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Just wanted to come on here and tell you all I turned (2)4, May 21st. (So hard hiding the tats and I think it’s so silly no one here knows I had any until now). Hope you all love the changes I made to my page because I sure do!

Fill my inbox, I miss being on here and engaging with you all 🩷

When pacifier training your little girl,

it’s important to start small. Offer it to her at the slightest sign of discomfort or inconvenience. She may refuse at first, finding it too silly, but consistency is key. Once she begins to accept it, be sure to shower her in praise and affection as positive reinforcement for this type of behavior. There are days she may regress in her training and claim she doesn’t need it. Use these moments as learning opportunities for her by strapping her pacifier in her mouth for as long as is deemed necessary to help settle her down. As the dependency takes deeper root, keep her pacifier clipped to her top, so it’s never too far from her fussy, little reach. Soon she’ll be lost without the comfort she takes in nursing on her pacifier.

Encourage her to make her suckling obvious. The puffy cheeks and loud, greedy, wet smacks emitting from behind her pacifier shield provide her caregiver with the much needed proof that not only does baby have her pacifier securely in place where it belongs, but also that she is adequately acquiescing to her new accessory even when she’s out of sight. Sure, she’s guaranteed to have a chin that’s permanently drenched and dripping with drool, but that just means it’s time to add another accessory to her repertoire - her ✨bib✨

Messing yourself while incontinent is literally one of the best feelings ever, ha ha. It feels very different from what I remember messing being like as a continent person (which I hated), and you don’t exert any effort whatsoever for it to happen : 3

Hmm, how best to describe this. 

If you don’t want to hear intricate details about messing, look away now, ha ha ha.

These days, I only ever get about five minutes warning that I’m going to mess myself, sometimes even less depending on what I’ve eaten. To start, there’s like this slight feeling of weight in my bowels beforehand, and that’s the little notice I get before everything starts happening. 

You’ll have to use your imagination a little bit here because there are truly unique sensations involved, but, try and imagine the feeling of your bowel muscles being like completely locked open, and, there being no feeling of resistance whatsoever, none at all; the messing is just totally unimpeded. 

I guess the actual messing part is like, the messing starts happening much faster than you might expect as a continent person, but although you start messing quite quickly, it’s actually extremely gentle and even pleasant in a way. You don’t feel a single muscle doing anything while you’re messing yourself, none at all (which is probably the best part, how totally relaxing it is), and all you can feel while this is happening is the warmth and mushiness coming out of your body, and the slight weight in your bowels disappearing.  

That’s probably another part that makes it so good. When you become bowel incontinent you usually start messing yourself two or three times a day after you eat, and because your bowels and digestive system get so in tune with each other and work in tandem, your messes are almost always extremely soft when they come out. I cannot for the life of me remember the last time I was ever constipated, regardless of what I ate, ha ha.

I think that’s probably about all the details I can think of to answer your question. If you were wondering how it happens from a biological standpoint without a person choosing to manually push though, well, we all have muscles in our bowels that cannot be consciously controlled, and these work to push a mess through your body using a technique called peristalsis. When you become incontinent, it’s these involuntary muscles that completely take over and push the mess out into your diaper without any of your conscious thought or input. 

The look your little gives you when she's got her paci tucked between her lips, slow little sucks pulling every worry right out of her head...watch how the whole world melts away until there's only pink, warm, quiet 🎀

uhhh i dunno if im using this right, my legs got all wet! 😖 usually Daddy holds my hand, I need an adult...

I belong in diapers because I have accidents in my big girl panties

I belong in diapers because I feel safe in them

I belong in diapers because I look cute in them

I belong in diapers because I like pooping my pants

I belong in diapers because I’m too stupid to make it to the potty in time

I belong in diapers because I’m immature

potties are so super gross & scary !!

boy do i have a solution for uuuu ♡

reminder for all parents of children enrolled at small starts nursery school--

please do not send your potty-training student to school in overalls or other difficult to remove outfits

thank you!