Papi Oso & Cherry

For everybody:

1. Are you a: gainer, encourager, mutual gainer or all of the above? 2. Sexuality? 3. Are you on grommr, fantasy feeder or feabie? 4. What made you start a gaining tumblr? 5. Tumblr crushes? 6. Best gaining and FA blogs on tumblr? 7. Are you in a relationship? If yes is it a feederism relationship?   8. What did you think about your “urges” before you discovered that gaining was a thing (we’ve all been there) 9. What do you like most about this community? 10. What do you hate most about this community? 11. What is your earliest memory about this scene? 12. What is your weirdest memory about this scene?

For gainers:

13. Are you now or have you been actively gaining before? 14. How long have you been actively gaining? 15. What is your current weight? 16. What are you current measurements? 17. What size clothes you’re wearing? 18. What is your goal in gaining (physically)? 19. When it comes to relationships you prefer: a thin encourager, a fat encourager or another gainer? 20. When it comes to encouragers do you prefer: forceful, pushy, teasing, handsy, romantic, submissive, good cook? (multiple options are permitted) 21. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you gaining wishes? 22. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)? 23. Being fed by another person or nom by yourself? 24. Eating while fucking (or being fucked)? 25. Forcefeeding? 26. Being teased? 27. Being humiliated? 28. Being worshipped? 29. Bossing around an “obliging” encourager? 30. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply? 31. Your biggest fantasy gaining wise? 32. Your most intense fantasy gaining wise? Would you like to go for it IRL? 33. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your gaining lifestyle? 34. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your gaining lifestyle? 35. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.

For Encouragers:

36. Are you now or have you been actively encouraging anybody before? 37. For how long? 38. What is your goal in gaining (physically)? 39. When it comes to relationships you prefer: an already obese person, a new gainer or it doesn’t matter? 40. When it comes to gainers do you prefer: Dominant, shameless, proud, submissive, romantic, a lifter or shy? (multiple options are permitted) 41. Would you consider fattening up an unsuspecting partner who’s not into gaining? 42. Would you consider gaining for your partner? 43. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you feederism wishes? 44. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)? 45. Feeding someone or let him nom by himself? 46. Feeding while fucking (or being fucked)? 47. Forcefeeding? 48. Teasing a fatty? 49. Humiliating a fatty? 50. Worshipping a fatty? 51. Serving a bossy gainer? 52. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply? 53. Your biggest fantasy that related to feederism? 54. Your most intense fantasy related to feederism? Would you like to go for it IRL? 55. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your feederism lifestyle? 56. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your feederism lifestyle? 57. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.

Reblog if you want your followers to ask you these questions.

HOWEVER.

I opened my computer last night and saw he’d tried to called me. Seven times. So that popped up the chat log for me to cap! Note, he’s bought shows, photos, and videos before. He is fully aware of what I look like and that I’m real. Here’s the convo from when he reestablished contact:

And then we go to scheduling. This was a week ago. I don’t stay logged in on Skype because I get a lot of messages, and I told him that unless he gave me a time, I wouldn’t be on. And yet. 

Pretty desperate for a guy who apparently doesn’t know if I’m real lol

Fast forward to earlier this week:

And then I briefly unblocked him to send him a sceencap of a conversation from a while ago when we were first skyping, just to remind him what he lost.

Peeps, I don’t waver on my rules. You don’t go into a movie theater and say you’ll pay afterward. The only people who would try that are those who aren’t gonna pay.