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my love. my darling. my stars. my moon.

#raquayza is a snake hanging from the ceiling fan

Love when people make an effort. Love to make an effort also

some people make us feel at home. their voice, their smell, their entire presence can make us feel safer than any four walls with a roof could attempt to and i think if you have someone like that you're really freaking lucky.

You deserve love now. Not once you lose weight. Not once you accomplish that thing. Not once you move. Not once you get on medication. Not once you start therapy. Not once you get that job. Not once you're more like them. Now. You don't have to earn the right to be loved. You deserve it right now, and always have.

just like it’s important that we let people embrace and be flamboyant with their gender, we must allow people to have gender be a nonimportant part of their identity. a cis woman can love being feminine and claim her womanhood loud and proud, just like another cis woman can just be ‘whatever’ about it. a trans woman can be hyperfeminine and proud, while another can just say ‘yeah i’m a woman’ without it being a gigantic deal to her. a non-binary person doesn’t have to be constantly torn up about their gender identity to be non-binary. all experiences of gender are unique and valid in their own way.

If gender makes no sense to you, you are allowed to just give up and ignore it