i'm just a girl

to be loved is to be seen

I'm so tired of reading comments of people saying "move on" as if they have any fucking clue of what I've been through in the last 5 months. Writing about it gives me comfort since I cannot lean onto anyone around me. The life I was supposed to have with who I thought was the love of my life, won't exist. So let me fucking grieve and feel the pain. A divorce and having to be a single mom when that was not the plan at all destroys a part of you completely, so let me feel it and let it go when I feel ready to. I know I will be fine and in due time I will stop writing on here and I'll be completely healed, but until then don't assume I'm not moving on. Expressing how it felt or feels at the moment is a step towards acceptance and healing. So let people grieve however they want to, and for however long they need to. Pain is different for everyone.