down when you started this conflict is going to get mixed results. Which keep in mind, as far as Error is concerned it's always going to be your fault.

I maintain that Error is the most likely to get violent with his partner and go from a bad to a VERY bad situation fast, but reminder he is not heartless. He does love and care about you. That gives you an advantage, play your cards right and he's just huffy afterwards.

Little sweet talk, bribery, exploiting his sweet spot and you might get what you want outta it. But it's very much a fine dance of playing your cards right.

Rey

Please- he's so tired. Everything I said about Classic doubles here, he is old and exhausted. Fights have never led to anything good in his long long life, he doesn't want to be in conflict with the people he loves anymore and frankly he really hopes the sentiment is returned with you. So how about this?

You just don't fight.

Rey is already willing to let most issues go ESPECIALLY post Pacifist route where he really doesn't have to worry about being King anymore but surely there is a way to just reconcile this entire thing peacefully then m Even if he has an issue with you he'd go about in the most peaceful manner possible. And if there is truly no compromise to be found....yeah.....

Hopefully your willingness to stay with him and his general mellow vibe in handling these things + him being arguably the most mature Sans on here just means this entire thing dies down quickly, with you two just taking a nap. Though depending on how heated you got it Rey might make a joke about your passion almost makes him feel like a young school boy again ;)

Ccino

The fact you didn't instantly fold when he pulled out the puppy dog eyes- you are a strong individual. The problem with Ccino is he just doesn't do fights, like with Dream I can see that side coming out even against his partner when push comes to shove but with Ccino he folds immensely quickly. And I'm sorry if you are raising a fuss about his cats he's just gonna dump you, that is the one thing he has a back bone about

Otherwise I'm not entirely sure what would happen. It'd just be a short fight not matter how bad because he'll apologize quickly, take all the blame, do whatever you want and it's kinda sad but please....

He really likes you. He wants you happy. He doesn't want to be in conflict with you and if he gets too emotional he will cry like a big baby about it.

Hopefully him bursting into tears makes you soften up then you have a more chill discussion cuz like the alternative is you dealing with a big ole' softie following you around like a kicked puppy trying to do everything he can to make this right and eventually his cats are gonna turn against you if you keep this up :<

Reaper

Reaper is...tricky....I dunno the vibe is more so stubborn and surprisingly set in his ways, he's not mortal like Rey so his age doesn't affect him to the same extent but at the same time he is death and beyond ancient. Reaper acts younger so this unyielding side of him likely takes you and probably most people by surprise. Plus there's just the fact that being a god...most issues you bring to him seem so small.

In his mind you are set over nothing, asking HIM the god of death to change like he hasn't been doing this long thing longer than you've been alive, and like- you don't get the vibe that he's really taking this seriously so it just makes things worse.

You're trying to have a conversation or even an argument he's like like "lol lmao even" and yeah I wouldn't blame you for getting pissed at him, especially when you just storm off. Surely you'll get over it, right?

Eventually it stops being fun though and eventually he'll realize he's kinda being a major dick in how he's treating his partners feelings, unfortunately he might not realize this until you storm off. Fortunately he's very sweet and tactful with his apology, learning better going forward.

Epic

Tends to fall back to humor in any intense situation, but he'll be quick to realize this is not the time for jokes. But also he is pulling the puppy dog eyes and pouting like he isn't a fucking forty old man,

Pwease don't be mad at him? 🥺 like he's just a little guy, like it's all the wet pathetic energy of Ccino except he's deliberately doing it to avoid the conflict escalating, if this works he doubles down if this doesn't work he doubles down if this makes more mad he's back pedaling so hard

Very hard for him to lose his temper when all is sad and done but even then I think worst thing he'll do is say something kinda mean or really just insensitive, it's never outright insults. He's quick to apologize when and if he is at fault, not big on holding grudges and just wants you happy. Painfully big on the sweet talk afterwards, also he is not above literally begging for forgiveness and trust me when I say he will be outside your door with a boom box

HIS HEARTS A STEREO THIS BEATS FOR YOU SO LISTEN CLOSE

I'd forgive him instantly just to stop the headache

Teddy

Teddy don't argue, you yell at him and tell him what to do, he take it like a man. Reminder he is the least aggressive in his entire au, it's not easy to poke the bear here. The bear asleep. The bear bored. The bear wanna be anywhere else. Plus his sadism and masochism only comes out when it involves physical stuff not emotional pain, as a result he's immensely mellow in most relationships.

Go with the flow, do whatever you want babe, he's not here to cause problems and honestly you getting mad is just kinda hot to him sorry not sorry

He's not in the same boat as Dream in which he'll never speak up if you do upset him but he's honestly low-key petty in how he handles it, it's all very minor stuff he's doing but it's intentional and mad passive aggressive. The vibe when it comes to fights is normally more tired as a result, but he does mirror Blue. Even if he is mad at you he still cares for you thus the lack of open hostility. But also Teddy isn't unreasonable he can concede when he's being an asshole lmfao

Apologies aren't common in his underground but he knows humans value them a lot more and he begrudgingly accepts he'll have to bridge that gap so he does do something genuinely sweet and owns up but he expects the favor somewhat returned at least.

Fallen Dream

Nuh-uh, be happy.

Fallen is very consistent with how he handles conflict and when it comes to his partner he snuffs out all pesky negative emotions very quickly. He's not dealing with it, he knows best and he knows nothing good will come from this. You get put under a trance are blissed out and lovingly held in his arms while he tells you his plans while petting your head. He is all sweet about it and it's from a place of love at least

But it still a fucking YIKES if there ever was one

If you can't be put under a trance for whatever reason, well you're just getting gaslit hard. Everything is fine, you're being silly and he is going to take care of everything whether you like it or not.

There's always this loving but still forceful edge to it all, which reminder this does come from a good place but Fallen is immensely delusional.

Reborn Nightmare

This man will crumble like a cookie dunked in milk, listen LISTEN he is not good at emotions and he is both very old while being very young at the same time. He is dealing with centuries worth of guilt, rediscovering himself, still fighting off the corruption while realizing that will always be a part of him whether he wants it to or not.

He already feels like he doesn't deserve this relationship or you so he is ugly crying the moment he thinks he did something wrong, rapidly apologizing, on his hands and knees, please he's so sorry let's talk about this he'll do anything

Honestly important reminder to be patient with him not only because he's an emotional mess but Reborn can easily turn a leak into a flood, he'll end the relationship because he'll come to believe that he'll end up doing more harm than good so try not to turn this emotional bomb into an emotional nuke lmao

Baggs

Remember when I said he can use his hypnosis unintentionally, yeah, as a result he's very unresponsive because he doesn't like doing that to his partners. He's not above it and like many of the other questionable shit he does there will always be a way to justify it but if he can avoid it he most certainly can so he's turning away, not making eye contact, "can we talk about this later?"

Might actually and probably does just piss you off more but still, he is to some extent thinking. Trying to figure this out but he's doing so without consulting you with your voice almost becoming white noise.

And he can get frustrated to the point he decides to bite the bullet then shut you up about it, his patience is long but it is not endless especially if you become very heated. But the guilt hits him endlessly, he'll just tell you to go to bed then think up a proper solution

Bonus points if he tries the hypnosis but you are determined enough to break through it this time then leave in even more of a huff, it's only a matter of time before he comes back with aggressive ass kicking to make up for it.

Color

A weird mix of Rey and Classic, he handles arguments very similarly in the sense he doesn't like confrontation and certainly grows very tired when he is involved in one. Very big on calming you down, generally quick to fold and very big on talking this out as peacefully as possible. But unlike Rey and Classic he's far more likely to get heated himself and start retaliating.

He has less of a tight grip on his emotions and he's not as good as keeping his composure, so him snapping back and making things worse it definitely a lot more likely. While he's quick to realize his mistake he is not quick to turn around and apologize. Because let me tell you he doesn't get like that for no reason

He'll be wise enough to throw in the towel and walk away for a bit, huff, cool down and then try again later with a more chill vibe but it won't be instant. But also he is still weirdly clingy, still mad at you but dammit he's holding your hand.

Delta

Oh boy- this one definitely has a temper and already a big trash talker, it is not a pretty sight when he actually gets mad and says something low-key hurtful. Which thankfully Delta will in fact instantly notice if he ever goes too far and we all know the drill he will punch himself in the face to punish himself for hurting you.

Doesn't undo anything though sadly...

He owns up and does whatever he'll need to do make it right, you might get the vibe he's a little huffy and still frustrated moreso at the situation than you but like- he likes fighting but this is very much not fun. But also dating Delta if you both have anger issues? Lets hit up a rage room or beat each other up in a friendly wrestling match

Likewise please punch him if he ever does get outta left field

If it's you outta left field...well expect some huffiness, you can fix it with kisses and attention

Captain

BORED. Well- maybe that's not the exact word, more so just unamused and quickly getting fed up with this nonsense. Being a pirate captain does mean some level of diplomacy so when a disagreement escalates into something more well he gets a bad gut feeling that this is going to take awhile and he knows there's likely no point to it.

You are a partner, not someone he just has to tolerate. So his temper always stays in check, you don't survive as an outlaw on the sea without keeping a cool head

Let's just focus on solving the issue here? But he's not perfect and hopefully you don't try to start this when he's drunk as otherwise it will be a mess with a lot of miscommunication, tone issues and him just not fucking following. Even if he is relatively sober he can get annoyed, petty, snappy and even a little dramatic. It'll be short lived and he makes it up to ya but yeah

Hop

Weirdly enough he shuts down very similar to how Dust does, but not to the same extent mind you. He's going very quiet, awkwardly looking away and just kinda letting you pop off at him. Unlike Dust who is nearly completely unresponsive and basically forcing himself to freeze in place to avoid triggering a violent episode....

Hop is tense, looking down at his feed and looking like a guilty kid receiving a lecture as he sheepishly apologizes, he's not a completely pushover. He does explain himself, he does own up, he does gently point out when you're fault, his wording is weird, his voice still timid and he's mad nervous but he's making it all clear regardless.

Fights are immensely rare because he takes very little issue in most things in general, very soft and genuinely apologetic afterwards.

Alost it was kinda hot seeing you mad send help

Insanity

Insanity and arguing? He don't. Also reminder he is the biggest masochist on this blog. Call him a piece of shit, hit him, yell at him, be mean to him, he eats that shit up but be careful as him returning all this energy is very possible. This is all a game to him in his very fucked up sadistic mind

So if he does something and you don't like it you usually do have to basically go "NO! BAD INSANITY!" and it's a lot closer to chastising a misbehaving pet than anything else. And frankly there's very little you can do to piss him off- say what you will he is truly devoted no matter how grotesque

He might bite you but he actually values your life so he'll never get too violent-

G

Okay. Whatever.

Disengages. He does not feel up to it right now. When will he? Who knows, not his problem, you're being bitchy and not in the hot way!

Not his best moments, it's petty and prideful with him kinda being a douche about it. However this is a moment where the Gaster side and the Sans side clash against each other. Gaster responds with emotional detachment, looking at things as a scientist and thinking very logically, Sans is wanting to nope out, deflect with humor and avoiding all of this. So the first response is to just dismiss all of this and hopes it blows over

He really doesn't like opening up emotionally so good luck, he'll just give the cold shoulder for a bit and hope you let it go. He will try to meet you halfway though, he does care about you and doesn't want you upset but fuck this being vulnerable thing is hard and he doesn't know what to do.

Outer

Stays calm, it's almost annoying. He cracks a joke to test the waters, you don't respond well. Okay, he gets this is something serious and you two need to talk, but you two need to have a talk. Not a fight. He wants you to calm down and at this point in the relationships he knows several steps on how to help you.

After that it's a guided soft discussion, how does that make you feel, what is the issue, is there anything either of you can do, anything you want him to do and it's just immensely chill. Reminder he is the most level headed, emotionally mature and generally most gentle of the bad sanses. He is not afraid to be open about his feelings, unlike G fully ready to be vulnerable.