freef on a leef

you know how american conservatives will call anything they dislike "communist" regardless of its relation to actual ideology and history of communism. this website is exactly the same with the the word "puritan"

post metoo post amber heard and there are posts going around on this site by “feminist” bloggers about how “believe survivors” is a dumb phrase that oversimplifies the Complex issues about how false allegations happen all the time… no they don’t. they literally do not we have countless statistics to back this. and you know why they don’t? bc if you tell someone you have been sexually assaulted they view you as a Victim forever. the people whose lives are most ruined by SA allegations as a rule are the people who come forward

the thing is i think tumblr just likes to squash the nuance out of difficult topics bc yes it is a common abuse tactic to use DARVO to obscure who is the victim and who is the perpetrator. cis men love to do this, esp bc cis men who claim to be abuse victims generally get more sympathy than women or gender minorities who do. but i don’t think that translates into “take any abuse or SA allegation with a grain of salt”