heal from whatever you got going on that made you so unpleasant and weird. it is not the slightest bit cringe to want your loved ones to know you at your fullest. i don’t feel it’s an absolute necessity to come out to your parents if you don’t want them in your business, but i don’t feel the need to dunk on anyone that wants to do so with their own.

dating a man forever won’t make someone less bi and bi women aren’t barred from embracing their identity just because they met somebody they want to stay in a relationship with before they found out. you are weird and gross for implying she needs to do anything to be bi except feel strongly that she is. she’s not auditioning for you, she’s living her life—a life that will never ever intersect with yours anyway. you have the faintest idea of what her life or relationship is like, but feel so bold to make a judgement.

bi women are not “hungry for attention” any more or less than the rest of us are. they just want to be seen within their community, a community that is hostile towards them, like anybody else does.

Will he be as gentle as you?

I said, “Honey, I don’t feel so good, don’t feel justified. Come on, put a little love here in my void.” He said, “It’s all in your head.” And I said, “So’s everything.” But he didn’t get it. I thought he was a man but he was just a little boy.