Bambi, my little Bambi

Don’t even remind me pls I’m pissed enough as it is 😭😭😭😭😭😭 you’re telling me the last I’m gonna see of Marie & jordan is in the boys & it’s probably gonna be such little screen time

THIS IS SUCH BULLSHIT

AHHHH THATS SO COOL!

My bsf is in her last year of studying to be a vet physio!

I hope all goes well diva!!

and also the concept of explaining South African slang to them as well…

ANYWAYS HOWRE YOUU

trying to explain to jordan li what “are you jas” & “yoh” means or what the difference between “now” and “now now” means 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

I’m giggling just thinking about it yirre

if that makes sense.

delusional? probably… do i care? NAHH

i just love the concept of infodumping my special interests to fictional characters 🥹

and they’d listen so intently to you too!!

genuinely pisses me off that jordan li isn’t a real person 😩😩😩😩😩😩

HOWZIT?

(i had to immigrate out here to Canada almost seven years ago tho but i still always get so excited when i see someone else from my home whether it be online or in person)

HAIIII ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

I’ve already explained this before, and I’m honestly getting really tired of being asked about it. My blog exists for my writing, my creativity, and my enjoyment. I’m not here to meet expectations, fill representation quotas, or justify my personal preferences. I’m here because I love writing and sharing stories, and I want the focus to stay on that: not on my identity or what people think I should be writing.

I mostly write and reblog fem!reader because that’s what I personally enjoy writing, reading, and engaging with. That’s the format that comes naturally to me, that inspires me, and that makes writing fun. There is no deeper meaning behind it other than I can't ignore that most of my followers and moots are also fem people too; and that's mainly what they write and read. Plus, I love supporting people's work.

I also need to be very clear about something regarding gender, because people seem extremely fixated on it. I am a cis man but my experience of gender is complicated. I’m autistic, and I don’t feel connected to gender in a typical way. I don’t truly feel like a man, a woman, or even nonbinary; my gender feels like a void. Something distant, abstract, and not central to who I am... like an entity. I’ve never really felt attached to any pronouns either, but since I am a cis man, he/him pronouns are simply easier for me, socially and practically. For a long time, I felt like that was just it, that this was how I was supposed to exist and move through the world. But here, in this space, I finally feel free enough to actually speak about it.

Because of that, seeing people constantly analyze, question, or police what I should write based on gender assumptions is exhausting, invasive, and completely missing the point. What I write is not a reflection of how I see myself, and it is not something I owe an explanation for.

Fanfiction and reader-insert writing are about comfort, creativity, projection, fantasy, and enjoyment. Everyone chooses the formats that feel right to them. This one is mine.

At this point, I’m genuinely asking people to stop sending me asks about this. I want to focus on my writing, my ideas, and my stories, not on repeatedly defending my preferences or dissecting my identity. If you enjoy my work, I’m incredibly grateful. If my content isn’t for you, that’s completely okay... there are thousands of amazing writers out there creating all kinds of formats.