Not Waving but Drowning

You have been battling these issues for so long, give yourself some credit for how much you overcame. For how much you fight. For how much you try. For the time you take to care for your health.

the feeling of boobs pressed against boobs is better than whatever heaven’s got in store

btw being excessively nonconfrontational is NOT a positive trait. it does not mean u are “too nice” or just too kind to hurt people, it means u have a problem communicating and you need to work on it.

‘This behavior comes from trauma’ and ‘This behavior is harmful to you, to others and to your relationships with others’ are two truths that can co-exist, and that do co-exist quite frequently.

i love canceling plans. dear maria count me out

White people ate w “easy peasy lemon squeezy”

Pay attention to your patterns. The ways you learned to survive may not be the ways you want to continue to live. Heal and shift.

It’s not fair that you were abused. It’s not fair that you were hurt. It’s not fair that you’re having to heal from things that someone else did to you. It’s not fair, and it’s okay to admit that sometimes. A lot of people push that “life isn’t fair” and we need to “work with the hand we’ve been dealt.” And while those things are true, it doesn’t mean your feelings aren’t valid. It is okay to sit down and acknowledge that it’s not fair what you’ve been through and that it should never have happened. 

Welp.